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Posted: 8 years ago

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First of all congratulations

You know how kids end up becoming spoilt brat? It's because they have parents like dev-sona. They don't know how to say simple 'No'

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Tia.0

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Exactly. I completely agree with you. That was exactly the point I made. Soha was clearly making up excuses for having both her parents in one bedroom and these two idiots are too much of a duffer to understand it. Are they going to shift the room along with the bed back and forth every week?

Clearly they are dancing to her tunes because then they can have their cake and blame it on Soha that she insisted.

Bijoy totally saw through Sonakshi's lame excuses of doing everything for her daughter. If tomorrow Soha tells her to marry Khatri, will she marry an old, ugly and potentially criminal man?

Originally posted by: .Avengers.
Yaar someone recommend me another Hindi show in the same slot. I just can't take it anymore I need to keep mom occupied!
What shit is this. Why whole family is jerk to bijoy as if he's some ental guy? Dev hes all goody goody to soha I don't even think or know if he means what he said to her regarding bijoy but whoa can't he bit respectful towards hm? Just dropping by like that how embarrassing it is for Bose family and ronita family? Oh yes he don't give a shit cause he got new doll right. And soha what the f**k is wrong with you kid? I am sorry but I am gonna bash her random forum posts to crucify me be damned. One day she rebuked her dad for talking rudely to mom but when her dad openly mocks jatin bijoy , when she hears how he and her dadu never had good relationship cause he did bad thing not once she asked what he did? What is this she is totally dixitized now?! Why she's even in this house cause relaky she don't need anyone but daddy so go away stay with Daddy. The family who stayed with her from day of birth they mean nothing only papa means wow. And her mom clearly told her her dad and mom together are toxic, her dad openly admits them being a bad couple and him being horrible hubby but not once she asks what happened, not once she compromise a bit like for eg going to guest room with dad or asking if they will keep shifting every week. Like tomorrow you will got o D house how she will sleep then?! And she takes big decisions like going away to Kolkata and her mom fears as if she's some big person taking away important decisions from her.

The entire Bose family is horrible, poor jatin don't deserve this Bs and Sona go to D family you two morons deserve each other. Bijoy should also leave cause nobody cares or respect him so why should he bother? Spare us the hohoho BG with sad mom who's toy soha has snatched. Golu was only good thing.

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Tia.0

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Posted: 8 years ago

#83

Thanks hun. 😊

Originally posted by: .Avengers.
Oh congrats to you and your husband Sweetheart! Stay blessed🤗

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Lavanya, I am totally not blaming Sonakshi for Dev dropping in unannounced. That's on him. But I am blaming Sona for not even bothering to discuss this arrangement with her family before suggesting it. If this decision didn't impact them, like the separate apartment arrangement as Dev suggested, then I won't have blamed her. But she knows that Bijoy hates Dev. In spite of that, she is forced this decision on him without discussing it with him. She could have at least mentioned what she had suggested to Dev and his response so that her family knew what was going on between them. They already knew that Dev and her had decided to live together for Soha. But they probably didn't think about such an outlandish arrangement.

Sonakshi was the one who was hurt when Dev used to take decisions without consulting her which also impacted her life. She was the one who wanted a family to talk and share everything. At that time I supported her as she was right. Family members should be consulted before taking decisions that impact them. Yet today she did to her family what once Dev had done to her. That's why I felt that she was hypocrite and disrespectful to her family today. 😊

Originally posted by: dlavanya
But Tia... Dev said NO to the 7 day deal in the office... when they were discussing all the different options. if Dev had confirmed that he is taking the deal then sona would have definitely talked and prepared everyone at home. I understand she should have checked with her family even before offfering such deal.. but she was confident she can make them understand.. .sometimes ppl do make such decisions and then convince the family...but Dev just dropped in with out telling he is game for the 7 day deal...

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Thanks Vibg. 😊 I am not saying that Dev is blameless. But I don't expect him to have any loyalty to any of Sona's family members. Heck, he doesn't respect Sona, how would he respect anyone in her family?

The only people he likes in Sona's family are the one who always support him against their family as in Asha and Saurabh. For that matter, Sona also likes Mamaji for the same reason. She doesn't know what he says to Ishwari behind her back.

The expectations I have from Sona is to have loyalty to her family who have been with her through thick and thin and she fell short of that.

Bijoy didn't do right by trying to run away to Kolkata with Soha. But then again, today his anger was justified.

