Basic Etiquette - Respecting The Alternate View

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Shaun

@Jade0001

Inactive

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

#31

A Great post indeed

We all different people and surely carry different POV its all of us that needs to understand this fundamental fact respect the other's members view

comment if you wish but don't attack the member on personal basis we all come to this forum bringing our ideas and thoughts it should be a learning experience not some war

life is stressful , careers are demanding so we all need to just agree to respect different views

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Sonali Mahajan

@Cutiepie.sona

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#32

Very good post indeed sir!

I've done a mistake and ur post has made to analyise the depth of it!⭐️👏

It's just that being angry is a normal human instinct...and when one is angry he/she doesn't think much & react impulsively!

And I too did the same!

But later on realised it & felt ashamed of me!

Thanku 4 ur advice of having a healthy discussion on the forum...we should not malign this place with our negativity and should adopt it's positivity into ourselves!😃😃

This forum has given me some very good life lessons...and I'm thankful to all of u for guiding me at evry step...I'm too young to judge ur post...but it is a must read for all the aggressive & short-tempered youngsters like me!😉⭐️

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1109060

Suspended

Posted: 8 years ago

#33

U know I was called spineless heartless n threats were passed to me to leave d forum just bcoz i bashed d male character.. People need to differentiate between actor N character... Although online bullying doesn't affects me but there r many who even committed suicide. So people need to growup

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gemini54

@gemini54

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#34

Sir first of all thanks for this Post. I have in the past written just because some of us have a different view does not mean we are negative..and it is nothing personal against the actor or the actress..it is just reaction to the story, the characters portrayed and our expectations of it.

World is beautiful because it is filled with all kinds of people and people live in peace only when there is acceptance and tolerance. We have some amazing writers and thinkers in here let us give them the respect they deserve..if you dont like the post..dont comment or if you want to comment disagree politely putting your thoughts forward..there is no reason to have nasty mudslings and sarcasm loaded personal digs

Thanks again Sir for this Post a much needed one

TGIF

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pkbdas61

@pkbdas61

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: Cutiepie.sona
Very good post indeed sir!
I've done a mistake and ur post has made to analyise the depth of it!⭐️👏
It's just that being angry is a normal human instinct...and when one is angry he/she doesn't think much & react impulsively!
And I too did the same!
But later on realised it & felt ashamed of me!
Thanku 4 ur advice of having a healthy discussion on the forum...we should not malign this place with our negativity and should adopt it's positivity into ourselves!😃😃

This forum has given me some very good life lessons...and I'm thankful to all of u for guiding me at evry step...I'm too young to judge ur post...but it is a must read for all the aggressive & short-tempered youngsters like me!😉⭐️

Thank you cutiepie! You are indeed sweet and gracious! It is rare that someone apologises in private, but you have chosen to apologise in public! My respect for you has gone up manifold. BTW, love your posts when you write them with a cool mind! 😊 Thank you again for being the role model.

Edited by pkbdas61 - 8 years ago

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pkbdas61

@pkbdas61

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: deepakloveskat
U know I was called spineless heartless n threats were passed to me to leave d forum just bcoz i bashed d male character.. People need to differentiate between actor N character... Although online bullying doesn't affects me but there r many who even committed suicide. So people need to growup

i know where you are coming from.. my only advice to you is please take hold of your reactions. If somebody abuses you or riles you, just report them. I did it when I saw someone barging into a discussion and making needless comments. And like you said it yourself, this is certainly not a fan club and you are entitled to your views. No one can take away your right to your views and what you chose to see, read and write. Just keep the discussion civil. Simple, isn't it?

The reason for my post is to remind all friends for the need for civility in discourse.

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pkbdas61

@pkbdas61

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: gemini54
Sir first of all thanks for this Post. I have in the past written just because some of us have a different view does not mean we are negative..and it is nothing personal against the actor or the actress..it is just reaction to the story, the characters portrayed and our expectations of it.

World is beautiful because it is filled with all kinds of people and people live in peace only when there is acceptance and tolerance. We have some amazing writers and thinkers in here let us give them the respect they deserve..if you dont like the post..dont comment or if you want to comment disagree politely putting your thoughts forward..there is no reason to have nasty mudslings and sarcasm loaded personal digs

Thanks again Sir for this Post a much needed one

TGIF

sabita, the level of balance that you bring is terrific. The problem is that some folks get agitated when they find characters played by their favourite hero's being portrayed in negative light. The lines of rationality and insanity get so blurred that it becomes difficult for them to see the difference. I personally am in awe of Shaheer the actor and person. He has terrific screen presence and persona that it is so difficult to perceive him to be a character that gets whacked day in and day out. For repeat negative comments, the fans in them get wounded and they come out like an injured lion. I wrote this post to remind people not to resort to personal attacks, no matter how small. We all on this forum love the actors. They made this show what it is.

As an aside, and completely unrelated to this, Folks just do not understand that there are strict cyber laws in place that can land them in serious trouble if someone with time, money and inclination lodges a compliant. I have seen it all in my lifetime. Ignorance is not bliss really. Better to be safe than sorry. We all have read of how innocent boys and girls have landed in trouble for posting seemingly off the cuff comments about personalities.. no YT, or FB, or Twitter or IF can save them if there is a case. The law has indeed a long hand...

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cscs

@cscs

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 8 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: preethik

Sir I disagree here. Bashing a character is ok but member who like the character & are emotionally invested in the characters for whatever reason don't like when bashing crosses a line. In the past week dev has been called escort, sexual predator even rapist. The is not the language which fans like & hence they argue on those posts & it escalates.

People who doing the bashing be it dev or sona should also learn to not cross the line by using such terms.

I will agree with Preeti here sir, there should be a limit of bashing reel characters also. Sometimes people get too much involved with the characters that they feel bad and there are people who would not like to read such derogatory terms for anyone. After all we all belong to civilized society and there is no need to be abusive.

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cscs

@cscs

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 8 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: deepakloveskat
U know I was called spineless heartless n threats were passed to me to leave d forum just bcoz i bashed d male character.. People need to differentiate between actor N character... Although online bullying doesn't affects me but there r many who even committed suicide. So people need to growup

And you replied back by calling them hormonal fangirls and devotees. So the actions are justified by it? And abusing even a "reel" character is not well taken by forum members. I have used word abusing not bashing.

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Sonali Mahajan

@Cutiepie.sona

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: pkbdas61

Thank you cutiepie! You are indeed sweet and gracious! It is rare that someone apologises in private, but you have chosen to apologise in public! My respect for you has gone up manifold. BTW, love your posts when you write them with a cool mind! 😊 Thank you again for being the role model.

Thanku Prabhat Sir!😳

I'm feeling overwhelmed after reading ur comment!😃

It's really feel good when someone experienced & intelligent like u appreciate my post!😳

Role model...and me?!😲

Ohh!!...lord!!

U have made me embarassed with this!

U should be considered role model instead of me sir!

U've certainly inspired me with ur generosity!!👏👏

Thanks for forgiving me!

And enlightening me with ur wonderful post & reply!😳