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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun



😃 I agree with you. I shouldn't have said so. I should have said that my thought processes match more with Tia 😃 And yes, everyone is entitled to their opinion. However sometimes some discussions on Bijoy and Sona make me wonder how I cannot think on that line. 😳


No I see what you are saying. It happens in real life too right? Where we just don't get why ppl have certain opinions? And we do end up judging there. Ditto with fictional characters. I know I shouldn't be saying this here but during IPK (which was such a big craze and none of the shows today can match that fandom or craze in all honesty), there were so many women in support of ASR. He manhandled, he was insensitive and yet ppl loved him and rooted for Arnav-Khushi. I used to wonder how ppl can even justify some acts cos that forum was full of highly qualified and educated women. And then I realized its probably just fiction and entertainment for them. I know teens get influenced but then they get influenced by everything from Twilight to 50 Shades of Grey. I know I dont expect anything from Indian soaps. If I like the lead couple, their acting and chemistry, I stop caring after a point and just watch for time pass cos everything anyway stops making sense. So the formula is simple- Indian TV doesn't repeat couples and I wont get to watch these two together again so I forget logic and just hope for some mindless entertainment with a happy ending. Am I being shallow? Probably. You may probably judge me for saying that but thats just show it is. And I know thats not how I would judge a guy/couple in real life 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: astrix90

Am probably the only one who felt nothing after watching the episode. And thats when I realized how this show long ceased to be something more than brainless entertainment. The last time I felt bad/connected to anything happening on this show or any of the characters was way back when Dev-Sona first broke up 😆 Right now, nothing makes sense and nothing really matters 😆 I have to add though that Supriya P in that 2 minute scene was freaking fantastic. She is easily the best actress on this show IMO (and one of the best on Telly) and its actually brutal how the writers have destroyed her character 😆

Really really very good for you!!! 👏👏 You have reached the saturation point and attained moksha... I'm waiting for my day as well... 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Yes I felt bad for Elena too till she started explaining her mission failure in completing Dev-Ish agenda... Why can't this girl just cry and cry and cry non-stop without opening her mouth at all... 😆😆😆

🤣 Bang on. It hurts to see Dev and Ishwari getting what they want - be it information or life-partners or business deals. 😆

Yeah... Sona-Soha was really adorable where the little bear is kinda obsessed with her newfound Superman - The Bigcha!!! 😉😆 And the mamma bear is joining the fun thinking that her daughter has found a new fairytale story of her own... 😆

Daada-Ronita - Aren't they cute bonding over food... 😉 Perfect match... I remember one of my colleague telling his only criteria for his bride was someone who enjoys cooking and eating... And he found one too and she's just loves anything about food... 😆 Even if it's written on paper "Food" I think they will go on and on and on talking about it... 🤣 No offence to foodies... Just enjoying that emotion of people...😉 Daada-Ronita FirstNight Theme - Moods & Foods! 🤬😆😳

@ Bold - 😃 I can SO imagine that, since I have one at home - my hubby. 😆 My priority for finding a husband was to have a good and happy cook in him so that I can have good food always and no complaints on not being able or wanting to cook either 🤣 And I got one. 😉😆 At our place, 80% of discussions are limited to foods. 😛😆

Day by day Baaba is getting to be the super hero for me... 😉🤗 If only Sonakshi can value him in the right way... 😉 I used to fight and argue with my dad so much for his ways of doing things and our differences of opinion is too much... At the same I've always valued his core values and what his intentions were though his actions were generally misunderstood...

Oh God... I miss him a lot... 🤗 I always tell proudly that I'm like my dad... I've learnt how to be and how not to be, both from him... My husband used to tease me "If it goes by his ways he would bring back all his daughters to be with him to pamper them back because the husbands are not pampering enough" 😆 But my dad adored my husband and through my husband a lot of my dad's perception about the carefree "boys" changed! My FIL is another gentleman who has done quite a progressive act in those olden days for which even his family has ignored him initially and later accepted... It really takes real men to know each other's pulse well... Just like real women to understand each other well... I have immense respect for my MIL who though comes from a remote village in Tamilnadu has given wonderful values and progressive thoughts to his kids irrelevant of boy or girl... Ok if I start my family drama, then it will go on and on, so let me stop here... 😆 Blame it on this thread it provokes me to open up which I don't want to... 😆 Especially in a forum where Dev is adored... 🤪


I know what you mean. Life is the biggest teacher who with time convinces us whom we should look upto as our friend, philosopher and guide. I must say I am closer to my Maa, but I am the apple of my father's eye too. 😳 He doesn't feel hesitate to let me know when they feel hurt or judgmental on any of my in-laws regressive rituals and ask me rightfully on my agreements too 🤗. I can so feel his hurt but I convince him somehow that it's my choice. He, although painfully, gives in to my wishes. 😳 But I SO love such ideals and my husband openly admits in admiring him on so many fronts and keeps telling me how he is just like my father and wants to take care of me how my father does. 😳😳

I can never understand these Dev Dixits who, forget about giving respect to in-laws, cannot even provide 15 minutes to think about them and trying to know them.

