Originally posted by: AnnzSageflower7
Hi guys ,
Honest Question : why is there so much anger on Jatin?Just because a couple looks good together, are they end game? Sure Devakshi loved each other a lot. But they didn't understand each other well.Dev was expecting Sona to just adapt into his life and tag along as it were. She on the other hand , thought she could actually be a part of the family enough to enrich it.No. They didn't want her to change anything. She was supposed to just go along and blend in. That's what Elena did and she has a 7 year happy marriage of dubious principles.Here, GKB was the better MIL than Ishwari, why?Because Vicky set the ground rules for his mom, and she toed the line. Elena doesn't care about anything. She takes care of her own career, and her kid. The rest can go where they like.Sona's mistake was she wanted to be an executive part of the family too. That's her personality, she is a do-er, leader not a follower. She's a dominant type personality. And that's not wrong at all. These types need strong spined mature husbands with their priorities on straight. If not the dominant woman will seek to correct the weaknesses she sees. Democracy is her way. Give and receive respect.That's what she's getting from Jatin. It's obvious Ritwik and Jatin were mature enough to give her that. See how Sona accepts Jatin's calm interference . He knew she was being goaded by Dev, and he just removed her from there.The new Dev is an interesting man. He finally sees the situation around him in his family, and even told his mom off for expecting a little too much from Sonakshi. This Dev will stand between his mom and Sonakshi , telling his mom to back off.But the Dev who wants to punish Sonakshi for leaving, still fails to understand her.
Sagy... pls do drop by the forum more often. I really love your take. She's suffered coz she cared, a little too much. Not a good lesson to take home.