Tia's Thread - When Pot Met Kettle!!!/ DT Nt pg 23 - Page 19

Originally posted by: gaurimisha

I'll follow you on twitter. I'm nt vry active thr...yet I post something for Mamta ma'am 😆

Originally posted by: kankabhor

I agree with your post except about Asha and soha..

What was asha supposed to do? Let these four so called adults shout, blame, yell in house where little daughter lives.they were yelling on top of their voice which was totally wrong. It's not about being morally right or wrong but about how to handle situation where all four were failing without considering about anyone else. So she was right in sending everyone in their rooms and asking them to introspect. And only because she did not contribute in money to buy this house does not mean she doesn't have any right. In family everyone hs right in house and everyone takes control according to situation. Sometimes sona took, sowm times bijoy and this time Asha took it as she can be peacefully and respectfully put some sense in everyone's mind without being disrespectful. I don't feel asha favors Dev only because he is male, she is just trying to understand everyone's point of view which is the best quality anyone can have. She is more perceiving than judging. Being loyal to your family doesn't mean not trying to understand opposite views.

And about soha, why so critical about child? She is just 6 years old and want to stay with both of her prents. He is aware that they can't be good friends and she doesn't want to force she just wants them to be amicable to each other which is very normal and two adults do rhai but she doesn't know her parents are children in adult body.

Dev is so bipolar . I fails to understand him at all. He is mess. Dint he blame ishwari too and stopped worshipping her long back? Then suddenly this? Writers are suffering from temptorty amnesia .

Originally posted by: astrix90

Am sorry but the show makes zilch sense right now. The characters behave like they please with no consistency depending on what drama the writers wish to create.

1. Dev went from taunting his mom and asking her if she expected Sona to give up her life for this relationship (and the numerous other things he told her in the FB) to defending her in yesterday's episode. About how she tried her best to save the relationship. Are you kidding me? If the thought process behind this is the attitude that 'I can say anything to my mom but not the rest', atleast show it. But here it looks like he wholeheartedly believes whatever shit he spoke and he had some kind of personality transplant. Such pathetic and lazy writing on part of the CVs.

2. Sona had that conversation about the theft with Dev and Asha and just forgot everything? Why did Sonakshi and Dev not even bother to have a proper conversation post that? They just randomly jumped to fighting over other things?

3. Why is Sona still so polite to Ishwari? No, I dont expect her to insult her or get abusive but there was just no need to act so sweet and polite after all the stunts Ishwari tried to pull. Sona is mean and bitter when she is with Dev but doesn't show even half the bitterness when with Ishwari. And you dont have to be disrespectful to elders but when you know an elder has destroyed your life and still openly threatens you about snatching your kid, being nice to that person is nothing but foolishness (or rather ideal sanskari Indian heroine mode 😆).

4. Why did Jatin go from 'Dev is awesome and has heart of gold and you love him' to 'ignore the guy, he is only trying to get a reaction' mode?

5. Why cant Dev and Sona just talk? Instead of screaming and creating a ruckus? Is it that difficult? I really want to know. Why cant Dev say' am sorry I let you down. I understand what went wrong. I was just too upset you left me' and Sona can then explain why she felt let down and why she was forced to leave. They can clear whatever misunderstandings they had and atleast start being cordial for Soha. Is it so difficult for characters on this show to talk?

6. I cant even imagine the kind of drama the writers will show in Dev's house. I mean there is Asha to shut them up here. But that house is full of lunatics with only one pseudo-sane person (Mamaji) who has no control over anyone anyway 😆

7. Shaheer's choti was easily the most hilarious part of the episode 🤣 Why dont they just end this show instead of destroying it more with every passing episode? 😆

Originally posted by: ..natasha..

Dev needs to watch bhadrinath ki dulhania for sure

Originally posted by: Mauli09

I agree with some of the things you mentioned.

Regarding Soha, I agree. At the end if the day, she is a six yr old. If she is somewhere going wrong, it is bcz Sona has been entertaining all her whims and Dev is overcompensating for all the lost years. The child can't be blamed for that.

Regarding Asha, I don't have an issue with she asking all of them yesterday to calm down. I just have an issue with her approach in general. The beautiful advises she has been giving over the past week sounds great in theory but I feel they don't fit into the show right now. This is strictly my pov. I understand that she is trying to be the peacemaker here but they are not kids anymore. You can't ask them to shake hands and say sorry.

I get it that she is trying to understand Dev's pov but hasn't she seen Sona suffering first hand over the past seven years??!! By giving Dev's opinions and decisions more importance than Sona's, she is trivializing all of that. My problem with her is that she is behaving more like a counselor and less like a mother.

I am not sure if I am actually able to explain what I mean.