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Tinkerfairy

@Tinkerfairy

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#271

Sonakshi ke jagah koi aur normal insaan hota ,she would hAve left this guy from first breakup itself.Dev sona ka pura relationship toxic hain.i remembered once bijoy gave advice to sona ke Jo insaan tumhe inferior feel karwaye ,make you doubting yourself even for one sec ,He doesn't deserve you.I am missing bijoy lessons to sona .He used to give such superb advice.😊 Yese Love ka Kya fayada jisme khud ki identity hi chali jaye.😕

Edited by Tinkerfairy - 8 years ago

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486792

Hibernated

Posted: 8 years ago

#272

Originally posted by: gemini54
Thanks to all who answered my questions.
I ventured elsewhere and got a shock of my life.
😲
Why do people want Sona to have deewangi? Suffer Loses, Jatin to be gray? Dev to take Soha away?
why cant that girl just get a break find a wonderful person in Jatin and sail away. And Dev find the bubbly girl or whatever the new one is and find fun in his life?

Cant understand why Sona should feel jealous , suffer etc..why do we women want other woman to suffer in the name of LUB😭. This totally saddens me leaves a very bad taste on my mouth and just want to go away to see the beautiful AZ sunset myself and forget about this goddamn show

Gauri what is KZK?

Hi Sabita Di!!!!

Well why do people want Sona to suffer??

Ans.Because they feel that Dev is suffering which seems quite illogical to me??

Why do they want Sona to suffer losses??

Ans.Probably because it's hard to accept a successful woman if the male lead is not behind her success.

Why do they want Jatin to be grey??

Ans.Because vilifying Jatin is the only way to glorify Dev.

Why do they want Sona to feel jealous??

Ans.Because if she doesn't feel jealous,break things,behave childishly,etc then she is heartless.She doesn't love Dev.

I am amazed to see how some people think.😕

Edited by ---Andromeda--- - 8 years ago

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aadk

@aadk

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#273

Originally posted by: gemini54
Thanks to all who answered my questions.
I ventured elsewhere and got a shock of my life.
😲
Why do people want Sona to have deewangi? Suffer Loses, Jatin to be gray? Dev to take Soha away?
why cant that girl just get a break find a wonderful person in Jatin and sail away. And Dev find the bubbly girl or whatever the new one is and find fun in his life?

Cant understand why Sona should feel jealous , suffer etc..why do we women want other woman to suffer in the name of LUB😭. This totally saddens me leaves a very bad taste on my mouth and just want to go away to see the beautiful AZ sunset myself and forget about this goddamn show

Gauri what is KZK?

Gemini, strong female leads are still not the reality in Indian television scenario. You should just have a glance at pakistani serials as humsafar. They have got women characters of such strength that you give a damn about the love story for you are so inspired by their strength to stand tall in spite of a bruised past. The kind of strength and effort that would have taken Sonakshi to get to where she is today from absolutely nowhere coupled with raising a child all alone would have just blocked all those cracks leading to her vulnerable self. One can't expect vulnerability in someone who has gone through so much in life. I fail to understand why this is too much to be understood by people. Instead of celebrating this strength, people wish to see the person breaking so as to accommodate love. Am so rooting for the CVs to keep portraying Sonakshi the way she has been so far. This season shouldn't be about a broken Sonakshi of the past coming to surface and falling in love with Dev all over. It should be about the Sonakshi of today, as she is, being won over by Dev ! That would make this serial worth the watch for me!

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 8 years ago

#274

You know what is the solution to it, Gau? First women need to love and value themselves which the mentality and attitude of the society don't teach them. According to the society, women are either Goddesses/saint or witches/b**ches. There is no in between for them. They are not considered humans with human emotions, failings, reactions etc. God help you if they can't put you in the Goddess box or witches box. They will damn well extend the witches box to shove you in there whether you fit in there or not.

Secondly, women need to stop competing with each other to gain a man's/society's approval. Why do you think some women hate Feminists? Isn't it like hating the freedom fighters who came to give you independence? They hate Feminists to be more appealing to the society, like see, unlike these people, we are happy to settle for crumbs. Aren't we more attractive, undemanding, womanly to you now? Unlike these women, we are going to excuse, justify, "understand" everything you do. Aren't we so much more like your idea of conforming ideal women now?

Originally posted by: gaushiv13

I pity this society
Why noone can't live in peace and nor they let anyone live in peace
Women is the worst enemy of themselves
Although god has given alot to women everything every right is given to women but they don't know to use it in better way
A woman has so much strength that she do multiple task at a time she can work like a man take care of child and everything while most men fail to do multiple task at a time
But we can't do anything because now about every women has made a world around child and living for their family that they are not able to see the other facade which she is missing
They give the right to everyone to do whatever they do
Biggest example is a mother who herself is a daughter who at some point has been discriminated but when it comes their turn they are teh one who want baby boy and do multiple abortion
Anyway I have got tired of seeing all these around me everyday and my helplessness that I can't even make them understand be it my cousins or neighbour or my own mother that now I have even given up

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aadk

@aadk

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#275

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy
Sonakshi ke jagah koi aur normal insaan hota ,she would hAve left this guy from first breakup itself.Dev sona ka pura relationship toxic hain.i remembered once bijoy gave advice to sona ke Jo insaan tumhe inferior feel karwaye ,make you doubting yourself even for one sec ,He doesn't deserve you.I am missing bijoy lessons to sona .He used to give such superb advice.😊 Yese Love ka Kya fayada jisme khud ki identity hi chali jaye.😕

That's one of my favourite scenes! Where are those writers? Sigh!🥱

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486792

Hibernated

Posted: 8 years ago

#276

There is something which I fail to understand.Dev just broke a few things in his office and people immediately jump to sympathise with him and feel his pain.

