Tia's thread: Soha all the way... - Page 10

Originally posted by: Lady_Macbeth

Happy Woman's day to all the lovely and amazing ladies of this thread.

Yaha tak ka safar asan nehi thi hum auraton ke liye. .raste mein katein the bichaye. .phool hum ne khilaye. .. jaha ko mehekaye. .. kisi ne jaga nehi diya tha. ..jaga khud humne banaye. .

Age raste aur vi baki hai bahut. . Safar to abhi bas shuru hui hai. . Kadam khoon se lat pat karke. .seeti marte hue gun gunate hue tai karni hai

But we won't be alone. . We'll have the Ritwiks the jatins the Souravs the Bijoys with us. We can show the Devs and Ishwaris of this world what we can do.

We're equal by half. We're women and proud.

Originally posted by: gaushiv13

Sorry wanted to share

I am really upset with this news

A neighbour of mine was not able to give birth and was going through several treatment and she was able to conceive and even gave birth but died just after giving birth not even able to see her son face

And you know what that family don't want to cry or do her shradh they simply got their body cut I don't knew about this when my mother told ingot to know that after dieing person are not burnt

And the reason they gave that they want that their child birth date SHOULD not be celebrated crying everyone even her husband

And moreover you know what they are planning for second marriage to give the mother love and even name to the child

The forum member who talk about fertility treatment realise how it's really effect

Till today I was only sentimental and reading here there I got information but when my mother told to me today then I understood

As I have shared before that I asked my mother about this serial and her response shocked me my mother who is totally in believing that girl should do everything for relation gave response that sona is a gold and Dev or Dixit are not even not coal

Today she told me this thing because she was also shocked when not only 20 days has passed they are talking about second marriage and even changing mother's name from their child my mother shared with me

Because I will share it anywhere else they will not understand only find other way to justify Dev by saying that he only agreed to satisfy his mother otherwise he was in no mood and blah blah blah

Originally posted by: .annihilation.

Tia - Oh my goodness, Tia! Your beautiful mind is surely going to be the death of my some day. 😳 THAT WAS MIND BLOWING POST! 👏

Although, you all barely leave anything for me to contribute but I'd like chip in something here. I'm personally not the kind of a woman who believe, 'Puri mard/aadmi zaat hi ghatiya hoti hai' nor would I ever be able to get a man who believes, 'Yeh aurat zaat hi ghatiya hoti hai'. Simply put, I'm a believer in 'Har insaan kisi ke haq mein acha hota hai toh kisi ke haq mein bura'.

So, when I see (whether in reality or fictional world) women kind demeaning women kind/race specifically when the said person isn't at fault or basically even someone irrespective of their gender supporting something that is clearly wrong (although, one's definition of wrong or right might differ), I'm rendered speechless.

In KRPKAB context, Dev is an incredible son (as in the kind of respect, preservence, love, dedication and loyalty he has towards his mother is something any parent would love to have for themselves), he's an exceptional brother (almost been a father figure to his sisters, taking care of all their needs and always protecting them), he's obviously a good businessman and boss, might have been a good friend (we haven't seen him in this light yet), he's a generally a decent human being BUT BUT BUT he's been a terrible, terrible husband and that IS an undeniable truth.

Now, let's look at Sona. She's been a great daughter, a great sister, a great friend, a great mother and tried her best to be a good wife (if not a great one). How are we at fault if out of all the given opportunities and chances Sona has excelled 90% of the time and Dev, may be, 30-40% of the time?

In that sense, Dev has been good in his family's haq and not in Sona's haq while Sona has successfully managed to be good in everyone's right/haq.

It's totally beyond me when this place is harshly judged and mocked just because we give credit when and where its due and call someone out when there's a need to.

Originally posted by: serialwatcher16

Tons of congratulations PK on being elevated to the status of Mami. ⭐️

Sometimes a thought crosses my mind that the freedom that I enjoy today is because some women and men over the years have continuously pushed the envelope, have not been satisfied with just what was handed out, continuously fought for me and other women when they could have just sat back and accepted the prevalent norm.
My heart and soul goes out to them today. So a big thanks from me for being unreasonable, dissatisfied, angry.

Thank you to all you girls here for being you.

Happy women's Day!

