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Posted: 8 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: gemini54

Hi my post was a general gripe nothing against what you posted and I agree with all you said below but I am fed up with why Bijoy, Sona or anyone in the Bose family have to always prove themselves and the Dixits can do or say anything and we can justify everything they do.

In essence put the Bose under a microscope all the time and simply look the other way when it comes to the Dixits

again no offense to your post at all

Savita Di,I understand that your post was not directed towards me.Even my post was not directed towards your post.My post too was a general one.
It's just that I felt everyone will be confused with my varying opinions.So I just wanted to clarify.😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I am least bothered about jatin. But why I am feeling cvs going to justify eshwari action through sona's fear. Thinking about it I am going mad. Also, prenup agreement no where will be discussed and no more realising mistakes from eshwari and Dev. Now they are going to justify through sona's fear and sure there will be ugly court battle where child has to choose between father and mother. Then eshwari will be realising where she put Dev and how he juggled. I am sure mother and son won't realise their mistake how much they humiliated sona.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

ye toh har forum ki kahani Hain. Male character has always been treated like poor tortured soul islye sympathy while female character should be all about understanding ki murat. 🤢 if she has done mistakes like any human she will be crucified like anything.

Sigh!!! When will both the characters be treated equally in this aspect?
No one protested when Dev became a casanova but they have problems if Sonakshi only gets a friend.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#44
Awesome post Tia..I was waiting😃
I did not like Bijoy talking about Sona's re-marriage so lightly. Sona's re-marriage also includes Soha's decision. Though I do understand where it was coming from and I hope he does not try to pressurise her for anything. Agree that its usually Asha whose decision holds in Bose family and she was sensible.

I have been reading many posts regd Sona who never tried to be friends with Dev in season-1 and she needs to realise it.

My two cents on this whole thing.

Anything happens between a couple is never one-sided. Nothing. It takes two to tango. Only the contribution percent differs.

Devakshi started when Sona was the glimmer of hope for Dev. Someone with whom he could share his views and problems. Sona's answers would be the perfect ones which many a time resolved the issues or guided Dev in handling the issue. Sona became Dev's only true friend. It was never the other way round. She never shared her insecurities or problems with him. This is not her mistake though. For her, he was already burdened heavily by the Dixit clan and his mama-mami(I dont consider them to be Dixits). He already had too much on his plate. Instinctively you wont share your problems with someone who is muddled up with his own ones always. After marriage, I did not see the equation changing. I have never seen Dev proactively concerned about Boses or their well being..may the CVs did not show it but does a Son-in-law have any duty of calling up his in-laws once in a while and just talk casually about how they are and how is their health etc? I dont see any active participation from Dev's side. Neither did Sona try to inform hm about anything...he already had too much to begin with..so Boses thought lets us resolve our issues ourselves. Friendship is never a one-way approach. If Sona could not be friends with Dev, there has to be the approachability factor which never let her do so with the person she loved so much. She cared about him too much to burden him with more of her problems. Dev, as usual, the naive one never thought Sona and her family could be facing problems.

If I care to call up my in-laws to know about their well-being, my hubby too should be calling up to my parents once in a while to know about their well being.

Dev never let the window open. Sona ,lovestruck, tried to avoid it as well. Even if Sona realises her mistake here, she can not befriend him if he doesnot let her. The initiative has to come from both.

Ishwari's absence made my day.

My observation: Bose family is expanding. I expect Dev will end up soon here too.😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
#45
Sabita, you always make the wisest of points. My comments are below. Agree with all your points. If Sona was like Ishwari, she would have poisoned Soha's mind against her father. She didn't do it.

If she was like Ishwari, she'd have used her motherhood and sacrifices to force Soha to stay away from her dad, instead she gave a six years old girl a choice. Some people claimed that a six years old is not capable of making choice. But if she comes tomorrow and wants to meet her dad and Sona denies her, the forum will them blame Sonakshi for NOT giving Soha, the same six years old a choice. So the giving a six years old a choice is only acceptable if she makes a choice everyone wants her to make. That is not a choice, that's a condition.

At the end of the day, the proof remains that none of the Bose ever put pressure on any member of family to take ANY decision. Sonakshi would have take Soha to her father if she was in distress. But she has shown not an ounce of distress or talked about missing her father.

Soha is like Dev that way that she speaks something and then changes it so it's hard to know if she is serious or not. However, no one ever forces her for anything. Instead everyone just wants her to be happy, no matter what she wants.

Bijoy is eccentric. But if he only wanted Bengali jamai for Sonakshi, he won't have accepted Dev as Sonakshi's choice the first time. He was the one who took the alliance to Ishwari. He turned off Dev after he broke Sona's heart and made her cry.

Every parents want their kids to marry within a familiar community, but Bose family never forced that on their children.

How is that ever can be compared to Ishwari I don't know.