Sonakshi won't like it if Asha brings Vicky to live with them without discussing it with her knowing her feelings about Vicky.

Originally posted by: vibg
What an exciting news for your husband all the best wishes!
Great post, as always👏 your post is making me wanna watch when I had given up watching today as couldn't take dadagiri of Dev. i wanna especially watch for Jatin shutting up Dev and Golu shutting up Ishwari!

I am not sure if Sonakshi should be entirely blamed for Dev's showing up at a family function fiasco. I agree she should have told Bijoy and others about her convo with Dev but then again..I'd say sounds like not much time... since Devakshi spoke and the Aashirward ceremony taiyaari... becahari bhule gayi hogi😆 Majority blame should be on Mr. Dixit who showed up unannounced after he had not given an answer to Sonakshi... and then walking in bullying and usual badtamazi! as it is his priye mamiji had almost ruined this union, and now he walks in such a delicate situation without any respect or regards for Bose family or new family!!!!

if he knows why Bijoy is angry with him (as he told Soha), then why he continues to rile up the father who is just looking out for his duffer girl... who will yet again fall in love with a spineless man there is nothing you and I can do about this as Devakshi are the leads and that's how CVs will show the typical TV serial track. If I had my way, Jatin would take his rightful place in Sonakshi's life... a strong, mature, caring, respectful man for a strong, mature, caring, respectful girl... BUT, against our wishes... Sona will forgive Dev, yet again, without him asking for forgiveness, and become a doormat part of Dixit clan😡 But, I am not going to wish Sonakshi gets treated like shit again as she doesn't deserve it. The show has only focused on Dev's and Ishwari's feelings, never Sonakshi's!!!

Sonakshi is at a very vulnerable state where she finally got Soha her dad... It appears she always was guilty about it. and felt her daughter was missing something. she is tolerating Dev cause of Soha.. that's all! she loves him.. YES! but I hope she doesn't easily let him walk into her life as he did in Soha's!!!!!

Sonakshi knows the Dixits and hence has taken legal safeguards to protect her daughter.. kudos to Sona for doing all that and hope it helps someday and not forgotten like the prenup😕 I wanna give Sonakshi a little benefit of doubt where Bijoy is concerned... Sonakshi is in a very tough spot and Dev and Bijoy are not making it easy for her to do what she feels is best for her daughter!!! this is not to say that she shouldn't have told Bijoy.. she should have found time to tell him about her solution she offered to Dev!!! but then again, neither Dev, nor Bijoy are allowing any time for situations, things to sink in.. both are in a rush.. one to claim his daughter fully without regards to a 6 year old child's pychie and other thinks he can keep a father away from his child😡

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: gaurimisha
Btwn did anyone wonder why they had to sleep in one bed?
Sofa was there. Dev saying story and Soha sleeps first. Dev can easily leave to guestroom. I thought he was used to staying up late at night😕

What was the big deal. Till Soha was off to sleep, Sona could have waited on the Sofa in the room.😕

Soha cant sleep in any other bed...I am waiting to see how she'll sleep in Dev's bed in IN or are her parents planning to carry their daughter's bed every 7 days with each other🤣...juggling the bed btwn IN and Bose house.

Can anything be more ridiculous than this😕

Don't worry.. by the time they go to live in Ishwari Niwas.. Soha will have partial amnesia and forget about her bed for a week.. But then she will say that she can't sleep without her mom so Sonakshi will HAVE TO sleep in Dev's bedroom.. Then again when they are back in Bose house Soha will use her bed card 😉😆 I am assuming Soha did not sleep at all during whole summer camp because I sure didn't see her bed packed by Sonakshi 🤪

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Thank you, Gaya. 😊

See the thing is that I am not blaming Sonakshi for taking a decision about her daughter with the child's father. That's valid. I'd rather she hadn't done it due to the child's manipulation. But still, it makes sense that parents should discuss and decide the child's future together.

My problem was also not with Sonakshi when she defended Dev when Bijoy was leaving for Kolkata with Soha. What Bijoy did was wrong that day and Sonakshi was with the right person then.

My problem with Sonakshi is today when she didn't bother discussing her decision with her family that also impacts them. She was the one who gave long speech about family unity who always discuss and take decisions together and tried hard to foster that in Dixit family with Dev.

