Whose mistake it is ??? - Page 8

Originally posted by: yyy

If Dev was missing during Sonakshi's delivery or when Soha was born or during her labor days then whose is responsible for this ? Was Dev responsible for not being there .As per the flashback,Sona decided to tell Dev about Soha only when she was 6 months old so before that she never bothered to inform Dev about his child .If Dev has missed all this it's not because of his carelessness but because of Sonakshi.

If she hated him so much after the fight that she didn't want to shate the news with baby's father then why give birth to his child and then fail to inform him? Here Sonakshi is legally and morally wrong for keeping Dev in dark about her pregnancy.When will she realize this mistake of hers ?

My only advise to Dev is ,you should have been shameless n insensitive.After the breakup you should have taken her to a doc to get her checked to see if Shimla night worked or not .Looks like it was not Sonakshi's duty to inform you about pregnancy but ur job to find out the truth .

I am sure if a Dev had hidden the child from her then he would be in jail for separating the mother and the child but it's Sonakshi Bose and she is perfect n can never be wrong .

Originally posted by: yyy

If Dev was missing during Sonakshi's delivery or when Soha was born or during her labor days then whose is responsible for this ? Was Dev responsible for not being there .As per the flashback,Sona decided to tell Dev about Soha only when she was 6 months old so before that she never bothered to inform Dev about his child .If Dev has missed all this it's not because of his carelessness but because of Sonakshi.

If she hated him so much after the fight that she didn't want to shate the news with baby's father then why give birth to his child and then fail to inform him? Here Sonakshi is legally and morally wrong for keeping Dev in dark about her pregnancy.When will she realize this mistake of hers ?

My only advise to Dev is ,you should have been shameless n insensitive.After the breakup you should have taken her to a doc to get her checked to see if Shimla night worked or not .Looks like it was not Sonakshi's duty to inform you about pregnancy but ur job to find out the truth .

I am sure if a Dev had hidden the child from her then he would be in jail for separating the mother and the child but it's Sonakshi Bose and she is perfect n can never be wrong .

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Take my word Nitu,Sonakshi will never regret not informing Dev about her pregnancy. You must have observed her tone and expression when she was telling Jatin was by her side during delivery as if it is Dev's fault not to be there. She has no intention to share the news with the father to be.

Originally posted by: SummerRain7

hi you have raised a very sensible point ( in green). many in the forum feel that it was Dev who threw away sonakshi from his life. If his single statement of "GET OUT" is so valuable that it is enough to break a relationship then why is it " I CHOOSE YOU OVER MY FAMILY" not enough to get them back together?

remember he said this before he spouted all the nonsense of maa nahi ban sakti stuff. ( and haan before you bash me , i already termed it as nonsense)

To me basically i dont see that Dev threw her away . sona was vexed with the toxicity surrounding her, she had lost the "TRUST" in Dev and hence chose to walk away. (and this giving up on TRUST is what dev is holding against her, this is the sole reason why he cannot forgive her. only if people can see beyond the filter of dev is a jerk)

Walking away was her decision and once taken neither of the parties need to have any to do with either of them. Dev not contacting sona or trying to find out her whereabouts is as logical as Sona not trying to contact him.

Coming back to soha, yes no matter where they stand as a couple, soha was conceived because of both of them and both have equal rights over the baby. Dev not being aware of her existence until 6 yrs does not lessen his rights in any way. this was circumstantial and i dont agree to either of them belittling the other for this.

The whole " JATIN PURAN" of sona saying " he has fulfilled your role in our lifes" to Dev is illogical.

There is no reason/ explanation as to why an EX who is unaware of the happenings would ever be present with her . If sona was expecting dev to be present for her and soha inspite of him being her ex, and holding it against him, then there can no bigger dumbhead than her.

Today she is a mess and she needs to get her priorities right before she can badger Dev.

Originally posted by: yyy

I expect a pregnant lady to just make a call or email her husband.I am sure she was not that poor not to afford a single STD call especially when her rich best friend was financing her business and taking care of her .

She has called him names and she was the one who trusted Vicky over him so let's not just focus on Dev's words .Its not a good reason for her to hide this truth and later taunt him of not being there and not having haq etc

Originally posted by: ritika311

he even said she married him so that she could uplift her middle class F*Ly n help her brother..his exact words to her were..u didnt love me, u loved my money...u married me so that ur stupid brothers life cld be set...middle class life ko thoda utta sakhu.( episode 229)..he said she wasnt a good bahu n couldnt do the duty of becoming a mother and even if she became a mom she would have been a bad one...hearing all this she should have been at his feet again...no girl in their right mind would do it hearing all that nonsense...she tried her best to adjust in that house of his and all he did was be mute spectator to sonakshis insults...he was quite aware of his mom s attitude toward sonakshi and her insecurites...what did he do to rectify them? as sonakshi said he was supposed ot be the bridge between his mom n her...all he did was to find temp solutions...when her infertility was exposed...his only concern was how to appease his mom n he cldnt even wait to hear a yes from sonakshi...ok, his mom stuggled to bring him up to where they r now but that doesnt make his ignorance to Sonakshi correct.

Originally posted by: yyy

Like I said in other post ..difference of opnion between couples cannot be the reason for a mother to deprive her child of father's love .Thia topic is discussed to death on who is wrong and who is what .We all know how much efficient is Sonakshi in balancing relationship btw Dev and Bijoy

If Sonakshi had hated Dev before Shimla night then why did she make out with him in Shimla ? If she feels she is being manhandled then why doesn't she say anything or shout for help instead she is busy trying him dhoti,going with him to jungle , sharing the bedroom with him .

Originally posted by: swash2

When was it ever shown it was several women and in different hitel rooms? They just showed that one scene and don't you think it was too damn coincidental that Dev happened to be living/booking a room right next to Sona's for hus tryst/flings?

He knew Sona was there and that was put up just to irritate her. Even if they show later that he had had affairs, that one lone scene does not warrant branding him as a man having slept with many women!

Come on all, it was as much as Sona's fault that their marriage broke up! If Ishwari coddled Dev, Bijoy held Sona's strings! Dev was always Ishwari's puppet and Sona was always Bijoy's shadow!

And if what Sona said today was right, they were never stranded! They always had Jotin! A guy who was never once mentioned nor seen suddenly occupies a much more importance place than Saurav because he funded them and stood by them?

Originally posted by: yyy

My point was if Dev wasn't there it was because of Sonakshi.The arrogance in her voice was quite evident and Dev was not wrong in questioning his position in his daughter's life .As per the deal ,Dev was here to bond with his daughter and was not here to take insults from her father .Neither is she agreeing for a seperate home nor keeping her dad in check and top of that Jatin is hijacking Soha's time .

One expect her to be fair and not blame him for her decisions and mistakes .

Originally posted by: randomramblings

in the same episode 229 dev also said inspite of whatever happened between us " I STILL CHOSE YOU OVER MY FAMILY" he literally begged her to give their relationship a chance. Yet sonakshi chose to walk away and she declared her verdict ( i am not going to find fault with what she chose) Dev too spouted nonsense after hearing to her verdict ( the statement you wrote)

So IN WHAT WAY CAN SONA HOLD DEV RESPONSIBLE FOR MISSING IN HER LIFE WHEN SHE CHOSE TO WALK AWAY?