*Season 2, Week 9* Analysis Thread - Page 23

Originally posted by: Mishti_94

Loved the episode yesterday!

Hated Bishwari, Ex- GKB and her Red.

Today I just want to call forth all the GM minds!😆

And ask them ki what do you think he is thinking in this scene!

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What does his expression say?😆😉

Now a days I take one episode at a time and watch with zero expectations so that I don't have any disappointments later. But I was not able stop myself from posting after above Shaavi's reply to Sam. I completely agree with you shaavi and this was and is the biggest disappointment for me wrt Sona's character from cv's side. She is an independent and strong individual but never ever own up her failures. This always puts me down when it comes to Sona's character because I really can't appreciate people playing victim card or blame game to run away from their mistakes or failures.

Sona is also intospecting and all.there was that conversation she had with Jatin after exposing Ishwari's lie.Also there was an episode in which Ishwari brings soha to IN .she clearly expressed how scared she was that Dev might hate her more after knowing about Soha and would take soha away from her

Originally posted by: aarcha

@ bold...but tresspassing nt allowed 😆

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

Now a days I take one episode at a time and watch with zero expectations so that I don't have any disappointments later. But I was not able stop myself from posting after above Shaavi's reply to Sam. I completely agree with you shaavi and this was and is the biggest disappointment for me wrt Sona's character from cv's side. She is an independent and strong individual but never ever own up her failures. This always puts me down when it comes to Sona's character because I really can't appreciate people playing victim card or blame game to run away from their mistakes or failures.

You want to live your life on your terms. Perfect.

You want to take your own decisions. Awesome.

You want a perfect married life so to change the imperfections you want to take control of your relationship. You go girl.

You gave your 100% efforts. I salute you for that.

You blame your husband for all the failures by conveniently pointing fingers at him for every wrong thing that happened by saying he failed to contribute his part. Hold on. I can never appreciate.

When you decide to fight your own battles by isolating your partner in your relationship then have guts to own up the consequences as well or else you will lose respect for your efforts and contribution. When you never discussed about your struggles and your expectations from him then how can you blame him for every single failure of your relationship.

More than dev, I am waiting to see an introspection from Sona's side since I never saw one from her side till now.

@Bold, What exactly did Sona accuse Dev of? She didn't go to Dev and say how she feels when his mother says things or how she felt when she was left waiting for him to turn up for his b'day celeb. But she didn't blame him for those?

I hope you won't disagree that Dev was aware of how his mother treated Sona, irrespective of Sona telling him or not. We heard his monologue when he came home to hear the news that Sona was pregnant.

So both Dev and Sona know where the problem is and they were trying to solve in their own ways and they were happy with it.

The problem was when Ishwari said they both should separate. Sona was shocked, even when Dev demanded she apologise, she told him it is unbelievable that Ishwari would ask them to separate. When Ishwari said Dev knows about it and Dev didn't clarify what he knew - Sona only said Dev is reason for the misunderstanding between his mother and wife. She didn't say anything more. She didn't say he slapped his father, she didn't say he hid the report and cheated her, she didn't accuse him of not speaking up for investing in her business. So why exactly would we say She conveniently blames her husband. For that matter, even she returning the money, even Mamaji supported her.

For that matter, Dev said he shouldn't have loved Sona, he shouldn't have married her, he used the words 'Leave' and 'Get out'.

Tell me in which marriage is using these words acceptable? Isn't there a moral code, lines you don't cross, words you don't say in a relationship? Interestingly, I have asked this question numerous times and I am yet to get a response. What exactly am I missing? Someone tell me this is what is acceptable in modern Indian society. I haven't lived in India unfortunately.

To add insult to injury he also accused her of acting to be a good DIL, incapable of becoming a mother and good that she can't be a mother because she will be a bad one.

What are Sona's equivalent accusations? That he is a mumma's boy, who is afraid of facing the truth?

Tell you what this reminds me of, 2 of my neighbours had a huge argument over a tree. Neighbour1's large bush was overhanging on Neighbour2's garden. The fence itself belongs to Neighbour2. Neighbour2 would chop it and throw it back at Neighbour1s garden for disposal. They disagreed for years and never saw eye-to-eye. Last year, Neighbour1's cherry tree was overhanging on Neighbour2's garden. Neighbour2 very conveniently put a net over the fruits to protect them birds and had a good harvest too. Neighbour2 isn't a happy member of the village anymore. He keeps to himself and although the village is polite to him, he knows where he stands!

Doesn't that remind us of Dev. Dish out when convenient and then claim when you think the object at the other end looks interesting?

Originally posted by: yyy

Isn't this situation similar to Dev Sona wedding.Since Ishwari went on begging spree Boses had upper hand in marriage talks . I think more than the love marriage the desperation in Ishwari Dixit gave Bijoy Bose the perfect opportunity to have his way .I see a similar pattern in Mandols n Bose alliance .

I always said this Bose family's habit to prove society wrong when accused wrongly to uphold their pride have always costed them and people like RR has successfully been able to take advantage of if Bijoy .Boses need to pick right battles to fight for .Whatever they are facing with Mondals is a serious issue and how long will they keep proving themselves instead they should take it slow and allow trust to develop between two families

Another thing I noticed in today's episode is ,during Devakshi's wedding time when Sonakshi's medical condition was revealed Dev chose his love and never made it an issue .Today even for a disease like diabetes which is common Mandols are hesistating to take this alliance forward .Does this incident remind Boses especially Bijoy Bose to indentify the unconditional love Dev had for their daughter.will that be recognized n appreciated. I agree it's a arrange marriage here but yet how many guys would do what Dev did .

