Dev is scared of..... - Page 3

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

Dev knows and understands. It is just that it is much easier to blame others than to accept your own role in your misfortune. Plus his male ego is not allowing him to beg before sona.

There are hints all over the place.

1. He calls himself a failed husband, does he ever call sonakshi a failed wife?

2. He constantly says you went away and is angry only and only due to that because in his twisted brain sonakshi promised to be with the child called dev, come what may. But did he ever say that you were wrong?

3. He quietly signed the papers sonakshi asked him to. Forget single custody, he is not even thinking about joint custody.

He keeps.on flexing his muscles and spouting nonsense to appease his male ego but deep down he perfectly knows that he is wrong. the only time he showed genuine attitude and anger was when he felt sonakshi had purposefully hidden soha from him.

He is a highly child like individual, not grown up emotionally at all. Somewhere deep down in his heart he is still hoping that he will get both sonakshi and soha back but is also scared that he won't be accepted because the mess he made previously.

So like a child he goes around showing attitude. See him the way you see a five year old and you will understand him perfectly.

Dev dixit is not the sort of guy one should ever fall in love with in real life but this is sonakshi's life, her fairytale romance.

After all individuals are different and what is irritating and idiotic for us might be the perfect love story for others. There are women who seriously believe in adopting their husbands.

So, I just sit back and enjoy sonakshi's love story

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

Dev knows and understands. It is just that it is much easier to blame others than to accept your own role in your misfortune. Plus his male ego is not allowing him to beg before sona.

There are hints all over the place.

1. He calls himself a failed husband, does he ever call sonakshi a failed wife?

2. He constantly says you went away and is angry only and only due to that because in his twisted brain sonakshi promised to be with the child called dev, come what may. But did he ever say that you were wrong?

3. He quietly signed the papers sonakshi asked him to. Forget single custody, he is not even thinking about joint custody.

He keeps.on flexing his muscles and spouting nonsense to appease his male ego but deep down he perfectly knows that he is wrong. the only time he showed genuine attitude and anger was when he felt sonakshi had purposefully hidden soha from him.

He is a highly child like individual, not grown up emotionally at all. Somewhere deep down in his heart he is still hoping that he will get both sonakshi and soha back but is also scared that he won't be accepted because the mess he made previously.

So like a child he goes around showing attitude. See him the way you see a five year old and you will understand him perfectly.

Dev dixit is not the sort of guy one should ever fall in love with in real life but this is sonakshi's life, her fairytale romance.

After all individuals are different and what is irritating and idiotic for us might be the perfect love story for others. There are women who seriously believe in adopting their husbands.

So, I just sit back and enjoy sonakshi's love story

Originally posted by: chut007

I am waiting for:
1)when some people will leave being biased on forums
2)when people will understand it is just a fiction
3)when our forum have more number of rational analysis than biased ones
etc..

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

@ Bold - Yes, precisely no one should fall for such a guy. 😆 Sonakshi's losing her brains fast again. 😕😆

And all those points, why should always the girlfriend/wife dig such deep down on decipher his crooked logic and justify his love for her ? If all the actions were done by Sonakshi, would Dev care to dig such deep to bring out what she 'actually' means instead of trusting her actions ? And to top it all, why Dev excludes his mataaji for the same crime he keeps blaming Sonakshi ?

Such double standards 😕 He needs to find the courage to face his own faults in his characteristics instead of fighting the fear of 'snake'. What do you think ? 😃

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Just read the update/discussions (thanks Sjain for being the saving grace 😊 ) and I hear that Dev is gonna win his fear of snakes for Soha 😃 👏 .


I am waiting for the day he would win the fear of :

- Facing the truth about his role in his divorce.
- Facing the truth about his weirdo manipulative mother.
- Facing the truth about his selfish family.
- Facing any truth about his extreme weak and now criminal character.
- Calling a spade a spade in the face of his family members.


