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I'm talking a few words bout Bijoy today .
Bijoy very much liked dev as a person. Wen dev broke kushal roy alliance , bijoy went to confront dev in his office. There he met an elderly man who thanked dev for arranging his daughter's marriage & giving her a job. Wen dev asked bijoy bout the reason for his coming, he answered bak that he got his answer without even asking. Bijoy considered dev as a good man . Wen dev spoiled asha's b'day cake which sona bought, he rectified his mistake by arranging another sugar free cake & delivering on time . Dev wanted to leave without even entering sona's home but bijoy's hospitality made dev to attend that function & spent some time with the bose family for the first time & he experienced a different pleasant atmosphere all together there. Then sona accident came. Bose family's luv n respect towards dev increased . But this equation went wrong wen ishwari entered into the picture .
Wen dev disclosed bout his luv interest to his maa after the chulha drama, bose family came to dixit house , then ishwari literally insulted them . Bijoy even asked sona if she want to continue with this rishta bcoz he very well knew that ishwari is a hard nut to crack. Then sleeping pills drama..devakshi break up. Then ishwari sent that bracelet to sona's house which too infuriated bijoy ( bijoy confronted ishwari & gave exact definitions of everyone's luv ..Kudos writers !! ) . Dev broke sona ritwick engagement & his breakdown made ishwari beg in front of boses.
Now even after all these incidents, if bijoy did show superiority , who need to blame ? Again wat hapnd ? Emergence of prenup. Even before marriage, one 's talking bout divorce, Considering these incidents, any sane person will behave like the same way bijoy behaved . I cudn find anything wrong with bijoy that time. But one thing i didn like was the way he treated saurav. Asha always supported saurav but bijoy showed preference for sona . But after sona's marriage wen saurav faced problems in business, bijoy stood with his son .
Bijoy's only demand for the marriage was it shud b done according to bengali rituals. Now after all these dramas & an additional GKB, i didn find anything wrong with him even if he demanded such a thing .
Dev's luv was considered unconditional jst bcoz he willingly married sona knowing her medical conditions. But to b honest, i felt dev's luv as conditonal bcoz he didn want to lose sona as she had became his necessity . Had he discussed that medical condition with @ least sona's side , the result wud've been different .Then dev's luv rise to that unconditional level.
Bijoy was very protective bout sona, like every other father. He want others to accept sona as she is. That's y he was against sona changing in to dixit 's rules, like doing the poojas , following their rituals etc. Bijoy did had a good rapport with dev.. "Mussorie ki kasam " showed their great bonding. Now did bijoy consider dev as a beta or did dev consider bijoy as a baba , i'm still in confusion bcoz if it is so then the accidental slap wudn hav hapnd. But to err is humane & forgiving n forgetting r some simple techniques which will enhance the peaceful n easy living of every one.
P.S. Post leap bijoy is hyper ventillating n much annoying @ times. But v can c that transformation of bijoy . I wudn b surpriesd if bijoy emerged as an ishwari wen dev re -enter in sona life as b4 with full haq.
No offense to anyone..solely my POV.
Edited by aarcha - 8 years ago