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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: kinu17

one thing today's episode i like the most when sona said kind this ..mitti jaise bho ho kumar rang deke acha kuch bana hi leta and looking at that busrya..awesome "👏


that was moon walk 😆👏
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Posted: 8 years ago
oye oye.. tia aapki pg 20 aaj bi hit hai boss
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Posted: 8 years ago
U'r sense of humour is amazing, tia. Comparing dev's neurons to international students was EPIC ..😆👏 Zero/less interactions !
Sona @ last put some sense into dev's thick head bout his maa without giving ishwari space to manipulate . Good move, sona . But even after that maataji is trying to defend herself n started emotional athyachaar ! Some things will never change until v break it forcefully
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---

Bang on!!!👏👏

Parents teach us to walk and they show us the path of life.But we have to walk on our own.They cannot walk with us..
Even a bird has to leave it's nest and learn to fly.
However Ishwari never wanted her son to fly.She even tried to clip his wings so that he remains in the nest.


And Sona was that air beneath his wings, who only wished to see him soar higher and higher in her love! Dev was one lucky man to have such selfless love in his life. He appreciated it, yet couldn't guard it from his evil family.

I always detest when people don't even value their lives. That's the only thing they truly got. Dev had always been selfless for his family to the opint that he could butcher his life with his own hands to please his mom and sisters. And Sonakshi was his life, so he never felt the need to stand up for her since he was never used to standing up for himself. So I guess that's the reason he demanded and expected that unsaid understanding from Sonakshi. And also that is why he was a different person when in room with Sonakshi and when he was amidst his family.
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: aadk

@bold, And that's apparently her maa ka mamta at play! I used to cringe everytime Dev used to utter lines as 'Hum donon alag hai maa.. Baaki duniya jaise nhi', 'Tum toh meri bhagwan ho ma' to pacify Ishwari. These delusional talks cost him his life! He had also said something along the lines that a mother-child relationship is the very first relationship that we form in our lives and how can one manage other relationships if one can't manage the mother-child relationship! Children come through parents and not from parents. Parents are not the source of life to be placed on the pedestal and worshipped. They are as flawed as anyone else.

Parents are to be loved.. When we love someone we accept their flaws.. We don't act like they are flawless.. Every time Dev treats Ishu like God and indulges her in her demands, she's only getting more pacified to continue her tactics.. And when he resists her she thinks that the bond is lost.. Difference of opinion is also part of the relationship and that doesn't make it an end.. You can still love each other if we can understand the differences between themselves.. Dev-Ish should accept the fact that they want different things in life. And not necessary that both have to like the same to prove that they love each other.. 😉
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: rockstar.sj

oye oye.. tia aapki pg 20 aaj bi hit hai boss

my Red tia kithe ho..look what we have done? like buriya kumar Potter job graphicsbann ke page 20 kar dala..😆
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: aarcha

U'r sense of humour is amazing, tia. Comparing dev's neurons to international students was EPIC ..😆👏 Zero/less interactions !

Sona @ last put some sense into dev's thick head bout his maa without giving ishwari space to manipulate . Good move, sona . But even after that maataji is trying to defend herself n started emotional athyachaar ! Some things will never change until v break it forcefully

finally tu tapak padi🤗 y lut (late)😆 nowadays i talk like my best freind GKB😆
Edited by kinu17 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago

Except when that woman is a mother, then she is Taj Mahal re-incarnated even if she buries her child underground.

That is the most brutal truth abt some mothers.
Have seen some MILs in real life destroy their son's life and marriage just like Ishwari did.

Kudos to Sona for exposing Ishwari's lies 👏

But Ishu is as slippery as an eel and always gets away with her emotional blackmailing.

Dev's brain is processing info slowly

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: kinu17

finally tu tapak padi🤗 y lut (late)😆 nowadays i talk like my best freind GKB😆


😃 time zone difference yaar , need to drop my boys to school now ..baki in pm 😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
I am so very sorry to read about your friend. That's the mentality I kept fighting against ever since I came into the forum that a wife is always at the bottom of all consideration because otherwise, the man is not loyal to his family or Jodu ka ghulam.

This is also not the first incident of its kind I read about.

Believe it or not it's all too common for NRI men to go to India to marry because they believe a woman born and raised in India will have less demands for their rights since they will come to a foreign country away from family and friends.

I knew a guy who already was in a live-in relationship in Canada with a Canadian woman while his family knowing about his live-in relationship was arranging his marriage in India with a girl. He was staying up in the night chatting with the girl in India while his girlfriend thought that he was working late.

But unlike some families, the girl's family asked their friends in Canada to find out about the guy. The friends asked around and lo and behold the truth was revealed that the guy was living with a girl. The family called off the marriage. The guy's family took big offence, insulted the girl's family and threatened that their daughter will never get married.

The girl used google to locate the home phone no. of the apartment he was living in with his girlfriend (there is a website for that), called the apartment, spoke to the girl he was cheating, took their entire chat conversation and emailed it to the girl.

The Canadian girl thanked the Indian girl, kicked the guy out and sent the Indian girl friend request on facebook. Now they are still friends.

What happened to the guy? He went outside the main city of Kolkata to a small subarb and married a girl from a family who didn't protect their daughter like the previous family. How that girl is faring now is another story altogether.

Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---

Guys I wish to share something.Earlier I used to think that moms like Ishwari and sons like Dev who are obsessed with their mothers do not exist in real life.But a few days ago an incident occurred with someone whom I know which changed my views.

One of my mom's friends' daughter got married a couple of years ago.The guy was based in Australia,was well settled and they thought that everything was fine.Even the boy's family seemed to be so sweet when they had met them.

But recently the girl returned home and she was on the verge of depression.Her husband was not who he seemed to be.After a couple of months of the wedding,the guy's mom and his sister came to stay with them.Then he started showing his true colors.He wouldn't do anything without asking his mom and sis.The girl had to ask his mother's permission even for buying a toothpaste.Moreover the guy used to sleep with his mom at night because he wasn't used to sleeping without his mom.His wife was completely isolated.The guy's mom and sis used to taunt her on a regular basis.They even told her that she was worthless and had no value.They guy did not utter a word against them.She could not even go out without their permission.
Finally the girl couldn't take it anymore and returned.Her parents have decided to end the marriage once and for all and she is attending counselling sessions.She is not the same anymore.Earlier she used to be happy,confident and vibrant.But now she is almost unrecognizable.


Atleast Dev had genuinely cared for Sona but this guy did not even bother to speak a couple of words with his wife.

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