Just winning over the fear of Snake will do nothing much in terms of upgrading himself towards redemption 🤣

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

Dev knows and understands. It is just that it is much easier to blame others than to accept your own role in your misfortune. Plus his male ego is not allowing him to beg before sona.

There are hints all over the place.

1. He calls himself a failed husband, does he ever call sonakshi a failed wife?

2. He constantly says you went away and is angry only and only due to that because in his twisted brain sonakshi promised to be with the child called dev, come what may. But did he ever say that you were wrong?

3. He quietly signed the papers sonakshi asked him to. Forget single custody, he is not even thinking about joint custody.

He keeps.on flexing his muscles and spouting nonsense to appease his male ego but deep down he perfectly knows that he is wrong. the only time he showed genuine attitude and anger was when he felt sonakshi had purposefully hidden soha from him.

He is a highly child like individual, not grown up emotionally at all. Somewhere deep down in his heart he is still hoping that he will get both sonakshi and soha back but is also scared that he won't be accepted because the mess he made previously.

So like a child he goes around showing attitude. See him the way you see a five year old and you will understand him perfectly.

Dev dixit is not the sort of guy one should ever fall in love with in real life but this is sonakshi's life, her fairytale romance.

After all individuals are different and what is irritating and idiotic for us might be the perfect love story for others. There are women who seriously believe in adopting their husbands.

So, I just sit back and enjoy sonakshi's love story

Originally posted by: Pramila.harish

Who told pizza is unhealthy??. In fact it is rich food with cheese, veg and meat and it is better than idli, dosa. .only diabetes patients shouldn't have much b coz of high calory. 😆.

Coming to Dev. .We have seen he was biased towards his family. If you claim him as 5 yr old child, how can he say those words get out and all those harsh words on break up day. He never respected her. He took her granted.

All I want is Dev to respect & trust sona. Sona shouldn't not go back to him unless he realises and repent for his mistake. Also sona should be strong enough to stand up for herself. No need to take shit from anyone including Dev.

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

I remember a dialogue from the movie kora kagaaz - one of the partners in the marriage has to be understanding. Your mother could not understand me. So I understood her.

In real life also, it is not only the woman who sacrifices and understands. This is a total myth propagated by TV shows. I have seen umpteen marriages where the husband adjusts with the immature wife. I have seen husband's constantly forgiving their wives, sacrificing their self esteem at times either to make the relationship work or for love.

These dynamics basically depend on the couple and can never be universal. It is what the parties to the marriage want and what they will be happy with. After all to each his own

It's like my son can never understand why I like karela and I can't understand why he likes pizza.

Dev is never going to change. One doesn't change the basic characteristics at the age of 37. Its sonakshi's call if she still wants him and the serial sonakshi does. It's like she knows pizza is bad for her health but still wants it.she is not you or me after all.

Regarding ishwari, dev has been trained to treat her with kid gloves for all the pain she went through. But he doesn't report to her anymore, doesn't discuss everything with her, doesn't follow her advice anymore.

That is a great achievement for a guy brought up like a dog on a leash. He knows what his mother did but can't throw her out. nHe has given up on her. Golu today knows him much more than his own mother .

I think only when he is on the verge of losing sona or soha again will he actually throw her out. But this may not happen now. Ishwari doesn't have her god status to protect anymore and has no business being insecure. She is just his mother now and dev has firmly put her in that place during the past seven years.

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

Saying that an adult has the emotional intelligence or mentality of a five year old is not a compliment nor does it mean that he has the innocence of a five year old. I am not that good with words to be able to explain this exactly .

What I have been saying is that each human being has different needs and sonakshi has been shown to be the person who wants a fairly tale romance and who has an inherent need to mother. She is the sort who gets carried away by dukh bhari kahaani.

It's the CVS story and their characters. We can't complain that the character should be as per our specifications or should adhere to xyz thought process. We have to just accept it the way we accept the mentality and point of views of people in real life. It's after all their life, their wish. They are not I.