Snakes and Ladders-Playing it your way - Page 4

Originally posted by: preethik

I never said dev should move out. I am just saying as a general rule it's good for a new couple to have that time & space to get to know about each other.

As for sona dev kept telling her not to participate in a best bahu competition. He kept telling her not to change for anybody. He got so upset when decided to fast. I'm not saying sona should neglect ish but she was trying hard to be the ideal daughter in law & always failing. I felt if she had concentrated on her relation with dev with more communication it would have helped her. She could have left the cooking clothes etc to ish.

I am not saying she should be like Elena but should have found a balance between elen & sona!

Originally posted by: fangirl-rt

I read some of the replies where the gal was successful in changing husband's thinking... it is good if it has worked...

but in some cases, down the line this strategy backfires... the guy goes into introspection when he looses his parents and in many cases jumps to the conclusion (conveniently to get rid of his own guilt) that his wife alienated him from his parents blah blah...

As Tia said, it is really not worth putting in efforts behind someone who is fundamentally weak and can be pulled into either directions... remember if he has been listening to mamma and one fine day starts "listening" to you, it is not companionship...it is babysitting...