Originally posted by: gaushiv13

Sorry wanted to share

I am really upset with this news

A neighbour of mine was not able to give birth and was going through several treatment and she was able to conceive and even gave birth but died just after giving birth not even able to see her son face

And you know what that family don't want to cry or do her shradh they simply got their body cut I don't knew about this when my mother told ingot to know that after dieing person are not burnt

And the reason they gave that they want that their child birth date SHOULD not be celebrated crying everyone even her husband

And moreover you know what they are planning for second marriage to give the mother love and even name to the child

The forum member who talk about fertility treatment realise how it's really effect

Till today I was only sentimental and reading here there I got information but when my mother told to me today then I understood

As I have shared before that I asked my mother about this serial and her response shocked me my mother who is totally in believing that girl should do everything for relation gave response that sona is a gold and Dev or Dixit are not even not coal

Today she told me this thing because she was also shocked when not only 20 days has passed they are talking about second marriage and even changing mother's name from their child my mother shared with me

Because I will share it anywhere else they will not understand only find other way to justify Dev by saying that he only agreed to satisfy his mother otherwise he was in no mood and blah blah blah

Originally posted by: Mauli09

Hi everyone,

I recently started to watch the show and have been lurking around the forum to get a feel of it.

I tend to go on and on, so apologies if this turns out to be a long ass essay 😃

I started watching the show after I noticed it was recommended by a lot of sites. I liked the initial episodes (about first 120) a lot but then I started to feel lost. Suddenly, I felt like the show lost the plot. Not sure if production house succumbed to trp pressure or the channel executives but I couldn't understand it anymore. And the tracks that came after that only resulted in leaving the feminist in me more disgruntled. I understand that is a fictional show and I understand creative liberty but I can't see where the show is heading anymore.

I came to forum and was shocked by so many opposing views. I read quite a lot of posts and kind of went into a downward spiral mentally reading some of the opinions. This thread(popularly known as Tia's thread) is the one I found I most resonate with which is why I am posting this here.

I am not able to grasp how some people still find fault with whatever Sonakshi does. I mean, unless I missed a couple of episodes in which Sona boiled puppies and kittens in her evil cave, I don't see what she did so wrong that garners all this hate.

Reading comments from all you guys on this thread has been a pleasure. I found some solace in reading the views here. I think you guys here have a great thing going. I have actually started to look forward to this thread everyday. Keep up the good work!

And Happy women's day!!!

~ Mauli

Originally posted by: Mauli09

Hi everyone,

I recently started to watch the show and have been lurking around the forum to get a feel of it.

I tend to go on and on, so apologies if this turns out to be a long ass essay 😃

I started watching the show after I noticed it was recommended by a lot of sites. I liked the initial episodes (about first 120) a lot but then I started to feel lost. Suddenly, I felt like the show lost the plot. Not sure if production house succumbed to trp pressure or the channel executives but I couldn't understand it anymore. And the tracks that came after that only resulted in leaving the feminist in me more disgruntled. I understand that is a fictional show and I understand creative liberty but I can't see where the show is heading anymore.

I came to forum and was shocked by so many opposing views. I read quite a lot of posts and kind of went into a downward spiral mentally reading some of the opinions. This thread(popularly known as Tia's thread) is the one I found I most resonate with which is why I am posting this here.

I am not able to grasp how some people still find fault with whatever Sonakshi does. I mean, unless I missed a couple of episodes in which Sona boiled puppies and kittens in her evil cave, I don't see what she did so wrong that garners all this hate.

Reading comments from all you guys on this thread has been a pleasure. I found some solace in reading the views here. I think you guys here have a great thing going. I have actually started to look forward to this thread everyday. Keep up the good work!

And Happy women's day!!!

~ Mauli

Originally posted by: tia.o

OMG... Such a horrific way to treat a woman as if she was just a vessel carrying the baby. Now her broken carcass can be thrown out and her entire identity can be wiped out. But while that is an extreme case, isn't that mentality shown on screen?

I haven't seen Ishwari apologize to Sona or Dev for turning Sona away, but for turning away Soha who happened to be on her mother's arms. Or Dev apologizing to Sonakshi for his mother's manipulation. Nope. Instead all is forgotten and forgiven between the duo even though the wronged party is still Sonakshi and Soha.

And I yet to see Dev giving Sonakshi her due respect as the mother who raised this amazing little girl who is charming everyone with her manners and behaviour. Nope, he is taking credit there which he doesn't deserve while insulting her mother.

Not once he asked Sonakshi how she coped being in debt, homeless, pregnant and jobless with her whole family's responsibility on her shoulder. But he wanted to ask Soha her 0-6 years experience. She says that she doesn't remember 0-2, but that part Dev doesn't want to know. Why would he? Then he will have to hear Sonakshi's struggle for seven years which will then give her also a hard past just like his. Which means he can't use his past as extra brownie points anymore for him and his mother to justify their actions.