Originally posted by: Shaavi

DQ well written. Mandols family are a disaster waiting to happen. But then Bijoy needs this lesson. Bijoy thought Dev was the best person in the world when he saved Sonakshi in the accident. But the moment he broke up with Sonakshi, he became undesirable no 1. As he said today, he never wanted Sonakshi to develop a relationship with Dev or his family. From his perspective, Dixits were nobodies and Dev was not at all suitable. From his perspective, they especially Sonakshi was doing them a favor by agreeing to marry Dev.

Bijoy always had very little respect for Saurabh. In his view Saurabh was not good enough for anything. Even when the talks of this alliance began, it was shown that Bijoy telling Saurabh to behave and somehow impress Ronita as they had got this proposal with difficulty. It was shown as though Saurabh was rejected by a lot of girls and she was the only one who said yes. .

Shaavi & laxmi, I think we are saying the same thing. What is the reason Saurabh isn't getting many alliances? I am guessing its his weight. Why doesn't Bijoy see the goodness of Saurabh and work on the weakness? Why isn't anyone saying to him, Mate, you are an amazing guy (which I think he is. He is the most sensitive male of all the characters on this show), why don't you work on reducing your weight. Its affecting your chances of finding a good life partner. This is exactly what Bijoy did with Dev. He only saw the one -ve quality that affects Sona - That Dev gets impulsive when angry particularly where Ishwari is involved.

For me it isn't about Dixits vs Boses VS Boses vs Mandals. It's about how the -ve feedback they keep giving saurabh is affecting his life more and more. After Dev ki Deewangi and sona walking out of the engagement, Ishwari and Bijoy had very few options left but to allow their kids to marry. Here Bijoy and Tara have many other options if they choose to look. The whole alliance is based on fear and conceit from where I am looking.

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

Thanks so much for writing this! I had a similar inkling about their walk, but wasn't able to articulate it so I am happy to read your post and emphatically agree with it. And, if I may piggyback on your observations, I think that we got a glimpse of what is happening now as well. 7 years ago, when they disagreed about the right path, they each followed their egos and chose separate ones. Their respective monologues as soon as they split were very revealing. An aggravated Dev expressed his frustration that Sona always throught only she could be right, and declares the she isn't his responsibility because she *chose to leave* (sound familiar?). Sona showed irritation that "Indian Jones" (🤣) said he knew the right path but insisted on leading them down what she thought was the wrong one. Neither one of them was willing to overcome their pride and try to communicate with the other or concede.

And then Dev thought of Soha. While he didn't feel responsible for Sonakshi herself, he felt responsible for Soha's mother. His complete acceptance of the fact that Soha doesn't come without Sona is admirable. If he were a less sensitive person, he might have reasoned that if Sona got lost took a while to get back to the camp, he would have more time with his daughter. But Dev is not totally clueless and he is beginning to understand his daughter very quickly. And it's only when Dev goes looking for Sona, in the interest of maintaining a relationship with his daughter, that he discovers Sonakshi is badly injured and uncosncious. Therefore, it is through Soha's mother that Dev is coming close enough to Sonakshi to see how badly hurt she is.

Because of the situation, Dev realised sooner that the path to Soha could only be found with Sonakshi by his side. For Sona, that is a little less obvious because she has had Soha with her all this time. But when she rushed forth to go to her daughter, she found herself incapacitated and calling out desperately for Dev's help. Dev was able to find and help her only by following the sound of her voice -- she has to ask for help before it's too late. I thought it was really telling that the first thing he did was let her rest. And then he said a line that went all echo-ey in my head for the double entendre (not a GM one, but we can come to that later 😉).

"Ho sakta hai tissue tear hai; uspe pressure dalogi to dard badjayega. Dard thoda kam ho jayega to chale jayenge vapas."

This totally applies to the "tissue tear' in their relationship. Since they have met, they have been putting more and more pressure on their old injury and the pain has only increased. Now that this injury is manifest physically, they are forced to deal with it before they return to Soha. This expedition to the forest has been instrumental in allowing Dev and Sona to express their grievances -- Dev's frustration with Soha not calling him "papa" and judging by the precap, Sona's frustration that Dev is showing so much concern for Soha -- putting her above everything else -- when, if he had done the same for her 7 years ago, they could have been happy and together now. Through this honest communication and venting, the pain that constantly puts a barrier between them will lessen enough for them to cooperate as Soha's parents. They will return to the camp, to Soha, only when the pain has lessened a little bit.

Originally posted by: Shaavi

Totally agree with everything you have said although there is one thing that I would like Sonakshi to do or the CVs to show. As much as Sonakshi is being honest about what Dev should have done or do, she also needs to be honest about herself too. It will be nice if Sonakshi admits she was wrong too.

In the episode when she wakes up and comes to know that they are late and cannot return to camp immediately, I don't want her to blame Dev completely for it. I want her to accept her fault too of not listening and getting lost. This is one of Sonakshi's habits that she needs to overcome before being effective as co parents to Soha.

Will wait for the episode to air but wanted to share my wish. 😃

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

And then he said a line that went all echo-ey in my head for the double entendre (not a GM one, but we can come to that later 😉).

"Ho sakta hai tissue tear hai; uspe pressure dalogi to dard badjayega. Dard thoda kam ho jayega to chale jayenge vapas."