Tia's Thread - Mummy Puran!!! - Page 14

Originally posted by: an.bh

Today is my son's bday. So skipped the episode on TV due to guests at home. But thought of catching it up on net before going to bed. It's been so many weeks that we ve been getting unbearable and illogical episodes. But according to me today's episode was the worst in the history of KRPKAB. I say that due to a no of points

Dev almost raising his hand on Bejoy again and being mad at him bcoz he said that Dev's mother and Golu were unwanted guests. Like seriously what does he think of himself. Itna attitude and gussa tab kyun nahin dikhaya jab Sona ke parents Dev ke ghar aate the and RR and Ishwari used to taunt them in a way worst than this. Forget Sona's parents. Unki to Dev ko padi nahin thi. Sona used to get taunted all the time tab bhaiyaji ko ek baar bhi gussa nahin aaya.

Aasha went and apologised to Dev and tried justifying Bijoy s behaviour. I seriously thought it's a good time to calmly samjhaofy Dev what he did wrong 7 years ago and why Bejoy is angry with him. But nahin she started some nadi baadh baandh crap. As a result Dev got guts to speak to Aasha rudely abt her husband.

Then what happened in the episode disturbed me the most. What's the logic of Aasha stopping Sonakshi from confronting Dev. Every time she tells Bijoy let Sona handle things between her and Dev. To aaj kya hua? Was she hinting Sona that she should have adjusted more and given this relationship more than 100%. That as she jhelofied Bijoy s anger for so many years even Sonakshi shud have done that or may be still should let that go and be nice to him. Bijoy might not be the best husband but what gave Dev Dixit the right to say that in front of Aasha. I mean how dare he and Aasha is not bothered by this. Just because Dev is a good dad to Soha Aasha is taking so much shit from him in the name of decency and sorted nature. I watched Sona and Asha conversation twice but cudnt take out any logic out of that chat except for spoiling Bijoy s character and glorifying and justifying Dev. Seriously ek baar aur inko ghar se nikaal dena chahiye Dev ne. Then Aasha might understand. Why is everyone acting so nice to Dev in Bose house as if they r dying to make him their damaad once again. It looks so fake.

Aur sone pe suhaaga bhaiya bhabhi ka romance. My God Ishwari's scene seem to be more bearable now.

Really now I think I ll switch sides and go to Dixit camp. Dev is so fiercely loyal to his family. Lessons for Boses to learn. And I was thinking that stay in Bose family will have some realisations for Dev how an ideal family shud be and he ll be able to learn something good from them. But yahan par to Ulta hi hai. Anything for showing Dev and Sonakshi together and their mindless romance

Originally posted by: mena_k

I want a passionate Jatin-Sona dance at Saurabh-Ronita's sangeet function. Only that can bring me out of this immense frustration and anger. cv's please can we have that... 😃

Originally posted by: tellyjo

Cvs messed up again. In Asha's convo with Dev when Dev said gussa mujhe bhi aata hai... Asha should have sweetly retorted that she had seen Dev's anger and the damage it does too! That would have been better than the baadh and baadh ko rokna. She is free to advise her daughter but this should have been done when sona was breaking her relationship with Dev. I am ok with her preventing sona from aggravating the situation by fighting headon with Dev when he was angry

Asha could have apologized to Dev for the food that was served to him instead. In fact they could have used Asha to converse with Dev about what went wrong in their relationship if they had to show her soft stand with Dev

Originally posted by: Tia.0

<font size="3" color="#333399">This is what I wrote in Tinker's post.</font>

<font size="3" color="#333399"><font>Comparing anger (until it reaches abuse stage) with disrespect is like comparing snoring with calling bad names. Not at all on the same level.</font>
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<font size="3" color="#333399">Asha was never isolated in her husband's home. She talked about Bijoy's anger issues. He still has them. But what used to make him angry? Her? Something she did? Or something else?</font>

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<font size="3" color="#333399">How did he treat her when angry? Fight with her? Beat her? But even in season one I saw that she fights back. A woman who has been abused can't fight back like she does without worrying about her safety.</font>

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<font size="3" color="#333399">An abused woman cowers. I have never seen any hesitation or cowering or fear from speaking her mind in front of Bijoy. That indicates that Bijoy might have ill temper, but he never mistreated Asha. On the other hand, Sona never felt confident enough about Dev to be as comfortable with him despite having a love marriage because how Dev reacted every single time Sona tried to question or speak her mind. That's cowering and fear of speaking her mind. Not the symptoms Asha portrayed.</font>

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<font size="3" color="#333399">On the other hand, Dev had screamed at Sona, treated her with disrespect, watched her getting insulted by his family and was a grade A jerk to her family who is by the way, Asha's family too.</font>

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<font size="3" color="#333399">So no. There is zero comparison here.</font>

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<font size="3" color="#333399">Apples and Oranges can't be compared. And this is an Apple and Orange situation.</font>

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<font size="3" color="#333399">And let's not forget, Asha said that Bijoy and her worked on their solution together. What did Dev work together with Sona except continuously telling her to be understanding and leaving her alone when she needed him the most? Heck he could not even adjust with a frigging swing in his room.</font>

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<font size="3" color="#333399">The man who didn't even slap back his son-in-law when he slapped him, can't have anger issues large enough to raise alarm flag. Even in burning anger and boiling hate, Bijoy Bose didn't raise his hand on anyone. Dev has. And that's where any comparison ends.</font>