Whose mistake it is ??? - Page 5

Originally posted by: grace4317

Nitu...Agree with you.

And if Jatin was there in all forms of support for Soha, Sona & Bose family, why did she bother to come with Soha to meet Dev...Today, Sona said Jatin was a father figure to Soha...And till she decided to come to Delhi, she hadn't told Soha about Dev. That means Soha also was OK with Jatin as the father figure...When Sona had not bothered to inform Dev about her pregnancy, she should have the guts or courtesy (whatever you can call) not to inform Dev about Soha lifelong...Why this half-hearted drama when Soha was 6months old and then informing Soha before coming to Dev etc. etc...Just to remove her guilt & keep her conscience clear...Then I would say, being selfish in Baba's way of not allowing Dev know about Soha would be better...Atleast Dev would have lived the way he was living, instead of reminding him about the bitterness and too only because he happened to fall in love with Sona...that is not fair.

Agree with you .I doubt whether she understands the relationship between Jatin and Soha .Jatin might be her favorite uncle but father figure is difficult to digest .Has Soha ever seen Jatin as father like Golu considers his BigCha to be ?

I am still unable to understand how could she blame Dev for not being there when she knew he was not aware of her pregnancy?Did she find solace in Jatin's presence that she no longer needed Dev during her pregnancy? I would be happy if she accepts for once that Jatin was more than a friend to her .

Originally posted by: .kashishbano.

Completely Agree dear.

very well said.

Thought the same when sonakshi gave a long bashan about jatin goodness.

It is her mistake not dev's.

Well said ..it's like pat bhi meri chit bhi meri kinds

Originally posted by: Devakshilover

Oh please he was not left homeless or penniless like sonakshi's family

Originally posted by: Snehavinaya

U are absolutely right. I am tired of all this. As pointed out, it looks like she is taking revenge on him.
Playing with the emotional side of his- manipulate him emotionally- make him weak.
After coming back to Delhi she would have planned this.
The arrogance with which she spoke- Dev doesn't deserve this treatment.
She could have explained this nicely also.
She knows Dev will feel jealous.
I think this time it will backfire for sure.
Dev won't budge this time.

Instead of making Dev always jealous, for a change makers can bring in a beautiful understanding girl for Dev who will do anything for Dev & head over heels in love with him.
Let him leave all this.
Sometimes soha also taking him for a ride.
I think Dev should not get overly attached to soha.
Sorry, my pov

The arrogance and I am perfect attitude is what irks me the most .I hate to say this but subconsciously she feels she is going Dev a favor by allowing him in Soha's life .She feels she and her family n friends have more say in Soha's upbringing.

I would love to see a understanding girl in Dev life even if it a friend I don't mind and Dev should allow her to have more rights than Sona in Soha's upbringing just like how Sona is behaving today but I know makers won't show anything of that sort

Originally posted by: randommusings

Initially your post was reasonable. Dev could very well question Sonakshi and Sona has good enough justifications for the same. Whether they believe each other's intentions is yet to be seen.

'After the breakup you should have taken her to a doc to get her checked to see if Shimla night worked or not'

But this suggestion tbh indicates that Sona was just a baby machine nothing else. This line feels like Sona is an object not a real woman.

I would you to go back and read the post .If I had considered her as baby making machine then I would not have called it as shameless and insensitive act .Earlier , when this was discussed many suggested that Dev should have checked with Sona about her pregnancy

Originally posted by: dbrk

I din hear Sonakshi taunting Dev for Jatin.
Dev came and asked her why was Jatin in this house, who was he to her.
She just explained him that he was the person who stood besides them in their hard times and with that right he is in that house, playing with Suhana and holds very important place in her life.
She din say that he was with me when u were not there.
Did Sonakshi say it was Dev's fault?

Please again see the scene

Dev keeps on bullying Sonakshi and u expect her to explain him nicely??

My point was if Dev wasn't there it was because of Sonakshi.The arrogance in her voice was quite evident and Dev was not wrong in questioning his position in his daughter's life .As per the deal ,Dev was here to bond with his daughter and was not here to take insults from her father .Neither is she agreeing for a seperate home nor keeping her dad in check and top of that Jatin is hijacking Soha's time .

One expect her to be fair and not blame him for her decisions and mistakes .

Originally posted by: _TheJoker-

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Correct! 100% correct.
she should have called Dev or at least try to find out how he is doing after telling her that she couldnt be a good wife... couldnt be a good daughter in law...how he was dealing with the "pain" after telling and pointing her weakness or inability to give birth to a child... how miserable he must have been after telling her that it was good that she couldnt become a mother because she would make a bad one. she should have understood that it was HER duty to go and ask forgiveness for not being a good wife/DIL or being not able to become a mother. she should have understood and return to him to know that how he is dealing with the pain of telling her that she was after his money. 😕

the so called suffering Dev keeps blabbering about would have been avoided had he regretted even one sentence and had gone to at least find out that if she was alive or did she die without any kind of resources?

