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ltelidevara

@ltelidevara

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Posted: 9 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: yyy

Agree with you .If they show Dev forgiving Sonakshi easily without showing her the mirror then I have no words for the CVs .Whenever Dev has committed mistakes Sona has always pointed his shortcomings and has given back to him and Ishwari. So going by her moral standards she has committed a blunder and can never be redeemed.For this reason I wanted Soha to be adopted daughter

I am glad to know someone feels just like me about the name calling.I dont support this mama's boy and spineless comment .Its so offensive .This is something she has got it from her father.I am sure she wouldn't appreciate if Dev calls her blind follower of her dad or hypocrite .

Do you have any doubt about the functioning of creatives? Nitu, they won't even acknowledge Sonakshi's offence of hiding Soha's identity. I am also of the opinion that irrespective of their problems and misunderstandings father and mother both have equal right on the child.

Sonakshi like you said is like Ishwari who feels she is the one and only. But I am so sure CVs won't bother to highlight her fault. I feel bad for Dev. He can shower so much love on his brother's son. Then I can imagine how he loves his own kid. By the way even I would like it if Soha is adopted baby. That will atleast justify the infertility track.

Yes like you I am also against the name calling for the same reasons.

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malikakas

@malikakas

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Posted: 9 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: Kaustuv
I belong the lot who disagree with your conclusion. Sona gave him chances he proclaimed yo b a great boyfriend did he live yo the assumption , again she gave him chances assuming hell b great husband well we saw what a disastrous husband he became. So y should she again trust her assumption and give him a third chance to a Dev as now her daughter life ,emotion is at stake. A person who stays num for your insult , and raises a voice only to insult your father and slaps your father . Plz tell me how do u assume that same person would be a great father. A person capable of slapping ur father,throwing u out ,dumping u in sec without a second thought etc lists r endless, how can u trust that person with ur kids life n emotions.
Where is the guarantee that when faced with Ishwari choice n emotional blackmail he would not throw or manhandle Soha. Dev though I feel sorry for his current state dosenot deserve anything from Sona and Soha.

Sona can say that from her point of view he was a bad husband. But its not for her to decide whether he would be a bad father. That's a decision a court would make. Society or courts don't give these decisions to the mother because she can't be objective about it.

I am a feminist. But at the heart of feminism is equality for both genders. Dev has just as much right on Soha as Sona does. Not only that but Dev has his own list of complaints on Sonakshi that she doesn't know how to look after her relationships.

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1234bar12

@1234bar12

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Posted: 9 years ago

#43

I also think the same. Whatever be the reason of separation, Dev have full right to know about his daughter.

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404_NotFound

@404_NotFound

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Posted: 9 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Do you have any doubt about the functioning of creatives? Nitu, they won't even acknowledge Sonakshi's offence of hiding Soha's identity. I am also of the opinion that irrespective of their problems and misunderstandings father and mother both have equal right on the child.

Sonakshi like you said is like Ishwari who feels she is the one and only. But I am so sure CVs won't bother to highlight her fault. I feel bad for Dev. He can shower so much love on his brother's son. Then I can imagine how he loves his own kid. By the way even I would like it if Soha is adopted baby. That will atleast justify the infertility track.
Yes like you I am also against the name calling for the same reasons.

No doubt about that Lakshmi .Like always they will not focus on how wrong it is for a mother to hide a child from its father .I am sure they would use the prenup and his last words to justify a Sonakshi was a victim. So what if Dev was a victim of his mother's manipulation which made him sign the papers without his knowledge .All that matters is he signed and so what if he agreed to marry her despite knowing she cannot be a mother . Whatever went wrong in their relationship is Dev's fault and whatever good happened was because of Sonakshi.

It's strange how he is portrayed as a bad father .Loving someone's else kid as your own shows how big hearted a person is and how much he values love and relationship.I won't say he is doing any favor on Golu .I am glad Golu loves him equally

I might sound bitter about their execution but makers are responsible for this .When Dev can be given earful for his mistakes then why can't the same apply to other characters.

Edited by yyyy - 9 years ago

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KK84

@KK84

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Posted: 9 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: Kaustuv

Who am I to judge whether he deserve a kid or not , I m just saying he dosenot deserve Sona kid.

But he had chosen Sona over Ishwari. He was willing to take that risk with her and knew that if Sona messed up in Ishwari's eyes(which she wudve) then he wud lose Ishwari forever.

Despite this Sona didn't hear him out. She had made her decision way before she came to talk to him abt it.only cos he disconnected her call, she jumped to conclusions and then to yank off the mangal sutra and throw it like that. TBH I lost respect for Sona there because someone who is religious and has had the 'right' upbringing wouldn't disrespect a mangal sutra like this.

He tried to tell her but she didn't listen and that's when he flipped. I just expected a little more from Sona, you just can't hate the man you love so much so suddenly like this. Yes she thinks he chucked then out. Ok how can she trust him but she knows him better than that and based on her principles, hiding a child from a father is the biggest wrong in my eyes.

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Sajini Cherian

@sajinifaby

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Posted: 9 years ago

#46

How does it matter now?

Dev's wrong n incapability of fulfilling his promises to his wife..makes him undeserving to even know about the fact that he has become a father !

Sigh!!!!

We call ourselves modern.21st century.
Self respect is such an overrated word that anything happens we just give up.

What's worse for a child if they are not destined to have love from both mother n father.

Peace _/\_

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KK84

@KK84

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Posted: 9 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: rahulvats12

Sona kid😆😆
She's not sona kid... She's both kid (devakshi) and both have rights

Haha some forget it takes two to make a kid haha!

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1109060

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Posted: 9 years ago

#48

Lol what do u expect? She just saw prenuptial where Dev's child got no right in his property. Then whts d point to tell him abt child when he will not take carr( ofc ish did that but for sona it was dev).. Ish n her sick son would've taken kid from her... Dev who ruined hrithick n others would have done wrong to sona too. He already caused so much damage. I understand when there is nothing to justify dev bring other things

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KK84

@KK84

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Posted: 9 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: crazydollie
wow... U amaze me to no end... Soha has been deprived of a father's love just coz of sona here and u r making her a victim here. The discussion here is about how it is morally wrong to hide a child from a parent. And mark my words.. Dev will be bestest father to his daughter. He might be a bad husband but he will make an amazing father.

Well said! A bad husband doesn't make a bad father and he wasn't a bad husband- he just tried to manage all relations at the same time and failed. Yeah he couldn't stand up to Ishwari but he treated her like God so it's not easy to defy your God and the way he was brought up was different to the way Sona is brought up so there will be clashes.

She knows deep down that she loves him and all those who say Dev Dixit doesn't deserve Sona well you may as well stop watching this show because you know in the end she will be running into his arms only.

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KK84

@KK84

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Posted: 9 years ago

#50

Originally posted by: gaurimisha
When you separate the way Devakshi separated, someone tell me honestly if he/she would try to connect with the other...whatever may be the reason.

How many of you would actually end up calling your exes if you find about your pregnancy after a bitter and hurtful break up? Better said than actually done.

It never happens in reality...Its not about being wrong or right...its about whether two persons were on talking terms or not. Usually police/court takes the responsibility of informing the other party...it never happens that in a broken bitter marriage, the couple communicates if they are going to be parents...unless they want to compromise..I'm sure it was never the case with Devaskhi.

Not many marriages end on good term and realistically women nowadays would tell the ex bcos in today's time we would be like why should we Alone take the responsibility of the child, he should too! Majority think like this and a mature adult would give the other person his right to their child.

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