Originally posted by: gemini54

Hi Tia Today I swore I needed to stay away from the forum but your post made me want to post

I think I know where the story is headed- Easwari and Dev glorification has started because the makers thought we have showed Sona strong so let us balance it out

1. Bijoy and Easwari are being compared - in my books it is like apples to oranges- granted Bijoy has his faults but in my opinion he is no Easwari but Apples and Oranges are fruits so Bijoy and Easwari belong to one category.( Thanks Rose for this wonderful analogy)


2. Sona being insecure about Soha is another tactic where they want to show how it feels when someone loses their child ---this tactic is retarded but this is where it is going

3. Sona hid Soha - Let us not talk about circumstances and let us forget at the beginning of this season Sona did want Soha to know her father and in yesterdays episode she did not really bad mouth him just answered Sona question as to whether he was like a hero, Tall Handsome and angry and she said yes but all that does not matter all it matters is she hid Soha so Dev is all alone

4. Sona cannot have any friends that she can confide in..just like Dev did not have any other than Sona so Sona cannot have any other than Dev- So if your husband is an introvert and you are an extrovert please change because that is what a marriage is all about

So in essence show that Sona could not have survived without financial help from a Guy..A guy we never heard of ..my question why couldn't it have been a GF ? but no it has to be a guy because how else can they show jealous ML or whatever Dev is feeling now

Sona cannot think of really moving on in life because Dev has really not moved on so we need to get someone for him to so that Hizaab Barabar..so please write to the makers to bring back the hotel girl so ugly custody battle can start where both parties are not single😉

The Bose's are really acting exactly like the Dixits how dare they want Sona to move on?, how dare Saurabh has ill feelings towards Dev who helped him, How dare Sona thank Jatin when Dev really helped her? How dare Sona think Dev will snatch Soha because she is rich now so cannot have feelings?.

So welcome to How Dare Sona and to TEAM DEV and TEAM Easwari for both the mother son duo are the true rockstars even the earlier montage showed that ..need I go on

P.S You can tell by my tone I have had a long stressful day at work😉

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Posted: 8 years ago
#46
I don't know. This Dev is vindictive. That makes me scared for Sonakshi.

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

Abhi jitne log sona ko Blame kar rahe Hain na ,like she snatched child from his father ,she's acting just like ishwari😆 I have feeling Ye sab in future Dixits ke mahan aatmaye GKB and ishwari gonna spout this dialogues to sona .Issi reason se they will ask dev to go for custody battle😕 ab Ye dev babu par hoga whether he wants child to be separated from her mother.agar ishwari bhi soha ki custody ke liye bolegi then it will be slap on ishwari hypocrisy only.

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Posted: 8 years ago
#47
I agree with all your points. And why Sonakshi's every single flaws are magnified and Dev's major flaws are ignored, that's the mentality of our society where a woman has to be doodh ka dhula victim and a man can be any kind of jerk to be forgiven.

Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---

I just wish to clarify something.Going by my posts in the forum,I may sound like a confused soul.But here is what I really feel about the scenario.

1.Should Sona have a friend??

Of course she should have.Why can't she have a friend??

2.Should Sona move on in life??

If she really wishes to move on then she should move on for sure.But she should not take the decision out of coercion.

3.Should Sona reveal Soha's truth to Dev??

Yes.I guess it's high time she reveals the truth.Moreover she is competent enough to fight for her daughter.

4.Is Bijoy right in being extremely overprotective??

No.Because the ultimate decision is in Sona's hands.

5.Is Bijoy like Ishwari??

No and he will never be.Because no one can become a psycho like Ishwari.

6.Is Sonakshi becoming like Ishwari??

Definitely not.Had she been like Ishwari then she would have poisoned Soha's mind against Dev by now.


7.Are the Boses responsible for breaking Sona's marriage??

No.The Boses might have made mistakes.But their mistakes are miniscule compared to what Dev and the Dixits did to them.


Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---

I have also observed one thing.When Sonakshi makes a small mistake,people make a mountain out of a molehill about it.But even when Dev commits the gravest of mistakes,people are ready to justify his mistakes and defend him.

Why is all the pyaar and hookah bar for Dev only?? Sona too should get equal treatment.

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Posted: 8 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---

Sigh!!! When will both the characters be treated equally in this aspect?

No one protested when Dev became a casanova but they have problems if Sonakshi only gets a friend.

The reason is Sonakshi has set the bar high up there. Remember the dialogue from Guru, how much ppl say about u is the actual measure of your success...so enjoy everything!! If Sona having a friend is a problem, it only means how high her bar she has set up 😃😃...I'm proud of her is all I can say👍🏼
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Posted: 8 years ago
#49
As usual wonderful post tia 👏
jatin seems very good & much understanding person who knows what's going on inside sona's mind or heart. Sona's fear that dev snack sona is totally understandable. we know how dev behaved in award function then everyday in office, how can mother put her child in this kind of person? This kind of behavior is not good for kids we all know & Ishwari? Can any mother want her child stay with people? Dev never respect sona or sona' s family so her fear ia valid for me.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#50

Originally posted by: tia.o

Thank you, Tia.

Well, can't call the new entry Surya Dev because he is the smokescreen for Surya Devi. Let's call this new entry Rainfall as in barsaat...

Gardener wants the phool to only belong to him and rainfall is there only to supply irrigation to make the phool grow stronger. But maali even though is doing absolutely nothing to nourish the phool, he even has problem with rainfall to fall on his phool. But stupid maali can't see, the rainfall is also falling on his head and jolting him to his senses.

Golu, poor thing, is so cheerful even with a crappy family. I feel for him. I hope Soha befriends him and brings him to her home to share her wonderful family with him.

About Sona's insecurity, it's there. But she can't read Soha's mind or go against her decision. I think after meeting Golu's uncle, she will express her desire to meet her father and Sonakshi, even though it's a tough decision, will take the step. But her loyalty is with Soha. Not with Dev. Without Soha's wish, Sona won't force Soha specially since she is not showing any interest in meeting Dev nor any visible sign of distress.







You made a beautiful comparison of Jatin with Rainfall 👏... I hope he actually manages to knock some real sense into Mr. Obhodro Dixit. I called him Surya Dev because Dev thought he is... and ab woh akhade mein utarne k liye tayyar h 😆

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