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: reachanupama

First thing I was happy that Elena got what she deserved and it was her good fortune that Bijoy did not blast her in front of the Mondals. Anyway, I was at peace. I just could not tolerate her sitting there and laughing away as if nothing had happened. It was a perfect payback time for her.

Coming back to the episode, yes Ishwari finally got her Dev back. His pining for Suhana is all she needs to wield her control on him. I seriously want Sonakshi to throw the pre-nup on their face if they ever come asking for Suhana.

I have some serious doubts.

  • Which school lets strangers meet the children. In an age where even parents have to carry valid ID cards to enter the premises, how does Dev have access to Suhana ?
  • How many exits does the Bose house have ? When the Mondals exited, Jatin and Saurabh accompanied them to the door. How did Dev miss them ? Or how did they miss spotting Dev ?
  • If I remember correctly, Sonakshi's room was always on the upper floor. She used to take the steps to go to her room. How did Dev reach there ?


Arey yaar, you've a single pre-condition to watch this show... lock your brain somewhere otherwise you'll keep having innumerable doubts and all will remain unanswered forever.
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: astrix90


No I see what you are saying. It happens in real life too right? Where we just don't get why ppl have certain opinions? And we do end up judging there. Ditto with fictional characters. I know I shouldn't be saying this here but during IPK (which was such a big craze and none of the shows today can match that fandom or craze in all honesty), there were so many women in support of ASR. He manhandled, he was insensitive and yet ppl loved him and rooted for Arnav-Khushi. I used to wonder how ppl can even justify some acts cos that forum was full of highly qualified and educated women. And then I realized its probably just fiction and entertainment for them. I know teens get influenced but then they get influenced by everything from Twilight to 50 Shades of Grey. I know I dont expect anything from Indian soaps. If I like the lead couple, their acting and chemistry, I stop caring after a point and just watch for time pass cos everything anyway stops making sense. So the formula is simple- Indian TV doesn't repeat couples and I wont get to watch these two together again so I forget logic and just hope for some mindless entertainment with a happy ending. Am I being shallow? Probably. You may probably judge me for saying that but thats just show it is. And I know thats not how I would judge a guy/couple in real life 😆

Then we should stop analyzing their situations and relating to real life incidents right? That's where we are misleading the next gen... We like it or not accept it or not, Mass Media is a way to learn good and bad things... While the parents teach and feed values and lessons, kids are bound to learn from other ways too... So what we take it as entertainment and debate about it, knowing that we wouldn't do the same in our real life, thanks to our experiences, we are unknowingly impacting and misleading them, with our unwanted obsession with the onscreen characters... If we don't act mature then we can't expect them to be one, right... Just opening up for discussion.. Not offending your POV... 😉
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Push-pull

🤣Exactly... I was looking for a confused expression on Ishu but she was toh smiling... Even if Dev had said "I killed a dog who was troubling me so much and that's why I'm happy" she would have gone like "Oh beta if that's what it takes for you to be happy... Go beta go.. Kill more and more dogs... I will come along to do the catching too" 😆



😆 I know. I mean initially he didn't even say that it was a 6 yr old kid. 🤣

Dev : Maa mai papa ban gaya. 😃
Ishu : OMG really, let's throw a party. 🥳
Dev : But Maa, the kid, don't you want to know about the kid ? 😊
Ishu : I got my baccha back, what more do I want to hear ? I am so emotional 😭
Dev : But Maa, the details of the kid, the mother... 🤔
Ishu : *Arre koi band baaja bulaao, bhaangra bulaao, mera beta Baap ban gaya*.
Dev : 😕


😆 This Maa-Beta duo - always flaunting on their love for each other, blinded by their emotions and acknowledging no one else's but each others' love ... They have done it throughout their lives, they have started it again. 😆 Context - Doesn't matter, whatever keeps the boat floating. 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: --Amulya--


Arey yaar, you've a single pre-condition to watch this show... lock your brain somewhere otherwise you'll keep having innumerable doubts and all will remain unanswered forever.

