Ishwari vs Bijoy - Page 3

All girls need supportive fathers like Bijoy. After all it is the girls in our society ,who are victimised ,aren't they?All parents need to worry about their daughters and Bijoy was worried, it's fine. On the other hand Ishwari's insecurities were totally unfounded. Ishu is a psycho whereas Bijoy is 100% true

Nice post dear.and i agree wid u. Comparing ishwari and bijoy is like comparing terrorist and soldiers 😆

There. Is difference between protective and possessive
Bijoy was protective towards sona whereas ishwari was possessive and Insecured
Really want dev to realize repent and redeem not only to sona but bijoy too hope they show and start realization and redeemtion track instead of this kiddish fight

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Bijoy and Sonakshi Bose are the two best characters I have seen in Indian Television. And I am saying this after I have watched Balika Vadhu with FIL and MIL like Sumitra and Bhairo . I have my points why I feel Sona-Bijoy are better than the above 2 despite them 2 being flawless in their roles. 😊

As this topic is only about Bijoy, so let me make some points only on him -

1. Initially, he had heard bad stuffs about Dev from Sona, and he went to speak to Dev as Sona's boss and witnessed something very sensitive, he not only changed his mind about Dev, but also felt truly happy when Sona fell in love with him. He was just happy for both of them. Didn't differentiate, forget about feeling an ounce of insecurity.

2. However, Dev fell into pits in his eyes the moment Dev acted like a total jerk and chose his mother over Bijoy's daughter without batting an eyelash 😳. I mean are we really expecting him to do 'aarti-utaaro' of Dev for such great act when we see from the father's point of view ? 🤢

3. He made an effort to make Sona move on, WITH HER consent. The environment Bijoy has created at his home, it was expected that if Sona is NOT ready for a relationship, she had the space to say 'NO' to Bijoy. When Sona said 'Yes', Bijoy took her words on her face value, because that was how he has grown his children into - NOT lying, NOT hiding. Little did he know Sona had other plans 🤢.

4. He came to know that Dev is harrassing Sona by stalking and making it difficult for her to move on 😵. Dev continued to fall down in Bijoy's eyes.

5. Engagement Drama - The guy came to his daughter's engagement and not only created a scene, but made the ceremony flop resulting in broken relationship with a guy like Rithwik, with whom he visioned a perfect future for Sona as the environment, frankness and mostly, the mindset matches. 😊 However, the guy got drunk and made Rithwik run from the circus. 😎

6. Next morning he saw the drunkard guy's mother begging and emotionally blackmailing his daughter much against his plight to marry the same guy. The guy was nowhere in the picture asking Bijoy for his daughter's hands, apologizing for his brutal behaviour. All he saw was the guy's MOMMY playing big in the picture. Oh Bijoy, if I were you, I would have never agreed for this bond 😆. Why did you ? His ONLY mistake was not to test Dev and his loyalty towards Sona over HIS mother BEFORE marriage.

7. Ever since then he saw Sona suffering by Dev's lies, his actions. Even when Sona fought with Dev and returned home for 2 days, Bijoy, for the sake of children (Dev included) encouraged Dev to go get his daughter. 👏 Had he been bitter and unaccepting about Dev, he could have easily added fuel to their fight, but he mellowed down. And everyone knows about his treating Dev and Sona equally by throwing BOTH out at night, and not just Dev.

8. He mellowed down towards Dev UNTIL this MCP made a point to hurt Bijoy's WIFE. With the help of his mother (who is also, the BEST MIL in the show BTW🥳) and his own consent, Bijoy made an entry to the field to humiliate Dev ONLY to give the same amount of insult back to him which Dev caused to his wife. What a man .

