Sona is in the wrong - Page 2

As a father he has every right to know about his daughter's existence.Both parents have equal rights and responsibilities .No one is superior than the other .She not only snatched her husband's happiness but also denied her daughter the joy of experiencing father's love .

I do find some traces of Ishwari in Sona .Ishwari believed a mother is above everyone and she has the first right on her son .Similarly Sona believes she has more rights on Soha because she is the mother . I don't buy if people say Sona gave her daughter a choice to choose .Really ? Asking a 6 yrs old girl to decide whether she likes to go to her father whom she hasn't seen .Which child will agree to meet someone she doesn't know when her mother n grand parents have nothing good to say about her father . No matter how much she hates Dev but how could one forget he married her even after knowing she had very less chances of becoming a mother and also knows how much he loves kids .Is it fair on Sonakshi's part to hide Soha's truth .

Like Asha said if Sona knew about her medical condition before marriage she would not have married anyone.If Dev hadn't hidden her medical condition ,today she would not have a experienced motherhood

My concern is Soha is is missing her childhood because she is expected to behave older than her age

If Dev had snatched a child from Sona .Will Sona forgive him for missing those 6 years .I bet she would have given him lecture about morals but will she ever realize where she went wrong .

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

Poor dev sona did so much atyachar to him.asking him to be independent,asking him to mAke his own decision,asking him to respect her father and family,making him lie so kuch,asking him to stand up for her, why sona is so cruel,she can't become mother ,because she doesn't deserve to be mother,she can't become successful women.she did so much atyachar on him.so her father deserve to be slapped because he took money from him,she deserve to be treated like a shit.who cares dev did in the past ,she should understand why she was about to SLAPPED by him.Infact she deserve this also.I feel so bad for dev.poor guy.😭

Dev telling Sona to go from his house was wrong though and yeah a lot of it was driven by Ishwari but it's also true that he was being pulled apart between the two! Literally like two kids fighting for him that he is mine no he is mine.

Dev said harsh things which can't be justified but I still feel that doesn't justify him not knowing they have a child. Now he will react in a bitter way and Soha won't want to be with him cos she doesn't know him

@tm

Originally posted by: asha2012

I know thats the general perception that Sona should have disclosed about Soha a long time back. My take is that in the last meeting Dev hurt her very badly by saying that she did not fulfil a duty to the Dixit family due to her inability to become a mother (if I remember correctly he said "Tumne ek aur duty puri nahin ki - tum maa nahin ban sakti ho) which as a woman I think is very hurtful. Remember Dev was fully aware of her medical condition before the marriage and he hid it from her.

Obviously Sona would be hurt. Also we do not know if these two tried to reach out to each other in the days following the separation. Maybe Sona did try to call him but he didnt respond - we will know only when the story progresses.

I believe that both Dev and Sona are still madly in love with each other and are hurting very badly. They need to have a showdown to realise what they mean to each other and more importantly acknowledge the same to each other.

I hope I have not offended you... but this is purely my view.

No I agree with you- what he said is something that can never be forgiven but I think this is more of a reason she should've told him as it wudve proved to him how wrong he was n be a slap to his face almost - but ofcourse she must also know if they know abt Soha they would try and get her to come back and I guess she didn't want that.

I hope they don't drag this story too long I want them back together or is this what the show is about?

P.S. ofcourse u didn't offend me!

Kat

Originally posted by: KK84

Dev telling Sona to go from his house was wrong though and yeah a lot of it was driven by Ishwari but it's also true that he was being pulled apart between the two! Literally like two kids fighting for him that he is mine no he is mine.

Dev said harsh things which can't be justified but I still feel that doesn't justify him not knowing they have a child. Now he will react in a bitter way and Soha won't want to be with him cos she doesn't know him

yup totally agree husband don't have any responsibility towards his wife.male lead ki koi galti hi nahi Hain.sab ye HITLER and HEARTLESS women ki Hain. Ghar se Nikal Diya Biwi ko sabse Acha kam Kiya. After All he loves her Like MAN loves WOMAN.Real Man dusro ko Blame karte Hain instead of realising where they went wrong.Real man apni Wife ko SLAP bhi kar sakte Hain .Real Man apni WIFE ki profession ki insult bhi karsakte.sabse Important CAlling Her GOLD DIGGER .what Man Dev Is .I am so proud of him.

Originally posted by: yyy

As a father he has every right to know about his daughter's existence.Both parents have equal rights and responsibilities .No one is superior than the other .She not only snatched her husband's happiness but also denied her daughter the joy of experiencing father's love .