😆🤣 Perfect pre-requisite!!! 👏👏 We need to empower each other in training ourselves for that... I know quitting the show is lot more easier... But I will miss all the fun here... 😉
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: astrix90


No I see what you are saying. It happens in real life too right? Where we just don't get why ppl have certain opinions? And we do end up judging there. Ditto with fictional characters. I know I shouldn't be saying this here but during IPK (which was such a big craze and none of the shows today can match that fandom or craze in all honesty), there were so many women in support of ASR. He manhandled, he was insensitive and yet ppl loved him and rooted for Arnav-Khushi. I used to wonder how ppl can even justify some acts cos that forum was full of highly qualified and educated women. And then I realized its probably just fiction and entertainment for them. I know teens get influenced but then they get influenced by everything from Twilight to 50 Shades of Grey. I know I dont expect anything from Indian soaps. If I like the lead couple, their acting and chemistry, I stop caring after a point and just watch for time pass cos everything anyway stops making sense. So the formula is simple- Indian TV doesn't repeat couples and I wont get to watch these two together again so I forget logic and just hope for some mindless entertainment with a happy ending. Am I being shallow? Probably. You may probably judge me for saying that but thats just show it is. And I know thats not how I would judge a guy/couple in real life 😆


See whatever you said is correct, because we know our expectations and we know the reason behind our likings. But that doesn't mean supporting wrong characters or deeds like locking women up in an empty office, or coming in an award show and doing tamasha in drunken state, or banging doors at midnight or throwing a woman out of the hotel room at midnight without shoes on - etc are acceptable.


If you see this thread, almost everyone of us still waiting to see Dev and Sona reunion, why we criticize Dev 24x7, because we expect CVs to read even 10% of our expectations and mould Dev's character in a way so that he becomes worthy of Sona. At the end of the day, if you see, 80% of us are actually pining for Devakshi reunion. But justifying wrong acts, blaming wrong persons to facilitate the process of what we want - I cannot do that anymore. I am ready to admit even I am hopeless when I expect Dev babu to change after all these and show ending with a happy note, but that will never prompt me to write something in support of Dev. It's not about being shallow. But today's virtual world DO reflect the Mob Mentality in a whole, and Twitter is a big proof of that. 😕 Yes they are faceless figures behind the curtain of a laptop screen, but still they exist right ? Wanting for a fantasy is not wrong, but it's the journey that counts, not destination. 😛
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Then we should stop analyzing their situations and relating to real life incidents right? That's where we are misleading the next gen... We like it or not accept it or not, Mass Media is a way to learn good and bad things... While the parents teach and feed values and lessons, kids are bound to learn from other ways too... So what we take it as entertainment and debate about it, knowing that we wouldn't do the same in our real life, thanks to our experiences, we are unknowingly impacting and misleading them, with our unwanted obsession with the onscreen characters... If we don't act mature then we can't expect them to be one, right... Just opening up for discussion.. Not offending your POV... 😉


Nope. No offense taken. I know what you are saying. I can only speak for myself. For me, every Indian show is just entertainment. I have long realized they dont care. They will show anything so long as they get money out of it. This show is no different and I realized it the moment they dealt with the infertility track in the most insensitive manner possible. I have already mentioned a million times that the only reason I want Dev-Sona together is because its fiction and am shallow 😆 I cant speak for others, can I? What if ppl actually relate to Dev? What if they think its okay to understand him and support him? Which is probably why they analyze and relate it to real life incidents. In which case they are not consciously misleading any teen on the forum cos they believe in it themselves. And I believe its unfair to judge them. Cos its their opinion at the end of the day. We may disagree, we may debate but why judge is all I was saying. Cos again, like I said, its a fictional show and I think its just futile judging real people over their opinions on fictional characters. And opinions are highly subjective at the end of the day. Some watch for entertainment, some watch out of habit, some watch cos they relate to Dev, some watch cos they love Sona- so be it. Thats all am saying. Again, we can agree to disagree 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun



😆 I know. I mean initially he didn't even say that it was a 6 yr old kid. 🤣

Dev : Maa mai papa ban gaya. 😃
Ishu : OMG really, let's throw a party. 🥳
Dev : But Maa, the kid, don't you want to know about the kid ? 😊
Ishu : I got my baccha back, what more do I want to hear ? I am so emotional 😭
Dev : But Maa, the details of the kid, the mother... 🤔
Ishu : *Arre koi band baaja bulaao, bhaangra bulaao, mera beta Baap ban gaya*.
Dev : 😕


😆 This Maa-Beta duo - always flaunting on their love for each other, blinded by their emotions and acknowledging no one else's but each others' love ... They have done it throughout their lives, they have started it again. 😆 Context - Doesn't matter, whatever keeps the boat floating. 😆

😆🤣 It was like he started from where he left 7 years back... He coming running to his Maa from the hospital where Sonakshi has delivered a baby... We should relate like that @PK... 😆 If we are stupid to not understand his state of mind and time, then he's not to be blamed right...😆

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