She allowed him in Soha's life, not hers or her family's! he is living there cause he wanted to fulfil his daughter's demand. she couldnt just automatically go live in an hellish dixit mansion as dev suggested!!!! Sonakshi wanted normalcy for her child as she adjusts to her new life with Dev as the father. But Dev is rushing without consideration to what soha is used to and people around her. He cant just cut out someone from her life because he is there and Jatinis no longer required. Dev doesnt make those decisions! And sonakshi has never said dev is bad to soha and neither she is sayjng to dev that he is bad. she has asked him to stop taunting, starting fights, and backoff family matters. Jatin is part of soha's life.. dev cant throw him out by just showing up.
why dev is notin soha's life.. its due to his mother and hisown actions. yes, sona might not have tried hard enuff but she did try. wven after what dev did and said toher.. even after prenup which said.. dev or his family will havenothingto do with thechild that is born fromthemarraige if devakshi r not together. just like sona could have tried harder, drv could have just tried once.. instead of drinking, partying and womanizing!
Dev was not in Soha's life because Sonakshi didn't want him to be there...she just came once to meet him with Soha and that too with out informing him...when she very well knew how his family members were...She also knew Dev wanted a tiny Sonakshi from her...but his parting words did hurt her...hence she didn't want him to know that she was carrying his child...her visit was to clear her guilt of hiding the child from him...
If a mother genuinely wants her childs father to be with the child she would find ways...just the way she suggested of 7days deal...
A man can impregnate a woman and be a biological father...but the real father will be the one who mom shows the child ...and here she might not have done it directly ...but indirectly gave this right to Jatin ...having said this ...Sonakshi couldn't accept anyone in Dev's place...for Soha Jatin already was a father figure...later as Soha grew up...she wanted to know her biological father and fate also had a different story to say...there he found out the truth and he confronts his daughter...Sonakshi didn't have a choice ...did she..??