9. Everything went well, until one day he found out about the man's lies on his daughter's pregnancy and infertility treatment. And both had happened for the same reason as their break-up 6 months ago. The flashbacks of his daughter's heartbreak - and he bounced back 🤗. This time, not letting her daughter make a mistake JUST for this guy who cannot think BEYOND his mother. 👍🏼

10. Last straw - Money. One thing is constant with Bijoy Bose - he is NOT a money-lover. Money cannot buy him. Asha's lame argument on Dev's helping Saurabh in his business by lending money - cannot buy Bijoy. Money means nothing to him (and I cannot love him more for this 🤗). If Mr. Dev Dixit thought that in last 6 months, THIS gesture of him can help in winning Bijoy Bose, he is SEVERELY mistaken. So of course as an unavoidable consequence of the events, Bijoy Bose could NOT end up appreciating Mr. Dev, who never tried to impress Bijoy with anything except MONEY, because that is ALL Dev has. 😃

If the above flow of incidents make Bijoy same as Ishwari, then be it. But from where I see it, Bijoy wanted Dev-Sona marriage to work out as a normal marriage does, as his own marriage with Asha did. But ALL Dev could do is hurt his daughter's pride, heart and respect - hence, Dev couldn't earn ANY respect in Bijoy's book. Instead of the Sweet-Boxes and 5 crores, had Dev shown compassion towards Sona and her family, Bijoy would have been much happier with Dev. The 2/3 incidents when Dev did it, he loved Dev.

Bijoy is my favourite character, he is just like my father. People might call him loud, rude..etc. but I know how heart of gold he is. He is a ideal man, perfect son, husband and father. I am thankful to makers bringing such character on TV. And I should applaud actor too in making bejoy.

I agree that Bijoy is a protective and good father, but comparing him with Ishwari? Every person is different and how their react to their situation is different, it all depends upon the atmosphere which you grow, the ups and downs which you face and your own in born nature. I have not followed the serial from start and maybe I am wrong in my analysis but I don't agree to the statement that Ishwari's insecurities are unfounded. As far as I know, she was a young widow? with no money, nobody to support and even if she stayed with her brother, don't know how many countless taunts she would have heard from her sister in law and all the sexual harassment she would have faced. Inspite of it she got her children educated, except maybe for Neha but that were her circumstances. Now inspite of all her wealth, she has the inherent fear of abandonment and being left again alone. I am assuming she would have seen her brother who no doubt wanted to help her but unable to do much because of his wife. It is not the question of Dev is good or Sona is good, their would not do it but she cant help herself. On top of that Dev's lying for every thing, Gkb and Neha fuelling her insecurities didn't help her. She needs help and assurance in which Dev sadly failed.

Originally posted by: randommusings

Absolutely loved reading your post. Bijoy always had Sona's happiness n respect in mind whereas Ish only worried abt her happiness and future. This comparison between Bijoy n Ishwari are completely baseless. Though one thing is common- both Ish n Bijoy gets instigated by Gkb.

Though there are times when I wished Bijoy handled the situation better as he is matured n sensible acted as per Asha's suggestion.

When Ish was missing, Bijoy got instigated by Gkb n said Ish is doing drama. Though its accurate description of the situation but when everyone is worried abt Ish...such statement wud obviously not be appreciated.

Bijoy shud hav shown more trust on Sona to handle situations with Dixit family. Asha always told him to show more trust on Sona n ignore watever illiterate uncivilised Gkb says.

N now he shud stop badmouthing Dev n showing temper infront of Soha. Such aggression leaves a very bad impact on kids.

Forget sona and any other character .dev ka character toh har serial main milega.but CV's hit jackpot with bijoy character. If anything I am thankful to Cv's that they have given character like bijoy he's good father,son,most imp "GOOD husband.i liked that in Friday's episode he said he loves his wife most .😊 Dev babu toh pyaar kya Hain ye jaante hi nahi .Sona is not lucky like Asha.😕

Its true, Bijoy is protective for his family and will take a stand for the right no matter what. He always understood the intention of the Dixits, thats why they don't like him because he shows them their flaws.
He is one of the most consistent characters in the show. He always tells what he means and has no hidden intentions. Infact everybody in Bose family have no bad intentions.

I completely agree with u...there is absolutely no comparison between ishu and bejoy...he is a far better parent than ishu, and all his actions were selfless ones unlike ishwari's.