Sona is in the wrong

Many of you won't agree with me but this is my opinion so don't shoot me down for it but I think Sona is in the wrong for hiding from Dev that they have a child together. In parents differences why should a child suffer and no matter how much hatred she has for Dev, she deep down knows he would love their child like anything.

To then tell her at the age of 7 in the name of am giving u a choice isn't really a choice because no 7 year old is that big enough that they will suddenly won't go to stay with people they haven't known.

I think where Dev has suffered more than her in this respect because she has deprived him of his own child. The child isn't just hers that she can claim it like a 'trophy'

Sona isn't so perfect either where Dev said nasty words, she failed to trust him when he said he didn't tell anyone to take their house away.

She said all sorts to him too but nothing I feel should justify hiding from a dad that you have a child

Poor dev sona did so much atyachar to him.asking him to be independent,asking him to mAke his own decision,asking him to respect her father and family,making him lie so kuch,asking him to stand up for her, why sona is so cruel,she can't become mother ,because she doesn't deserve to be mother,she can't become successful women.she did so much atyachar on him.so her father deserve to be slapped because he took money from him,she deserve to be treated like a shit.who cares dev did in the past ,she should understand why she was about to SLAPPED by him.Infact she deserve this also.I feel so bad for dev.poor guy.😭

yeah agree with u..wtever between dev and sona but she should inform him abt his daughter..its a wrong move by sona instead for informing soha she should have informed dev and then ask her daughter to make decision

Originally posted by: KK84

Many of you won't agree with me but this is my opinion so don't shoot me down for it but I think Sona is in the wrong for hiding from Dev that they have a child together. In parents differences why should a child suffer and no matter how much hatred she has for Dev, she deep down knows he would love their child like anything.

To then tell her at the age of 7 in the name of am giving u a choice isn't really a choice because no 7 year old is that big enough that they will suddenly won't go to stay with people they haven't known.

I think where Dev has suffered more than her in this respect because she has deprived him of his own child. The child isn't just hers that she can claim it like a 'trophy'

Sona isn't so perfect either where Dev said nasty words, she failed to trust him when he said he didn't tell anyone to take their house away.

She said all sorts to him too but nothing I feel should justify hiding from a dad that you have a child

That is my biggest gripe with Sonakshi right now..Personally I wont hold it against her even if she refuses to ever get back with Dev..She is well within her right to do so..But its so cruel to keep the kid away from Dev. You say she was emotionally vulnerable back then and given the misunderstanding that Dev threw her family out of their house, she was afraid Dev will take the kid away using his superior status so she hid it from him back then..Agreed..I can even understand her thought process there..What about now? She is rich, doing well, more focussed than Dev, has a better family, there are innumerable proofs to establish that Dev is leading an irresponsible life and not in a position to raise a kid and custody laws are mainly in favor of the mother..Oh and Soha will choose Sona over her unknown dad in the blink of an eye..So why is she not informing Dev right now? So he has no right to even know a kid exists? He should die without ever knowing that he had a baby? Again, I would have understood to an extent if she atleast contemplated telling him but seeing the way he is right now, she decided to withhold the info. Unfortunately, I dont think she or her family ever thought that Dev has a right to know..Its hilarious that they gave a 6 year old kid the choice and now will take the moral high ground that we din inform cos the kid dint want to meet her dad anyway..Are you kidding me? Sonakshi knows how much Dev wanted a kid..She thinks he is a pathetic husband..She thinks he is a horrible human being..All that is accepted..I dont know how she and worse Bijoy made a decision unilaterally about the kid and even convince themselves that the father has no right over it..All this stems from the notion that since a woman gives birth to a baby, she has full right over it and can do whatever the hell she wants to the complete exclusion of the father..Skewed ideas of woman empowerment..

I belong the lot who disagree with your conclusion. Sona gave him chances he proclaimed yo b a great boyfriend did he live yo the assumption , again she gave him chances assuming hell b great husband well we saw what a disastrous husband he became. So y should she again trust her assumption and give him a third chance to a Dev as now her daughter life ,emotion is at stake. A person who stays num for your insult , and raises a voice only to insult your father and slaps your father . Plz tell me how do u assume that same person would be a great father. A person capable of slapping ur father,throwing u out ,dumping u in sec without a second thought etc lists r endless, how can u trust that person with ur kids life n emotions.

Everything said and done... I strongly believe the main mistake sona has has done is to hide soha from dev. HE DESERVED TO KNOW ABOUT HIS OWN DAUGHTER.No amount of justification can change this fact.
If she didn't want any sort of relationship with dev.. Great.. Good for her...
But she has absolutely no right to decide on her own that a child should get to knw about her father or not.
Did she plan on telling dev about soha ever? Absolutely NO.
such attitude... Much wow.
She walked out from a bad marriage. Great. I admire her.
HID A CHILD FROM A FATHER...not done sona.. Not done.
This is the only reason I just can't sympathise with sona now . I am just waiting for the day when dev will get to know about soha. Sona deserves every bit of bashing just for this mistake of hers coz this mistake can't be ever redeemed.

I m not a supporter of Dev or sona... I m just thinking of this situation from a moral view.. And that makes sona the culprit in this situation.

Originally posted by: Kaustuv

I belong the lot who disagree with your conclusion. Sona gave him chances he proclaimed yo b a great boyfriend did he live yo the assumption , again she gave him chances assuming hell b great husband well we saw what a disastrous husband he became. So y should she again trust her assumption and give him a third chance to a Dev as now her daughter life ,emotion is at stake. A person who stays num for your insult , and raises a voice only to insult your father and slaps your father . Plz tell me how do u assume that same person would be a great father. A person capable of slapping ur father,throwing u out ,dumping u in sec without a second thought etc lists r endless, how can u trust that person with ur kids life n emotions.

Where is the guarantee that when faced with Ishwari choice n emotional blackmail he would not throw or manhandle Soha. Dev though I feel sorry for his current state dosenot deserve anything from Sona and Soha.

so u mean that a person like dev never deserves a child. Great. Just great.. I m not even surprised

Agree...she shldnt hv hid it...

Sona has become the ultimate victim in this forum with whom all the injustice of the world has happened with absolute zero fault of hers. Sona is a goddess who never does any wrong.

All hail sona!!