HE was the one to tell her to get OUT and SHE should have come to find out???👏

Dev Dixit is way to "mahaan" for flawed Sonakshi to be with him. I hope Sonakshi either ends up alone or with Jatin. they can share join custody because the way things are going...making them stay together is more dangerous for Suhana's mental health.
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So you do agree that difference of opnion between Dev and Sonakshi was the reason for her to keep Soha away from Dev .Her ego and personal issues was more important to her than Soha was .He was busy being a hurt wife than a mother to Soha

If I remember correctly,she was not behind in hurting Dev .She was the one to call him loser ,spineless and holding his collar i from of his family ,doubting his love for her by believing Vicky .If Dev hurt her than so did Sona. Today she is Dev's shoes and is she handling the situation any better ? She was the one who suggested 1 week arrangement yet she cannot keep her father in check nor can balance relationship.Its easy to blame others but when you are in their shoes you will know the pain .If Dev had acted like Sona then he should have packed his bag and left as she said get out twice .

Again the purpose of this post was not to discuss who was at fault during separation but how Dev was deprived of Soha's intial years yet he was blamed .

Sona can end with whoever she wants but atleast let her have the guts to say she has replaced Dev in her life with Jatin and want to spend her life with Mr perfect Jatin .Hope she doesn't use Jatin like she used Ritwick .

Originally posted by: mehraan

Perfectly agree with u dear...Each n every word is true when i saw how todays scene played out...Dev couldnt take the responsibility of Soha then cos he was not made known ,he was kept in complete darkness...So there should be no GILA or SHIKWA on him in the first place?...Wat Jatin did,.Dev would have done 10000 timesmore if he was informed cos he was her dad !He would come back running to her...

I dunno about legally but yes morally n most importantly the conscience that resides in us ...How can she even think of hiding such a big news from the person who is equally respinsible n own same right as hers to that happiness ... n mostly he has lost 6 precious yrs of his childs life...Is ego n arrogance worth more than her child?or evn her conscience?

Exactly Meher (Hope I got your name right ) .I am waiting for the day Sonakshi will realize how she has been unfair to Soha and Dev .Its sad to see that she still needs Asha and Jatin's help to understand Dev .Dev not only lost 6yrs but now he doesn't even have any say in Soha's upbringing. I wonder if I will ever see her accepting her mistakes .

Whatever Jatin did was great and I respect him but in all this he forgot she was the one snatched the opportunity from Dev and handed it to Jatin . So why blame him and snatch his rights after 6yrs as well

Originally posted by: rockstar.sj

<font color="#990000">even if sona would have revealed as momma's diaper baby he would have snatched soha with in no time he is capable of going low .when he can make her jobless and ritwicks career down this was peanuts he was finically strong and sona was homeless.</font>

<font color="#990000">what u expect sona die or be doormat just because u feel dev is saint he is worst written character on tv wether u like it or not script writer has ruined beyond repair and now sona turn her characterization getting lower by the day</font>

<font color="#990000">s sona isperfectat least truthful unlike dixits its dev weakness who blindly believe his mom and family he has trust issues with sona and</font><font color="#990000">self-centered me myself my pain my mom others pain struggles dont even bother him</font>

<font color="#990000">p.s---dont report my debate its a fun debate u can disagree but dont go to mods for pity things its a debate no offense</font>

<font color="#990000">urtopic is fun enjoy</font>

lol I am laughing at your P.S ...if you get personal then definitely your post will be reported otherwise what reason would people give to report the post .You can disagree but with respect is what many are looking for ...

Dev has given enuff proof of shamelessness...

forgetting prior marraige..after marraige..
telling sonakshi do whatever u want with room, then go cry & whine to mummy
hid her medical info from her even after wedding
was getting fertility treatments dine on sonakshi without her consent
manipulated her to undergo fertility so his mummy can be happy
slapped his FIL
pushed sonakshi two different times in rage
blamed her for trying to hurt his mom
throwing the whole infertility thjng jnher face when she came to ask him about prenup and getting his parents thrown out of home
telling her she was always after his money
picking up random women and spendknf days and nights out
flirting with elementry school teacher in frontof kids
slamming her against the wall
tieing her up with a rope
twlling sona kya kya kiya hoga successful hone ke liye

precap.. threatening an ex sasur jiske ghar mein ghus ke gundagardi kar raha hai

what other shamelessness he will do?