I do find some traces of Ishwari in Sona .Ishwari believed a mother is above everyone and she has the first right on her son .Similarly Sona believes she has more rights on Soha because she is the mother . I don't buy if people say Sona gave her daughter a choice to choose .Really ? Asking a 6 yrs old girl to decide whether she likes to go to her father whom she hasn't seen .Which child will agree to meet someone she doesn't know when her mother n grand parents have nothing good to say about her father . No matter how much she hates Dev but how could one forget he married her even after knowing she had very less chances of becoming a mother and also knows how much he loves kids .Is it fair on Sonakshi's part to hide Soha's truth .

Like Asha said if Sona knew about her medical condition before marriage she would not have married anyone.If Dev hadn't hidden her medical condition ,today she would not have a experienced motherhood

My concern is Soha is is missing her childhood because she is expected to behave older than her age

If Dev had snatched a child from Sona .Will Sona forgive him for missing those 6 years .I bet she would have given him lecture about morals but will she ever realize where she went wrong .

So well said! What she has done is far worse than words said in anger. It's not like she has ever held back on her opinion either. To tell a guy he is 'mumma's boy' is outright offensive. No matter how many issues one has with in laws, one would still not be able to say to their husband that they are mumma's boy!

They have ego clashes and that is from both sides but it's sad that the makers have gone down this route as I don't understand how they will redeem devakshi. If Dev forgives Sona awein for hiding the truth about Soha then that's complete character butchering.

And yeah ur right, Sona has glimpses of Ishwari- I mean she can't even go to a business trip without Soha-she can't even leave her with her own parents. Isn't that possessive now.

And the way she says he doesn't know u exist makes its sound like it's his fault when it's cos she is the one who hid it from him and what a perception she has put across of Dev to her, saying he turned out to be a frog.

I am sorry to say but I am not enjoying this new 'season' of krpkab.

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

yup totally agree husband don't have any responsibility towards his wife.male lead ki koi galti hi nahi Hain.sab ye HITLER and HEARTLESS women ki Hain. Ghar se Nikal Diya Biwi ko sabse Acha kam Kiya. After All he loves her Like MAN loves WOMAN.Real Man dusro ko Blame karte Hain instead of realising where they went wrong.Real man apni Wife ko SLAP bhi kar sakte Hain .Real Man apni WIFE ki profession ki insult bhi karsakte.sabse Important CAlling Her GOLD DIGGER .what Man Dev Is .I am so proud of him.

Yeah but that's between her and him. No one is saying she should go begging and crying to take her back. No one wants that she becomes some abla nari. You have had a divorce then rightfully she should've told him about their daughter and whatever wud be decided by the courts or through their mutual understanding, would be decided. Soha spending weekend with her dad and weekdays with mum- that's what separated couples with kids do. Still hard on the kids but atleast they know who their father is. I know many families where the ex wife hates the ex husband but yet they still don't deprive them of their father because the issues a couple has is nothing to do with the child.

Originally posted by: KK84

So well said! What she has done is far worse than words said in anger. It's not like she has ever held back on her opinion either. To tell a guy he is 'mumma's boy' is outright offensive. No matter how many issues one has with in laws, one would still not be able to say to their husband that they are mumma's boy!

They have ego clashes and that is from both sides but it's sad that the makers have gone down this route as I don't understand how they will redeem devakshi. If Dev forgives Sona awein for hiding the truth about Soha then that's complete character butchering.

And yeah ur right, Sona has glimpses of Ishwari- I mean she can't even go to a business trip without Soha-she can't even leave her with her own parents. Isn't that possessive now.

And the way she says he doesn't know u exist makes its sound like it's his fault when it's cos she is the one who hid it from him and what a perception she has put across of Dev to her, saying he turned out to be a frog.

I am sorry to say but I am not enjoying this new 'season' of krpkab.

Agree with you .If they show Dev forgiving Sonakshi easily without showing her the mirror then I have no words for the CVs .Whenever Dev has committed mistakes Sona has always pointed his shortcomings and has given back to him and Ishwari. So going by her moral standards she has committed a blunder and can never be redeemed.For this reason I wanted Soha to be adopted daughter

I am glad to know someone feels just like me about the name calling.I dont support this mama's boy and spineless comment .Its so offensive .This is something she has got it from her father.I am sure she wouldn't appreciate if Dev calls her blind follower of her dad or hypocrite .

Originally posted by: crazydollie

so u mean that a person like dev never deserves a child. Great. Just great.. I m not even surprised