Yet when it came to include her family in her decision, she didn't bother doing it. If that's the case, then she has no right to complaint about every single thing Dev hid from her that impacted her and taking decisions on her behalf or telling her his decision instead of asking for her input.

That is double standard and I have hard time accepting double standard.

Originally posted by: gaya1234
Well written and analyzed!! I agree with your thoughts about Sonakshi's loyalty given the current track and situations. However, this is same girl who walked out from her marriage to fight for her parents self respect- to repay the loan taken. She worked effortlessly over the years to buy their old home back and is the primary income provider for her parents family! In addition, she also took full responsibility for raising her own daughter. Not many women have guts and strength to do the things she achieved! She is a great daughter that any parent will be proud of!

Sonakshi's 'loyalty' priorities change depending on who is right, and what is more important during different situations! She chose her parents over Dev in S1, and now Dev (Soha) over her father. Soha's childhood is at stake her and is more important at the moment! Her father is upset but not at risk of loosing anything big (like in the past). Things were rushed and unplanned (5 min decisions) but given the situation (where Soha was ready to leave for Soha), Sona took the right stand (hence the support from Asha, Saurav and Jatin).

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: Tia.0

Thanks Vibg. 😊I am not saying that Dev is blameless. But I don't expect him to have any loyalty to any of Sona's family members. Heck, he doesn't respect Sona, how would he respect anyone in her family?

The only people he likes in Sona's family are the one who always support him against their family as in Asha and Saurabh. For that matter, Sona also likes Mamaji for the same reason. She doesn't know what he says to Ishwari behind her back.

The expectations I have from Sona is to have loyalty to her family who have been with her through thick and thin and she fell short of that.

Bijoy didn't do right by trying to run away to Kolkata with Soha. But then again, today his anger was justified.

Sonakshi won't like it if Asha brings Vicky to live with them without discussing it with her knowing her feelings about Vicky.

Agree! but for once, if we look at it from Sona's POV.. since CVs dont show her POV or feelings ever'!!!' when has the girl have a breather since Dev came to know about Soha? Neither Bijoy, nor Dev has given her a moment to think these circumstances through. Sona is inunchartered waters too!!!! It was Bijoy who was sooo quick and adamant to run off to Kolkota without regard to Sona.. the mother 😡 dont get me wrong.. I love Bijoy but he pushed sona to take a quick decision and then no time to discuss. cause of pending Saurabh ceremonies. how was sonakshi supposed to know that Dev is going to land up bag and baggage.. like a bully without informing her!!!!! in the middle of family function that he knew was happening that day!!!

Its too quick to label Sona as shameless or bad daughter...Bijoy is a great father and always stood by Sona. And Sona has been a great daughter too.. she stood by her father when her in laws disrespected him and Dev watched! she was by her dad's side when her husband slapped her dad! Sona is the same daughter who did everything in her power, while giving birth & raising a daughter without father, to get everything back that her dad lost.. respect & financial 👏 Bijoy is OTT but he also needs to u derstand that Sonakshi is doing what is best for her child. i totally get his fears.. ai have thise fears too that Dev will charm sonakshi again and.. whoa.. another heartavhe But sonais an adult and will make her mistakes.. thats how he raised her.. he just needs to back off Dev a bit!

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Thanks Lavanya for responding on my behalf. Yes, you guessed it right. That's exactly what happened. 😊

Mybro, I am glad that you have decided to not waste your time here. Because I don't tolerate disrespectful tone in my post.

How did you know that I read your post? May be because I liked your comment. Did you see me responding to any comment right before or after your comment skipping yours? So what makes you think that I will skip all those people who commented before you to respond to you?

And if you think I ignored you and based on that assumption your tone turns snarky then sorry that is not an attitude I will have to listen to or put up with.

Where in my post did you see a claim that this is a written update of the episode? So no. This is not a written update. This is my review. Biased or otherwise my readers decide and certainly I don't have to answer to any stranger for my opinion.

There is a polite way of talking and a snarky way of talking. One is worth responding, the other is not.

So thank you for your decision to keep your disrespectful attitude outside my post.

Originally posted by: dlavanya

I am sure Tia will respond to you... But i can see what may have happenend as i am in the same boat as Tia. Tia is in canada and I am in USA. we dont get to watch live episode. we usually watch once it is uploaded on internet. in what was uploaded today, the episode actually started at the BP tablets.. so the uploader may have missed recording initially few secs where Dev may have acted nicely.