7 years ago,Sonakshi was insulted,her family was humiliated like anything.Yet everyone conveniently forgets that suffering??

Everyone feels that Sona had Soha all these years while poor Dev had nothing.Dev is deprived of his daughter's love,blah,blah.

Did anyone ever spare a thought to what Sona must have endured?? She was left homeless with her family and she had to take care of a newborn baby.

Sonakshi has already suffered enough in life.And most of her sufferings were because she fell in love with Dev.

As of now,Sonakshi should get all the happiness in the world because she deserves it.

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 8 years ago

#277

The key word is "normal", Tinker. Lekin Sonakshi pyaar mein normal kahan hoti hain? Woh to apne aap ko hi bhool jaati hain. Poori ki poori personality transplant ho jaata hain uska. Bijoy was right. Sacha pyaar banata hain. Todta nehin hain.

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy
Sonakshi ke jagah koi aur normal insaan hota ,she would hAve left this guy from first breakup itself.Dev sona ka pura relationship toxic hain.i remembered once bijoy gave advice to sona ke Jo insaan tumhe inferior feel karwaye ,make you doubting yourself even for one sec ,He doesn't deserve you.I am missing bijoy lessons to sona .He used to give such superb advice.😊 Yese Love ka Kya fayada jisme khud ki identity hi chali jaye.😕

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486792

Hibernated

Posted: 8 years ago

#278

Originally posted by: tia.o
The key word is "normal", Tinker. Lekin Sonakshi pyaar mein normal kahan hoti hain? Woh to apne aap ko hi bhool jaati hain. Poori ki poori personality transplant ho jaata hain uska. Bijoy was right. Sacha pyaar banata hain. Todta nehin hain.

@bold,this line sums it all.

In Dev and Sona's relationship,Sona's love had healed Dev's wounds.She had given him happiness and taught him how to smile.

If we look at it from this perspective then Sona's love had made Dev realise about the beautiful colours around him.

However its just the opposite case when we look as Dev's love.Dev's love for Sona has given her nothing but mental and emotional carnage.His love drained all the colours from her life.

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 8 years ago

#279

What? Sonakshi got insulted? Well, she deserves to be insulted. She should have swallowed her insults, her family's insults and trusted a repeatedly proven lier and be understanding. That's how a good woman, a good wife should behave. Sonakshi had such a happy life. She was a single pregnant women, homeless, in debt, with responsibility of her family and broke.

Look at how much Dev had suffered with his unlimited money, unending women willing to have casual relationship/one night stands in hotel rooms, come and go as he pleases, no commitment, no responsibility. Such a sad sad life having to have sex with women while hating his wife. Hey, it's a tough life. But our Dev bhaiya is strong. He got through it with a lot of hard work and long hours devoted to his goal to forget Sonakshi.

And why should Sonakshi have all the fun? Having a platonic friend who is only a business partner? Now Bhaiya also need someone who can make him smile (I mean sex he can get anytime. But now he needs smile and only what he needs matter). Shouldn't that be the objective for every women to make him smile? If it's not, it should be. His Mummy said so.

Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---
There is something which I fail to understand.Dev just broke a few things in his office and people immediately jump to sympathise with him and feel his pain.
7 years ago,Sonakshi was insulted,her family was humiliated like anything.Yet everyone conveniently forgets that suffering??

Everyone feels that Sona had Soha all these years while poor Dev had nothing.Dev is deprived of his daughter's love,blah,blah.

Did anyone ever spare a thought to what Sona must have endured?? She was left homeless with her family and she had to take care of a newborn baby.

Sonakshi has already suffered enough in life.And most of her sufferings were because she fell in love with Dev.
As of now,Sonakshi should get all the happiness in the world because she deserves it.

Edited by tia.o - 8 years ago

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gaushiv13

@gaushiv13

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#280

Originally posted by: tia.o
You know what is the solution to it, Gau? First women need to love and value themselves which the mentality and attitude of the society don't teach them. According to the society, women are either Goddesses/saint or witches/b**ches. There is no in between for them. They are not considered humans with human emotions, failings, reactions etc. God help you if they can't put you in the Goddess box or witches box. They will damn well extend the witches box to shove you in there whether you fit in there or not.

Secondly, women need to stop competing with each other to gain a man's/society's approval. Why do you think some women hate Feminists? Isn't it like hating the freedom fighters who came to give you independence? They hate Feminists to be more appealing to the society, like see, unlike these people, we are happy to settle for crumbs. Aren't we more attractive, undemanding, womanly to you now? Unlike these women, we are going to excuse, justify, "understand" everything you do. Aren't we so much more like your idea of conforming ideal women now?

Exactly my point Tia

I have also stopped talking to them on these thing and I have tdecided what I want in my life and I will raise my viewpoint if I feel if anything is going wrong with me

Because we can't stop others but we can stop ourselves

Their love is so unconditional on the name of brother mother or father with their clichd thought that they find happiness everyone other than herself

In this forum everyone know what's right and wrong as we are ready to accept here that sona did wrong in not taking soha case seriously and bruised the topic by making an excuse and if she will really gonextreme like soha will ask to meet and she will make some excuse then we will bash even sona but here their blind fan ship and love for shaheer make them bad mouth even sona whom they know what she has gone through and what she will have to go through if she would have told Dev at that time there was only two options either Dev has asked to both sona and soha to come or snatched soha or has given financial support to them because he would have left his child in poverty but ya he can live his wife because there is no such blood relation with sona that's why sometime I feel did Dev ever loved sona or he would make her return in his life if soha was adopted child

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