My Life of Sohana Bose/Dixit

Originally posted by: chucklebuddy

I casually started reading your post. I usually skim through long posts, but here I read every line of it. All is well that ends well! :) Happy that your parents took a decision considering your happiness. Even my parents bicker a lot. Even when am on an official tour for 1-2days, after I return, they will be in not-talking terms, every other time, one will complain about the other in the other's absence. Although I feel bad about the lack of love they share, I feel happy that I am their first priority and they come together in matters involving me. I too have not shared this with anyone/anywhere and first time registering it here! I am happy for you Renu! Happy that you are happy now, after all the hardships that your family went through!

People have told the reality in the concept of "mother's insecurity after son gets married" but first time I am listening to the reality in "parents living together for daughter's sake". I had some doubts as to how Devakshi are agreeing to every demand of Soha, if it even happens in real life. This post answered my question. I wish you watch this show, from the beginning (esp first 150 episodes). I am sure that you will fall in love with this serial. This serial will become a part of you! Don't take the serial too personal. Just a suggestion from me. You will not regret watching it! :) And, sorry about the long comment.

Originally posted by: Tia.0

Thank you for sharing your experience. The beauty about this forum is that people from all walks of life can tell their stories and talk about their experiences.

I was on the same boat as you. My parents are divorced too. When first time my mother left my father, I asked her if she will consider going back to him. She did it for my sake.

But I realized that she wasn't happy. So next time I didn't ask her to go back.

I was my father's only daughter - his princess. But he might be a great father to me, but he wasn't a good husband to my mother. And my mother deserved her own happiness.

Just like no child deserves a bad father even if they are excellent husband to their mother or a bad mother even if they are an excellent wife to their father, no man or woman deserves a bad life partner just because they are a good parent to their child. Being good in one relationship doesn't mean they will be good in all relationships.

My mother had been a single woman for very long time. My father is also a single man. None of them married again and none of them are miserable anymore.

And when I got married, the only thing I looked for was a good human being who can also be a good husband. Which is why I have a better marriage than my mother did.

Thanks for sharing your story.

Originally posted by: krish8090

nice to know abt u, tfs,

and let me tell u, wen v feel like the show resembles our lives, its bcos the showmakers go to court and pick up divorce cases as every court judgement is avbl to all upon a fee pymt.

wishin u all the best for ur future.

Originally posted by: jey3ram

Thank you so much chucklebuddy for making me feel ease...My dad always say two things to me...

1.Always Remember 'this too will pass'

2.Give your best to the world and world will give its best to you

Btw on that important trial,I choose to stay with my mom in the family court...Then My dad declared that he wants to live with my mom and assured the officials that he will start a new life...My grand pa was against that but again another surprise is my mom agreed to live with my dad...

@bold:Yes..this is the reason why I'm here now to clarify that thread maker...

Thank you so much dear...will try to watch but actually i'm following another soap regularly...So,time constraints...Exam is round the corner...But your suggestion taken...u r my first friend here...will watch the previous episodes after my exams...sometimes if u encounter the same thing which happened in your life..it will give a bad taste to digest..Its utter foolishness to take a soap seriously or too personal...but when its about the story and characters...The answer remains unanswered...But will try my friend...

Many parents living together for the sake of their children in real life...the love we see in soaps are rare to find...

Have Fun and Enjoy your life at the fullest deary😃...

P.s.:Sorry for the very long post and i dont accept your sorry😛...Sorry for that...😃

Originally posted by: chucklebuddy

You don't have to thank me dear 😃 My name is Ambika btw!😃 The silver line of the turmoil is that they were thoughtful enough to let go of their differences and compromise for your happiness. You are indeed really lucky!🤗

I completely agree deary...I'm lucky indeed...My parents forgot their differences for me..and now started to think together for me..thats really a great thing for me as you said...😊

That's true. With emotional baggage, you cannot see everything in replay, all over again. Trust me, even I have been reminded of some bad incidents that had happened in my life through some of the scenes and how I wish they were solved or the scenario was as it was shown in the serial.

Yes that's why I'm hesitating to watch...Its not only makes me remember my childhood and my dysfunctional family but also my neighbor sister's life too...She got married to a guy,who is elder son of a single mom(Widow) who is working in Railways..the younger bro got married and even have one kid...this sister only take care of that child...she was innocent and good...I used to talk only with her and even used her Laptop for my studies...

Her mom is really an evil woman...this couple dont have child...they checked in some big hospital and heard that sister is having PCOD...So,its difficult to conceive...Daily her MIL taunts her for everything and pampers her second DIL even before us...We saw in our own eyes the way she take care of that kid..Many times people mistook her as mom of that Kid...One day in vacation,I came home and my parents took me home thru back door...Next day forcefully made me leave by booking my train without my consent..But I somehow get to know the truth that sister's MIL forced her son to divorce her and get married to another girl of her known acquaintance...Or challenged him to make that sister to conceive...They both told the family that they will go to hospital and check...They already knew that chances are less to get conceive...So They just went to some temple and spend the whole day there and at night,That sister's husband attempted suicide and passed away before they call the ambulance...

somehow I felt at least by now that sister will leave this hell and live her life as she is pretty young...So I just avoided coming home for next few weeks as per my parents advice...Before I return,My parents vacated that house and we shifted to an apartment near my mom's working place...So,I dont get a chance to go there and ask the well being of that sister..I blindly hoped that she will live her life well after her husband's death...

Just today few minutes before my mom told the remaining story of that sister...I even couldnt study now after hearing that...before Her husband's final rites that week,it seems her MIL blamed her for her son's death and screamed loudly...That sister at early morning attempted suicide by burying her head on the Railway track...Both the couple died only because of a mother's possessiveness or love for her grand child...To stop the sister's family from filing case against them,..That MIL sold one of her apartment and settled that money to them...

I cried today hearing this side of the story...My dad was right..He ordered my mom to conceal this from me..If I came to know all these that time,It might definitely affect my future...My studies...Everything...MAny years passed after we left that place...Till date,I had a false belief that sister is living her life happily...But now its really hurts knowing the truth...And I feel bad that I shouldnt have talk about that sister to my mom today...At least I would have a false belief with a happy ending to the story from my end...

But whatever love we see in this serial does not exist. Infact, there is a lot more darkness to it than what is shown here. We need to accept life and learn to differentiate between what is shown on screen and what happens when we snap out of it. And yeah, do watch this after your exams. Trust me, more than anything, it will only bring a huge smile on your face and you might even end up doing a marathon of 300 episodes!😆

Agreed...Will definitely give it a try after my exams and I love doing a MArathon...I cant stop my curiosity as well...😛😛😛

All the best for your exams. I wish you get a great life partner. Take care! Live your life to the fullest!🤗

Thank you Ambika...Will do well in the exam and tathatsu😳😳😳

Take care deary...Live happily and be smiling always...🤗