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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: gaushiv13

Sorry wanted to share

I am really upset with this news
A neighbour of mine was not able to give birth and was going through several treatment and she was able to conceive and even gave birth but died just after giving birth not even able to see her son face
And you know what that family don't want to cry or do her shradh they simply got their body cut I don't knew about this when my mother told ingot to know that after dieing person are not burnt
And the reason they gave that they want that their child birth date SHOULD not be celebrated crying everyone even her husband
And moreover you know what they are planning for second marriage to give the mother love and even name to the child
The forum member who talk about fertility treatment realise how it's really effect
Till today I was only sentimental and reading here there I got information but when my mother told to me today then I understood
As I have shared before that I asked my mother about this serial and her response shocked me my mother who is totally in believing that girl should do everything for relation gave response that sona is a gold and Dev or Dixit are not even not coal
Today she told me this thing because she was also shocked when not only 20 days has passed they are talking about second marriage and even changing mother's name from their child my mother shared with me
Because I will share it anywhere else they will not understand only find other way to justify Dev by saying that he only agreed to satisfy his mother otherwise he was in no mood and blah blah blah

This news disturbed me a lot.. I'm speechless for such rituals and mentality..
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Posted: 8 years ago
Happy Women's day to all of my lovely friends over here!! Yes we are women and we should take pride in that.
May all of us discover our strength which lies within and face all the adversities!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
@ Tia and Push-pull - Thanks 😃
Like I said, I have been lurking around the forum...So looking forward to sharing my viewpoints 😊

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Posted: 8 years ago
@Mauli, welcome to the forum 🤗Please do share your views over here.
Even I joined this forum recently and everyone in this thread were so friendly and welcoming.😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
@Gaushiv13,first of all I am apalled at this inhuman and insensitive behaviour.
Are women nothing more than a machine to produce children???
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---

@Mauli, welcome to the forum

Please do share your views over here.
Even I joined this forum recently and everyone in this thread were so friendly and welcoming.😳


Thanks Andromeda 🤗 ( btw, are you a Potterhead?)
Looking forward to interacting with you guys!!
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Mauli09


Thanks Andromeda 🤗 ( btw, are you a Potterhead?)
Looking forward to interacting with you guys!!

Yup!! I am a hardcore Potterhead😳😆
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---

@Gaushiv13,first of all I am apalled at this inhuman and insensitive behaviour.

Are women nothing more than a machine to produce children???


And what's worse is that they try to justify it by saying they are doing it for the kid!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
@ gaushiv

This is so sad.
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Mauli09


And what's worse is that they try to justify it by saying they are doing it for the kid!!

You know what I know alot real life incident as my father is in army so I have visited to every part of country
And the most important part everyone this is reel not real but it affect everyone in reality even
I have listened with my own ears in my neighbours that mil will say we like gopi bahu see how ishita is called banjh because she can't give birth and many more
And most importantly we the girl only has demeaned ourselves like in this neither her own mother father or brother sister said anything and her mil sil all are girls only
It is only this forum that also make me understand the importance and various aspects of woman because firstly I also used to consider this
Like my cousin sister who is very poor got a proposal of a doctor who was already married and loved his wife and his wife even was doctor but she can't become mother so they wanted that my sister should marry and produce the baby and be the nanny in the house I mean to say like a furniture she can be anywhere in the house
And I know today her son is 4 year older and she live like nanny even now even her son don't know about her and just she is enjoying money and you know she is happy
So you can see here even an educated women done what she reduced her worth and even the other woman and the girl like and uneducated is happy because she think that my child is enjoying such a lavish life and I am also then what's the point she will say whole world don't know even he don't know about me but he is my blood
I look surprised with allthing
I don't know here anyone has experienced such thing or not
BUT WHEN I SEE AROUND I FEEL PROUD AND LUCKY FOR MYSELF THAT I HAVE GOT INDEPENDENCE AND FULL SUPPORT AND PURE LOVE OF MY PARENT AND BROTHER

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