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Posted: 8 years ago
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Tia - Glad you passed ! 🥳 It calls for a party !!
And yes, it's the guy who needs to maintain the balance. Many a times the guy in fact has to make himself look bad to build the bridge between his mom and his wife. Take example of Two States which is also a real life story of Chetan Bhagat. The dinner table scene where Mom and Alia bond based on discussing the bad qualities of Arjun Kapoor. He tries to protest at first but stops giving them the opportunity to build their relationship based on whatever.

Unfortunately, for Dev his ego and his own likings are much bigger than Sona's preferences. He cannot handle pointing fingers at him, neither can be handle anything which HE doesn't like, be it the swing, the household chore issue or the 11-day-sex-starvation. He protested against his mother just 1 time when he saw what's coming to him for the next 11 days. That caused a damage. Rest things were all history. His intention to build the bridge was never higher than his own selfish needs. I cannot believe despite knowing his mother doesn't like his wife, who goes to complain to his mother about his issues with the girl. 😳 I mean Dev and Ishwari are something man, I cannot call them Mother and Son in my sane mind. 😵


Anyways, I am looking forward to Monday's episode. Kickass 🥳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thanks. 😊 Yes, definitely. Let's plan to meet soon. I am looking forward to Monday as well. I was watching Soha's scenes. She didn't see the award show. Could you imagine what impression she'd have got of her father from that telecast? Whether he knew about Soha or not, you never conduct yourself in public in such a base manner that if someday your loved ones sees you, they feel ashamed of you.


Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Tia - Glad you passed ! 🥳 It calls for a party !!

And yes, it's the guy who needs to maintain the balance. Many a times the guy in fact has to make himself look bad to build the bridge between his mom and his wife. Take example of Two States which is also a real life story of Chetan Bhagat. The dinner table scene where Mom and Alia bond based on discussing the bad qualities of Arjun Kapoor. He tries to protest at first but stops giving them the opportunity to build their relationship based on whatever.

Unfortunately, for Dev his ego and his own likings are much bigger than Sona's preferences. He cannot handle pointing fingers at him, neither can be handle anything which HE doesn't like, be it the swing, the household chore issue or the 11-day-sex-starvation. He protested against his mother just 1 time when he saw what's coming to him for the next 11 days. That caused a damage. Rest things were all history. His intention to build the bridge was never higher than his own selfish needs. I cannot believe despite knowing his mother doesn't like his wife, who goes to complain to his mother about his issues with the girl. 😳 I mean Dev and Ishwari are something man, I cannot call them Mother and Son in my sane mind. 😵


Anyways, I am looking forward to Monday's episode. Kickass 🥳

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Congrats On Passing Ur Exams 👏👏.Double Celebration Time .Have Good Time Tomorrow.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thanks Vimal. 😊

Originally posted by: VIMAL.M

Congrats On Passing Ur Exams 👏👏.Double Celebration Time .Have Good Time Tomorrow.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sometimes the perspectives of the young or even middle-age people scare me. Even in today's age and time, we equate Sona's situation with criminal Dev's. We equate both of their faults and hold them as 'equally' responsible for the marriage falling apart.

Am I really dreaming or there are ACTUALLY some people who cannot really distinguish between right or wrong. I feel privileged that I can ! 🤔 Like someone mentioned in her post yesterday, truth can only be one. It has no other dimensions, no other interpretations. It is an absolute thing. One who tries to deny it is committing a mistake.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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As I said before, for some people, at best the man is equally to blame for ANY situation including crimes like harassment, stalking or even rape, violence or murder. At worse, they are not to be blamed at all in the same situation. It's all the woman's fault. And this blaming women for men's weakness is not new. Just read the story of Adam and Eve.

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Sometimes the perspectives of the young or even middle-age people scare me. Even in today's age and time, we equate Sona's situation with criminal Dev's. We equate both of their faults and hold them as 'equally' responsible for the marriage falling apart.

Am I really dreaming or there are ACTUALLY some people who cannot really distinguish between right or wrong. I feel privileged that I can ! 🤔 Like someone mentioned in her post yesterday, truth can only be one. It has no other dimensions, no other interpretations. It is an absolute thing. One who tries to deny it is committing a mistake.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Sometimes the perspectives of the young or even middle-age people scare me. Even in today's age and time, we equate Sona's situation with criminal Dev's. We equate both of their faults and hold them as 'equally' responsible for the marriage falling apart.

Am I really dreaming or there are ACTUALLY some people who cannot really distinguish between right or wrong. I feel privileged that I can ! 🤔 Like someone mentioned in her post yesterday, truth can only be one. It has no other dimensions, no other interpretations. It is an absolute thing. One who tries to deny it is committing a mistake.


Its no point arguing with them .They are in their own la la fantasy land .On twitter, situation is worse because female Producer also encouraging such act by using hashtag #teamdev🤢 retweeting articles favoring such acts. 🤢

They have certain audience to cater who are hyper fan girls who lap up whatever thrown to them .

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Posted: 8 years ago
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The saying goes like this.. The real character comes out in the times of bad days.. Dev-Ish both behaved in their worst characters during the bad days.. And when situations weren't in favor of Sona even then she displayed class and patience till the end.. Even if Dev had just acknowledged that his mother is not at her best and had openly felt neutral about his inability to handle the situation, then it would have been better in many ways because at least Sona wouldn't have felt the pressure to win Ishwari for Dev's sake.. But no.. Dev remained blindfolded when it comes to the shortcomings of his mother assuming that Sona too will stay blindfolded😆 And yeah Sona too went blind for a while till something really had to force open her eyes. Thank God for that I am only glad she's out of that Ishwari Nivas for good. Just hope Soha doesn't get trapped in there.. If she gets there then better to give back to everyone and may be that's why she's shown to be matured for her age..😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Completely agree with you there. In adverse times, the real strength of character shows. Everything is in rose tinted haze in good times. The fact is, in every bad time of Dev, Sonakshi stood by Dev. But every single bad time for Sonakshi, Dev said one thing in private but never stood by her side. So sorry, Sonakshi is better off single because despite being married, she had no one at her times of heartbreak.

Originally posted by: Push-pull

The saying goes like this.. The real character comes out in the times of bad days.. Dev-Ish both behaved in their worst characters during the bad days.. And when situations weren't in favor of Sona even then she displayed class and patience till the end.. Even if Dev had just acknowledged that his mother is not at her best and had openly felt neutral about his inability to handle the situation, then it would have been better in many ways because at least Sona wouldn't have felt the pressure to win Ishwari for Dev's sake.. But no.. Dev remained blindfolded when it comes to the shortcomings of his mother assuming that Sona too will stay blindfolded😆 And yeah Sona too went blind for a while till something really had to force open her eyes. Thank God for that I am only glad she's out of that Ishwari Nivas for good. Just hope Soha doesn't get trapped in there.. If she gets there then better to give back to everyone and may be that's why she's shown to be matured for her age..😊

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

Completely agree with you there. In adverse times, the real strength of character shows. Everything is in rose tinted haze in good times. The fact is, in every bad time of Dev, Sonakshi stood by Dev. But every single bad time for Sonakshi, Dev said one thing in private but never stood by her side. So sorry, Sonakshi is better off single because despite being married, she had no one at her times of heartbreak.

Yes.. Let Dev do anything with his life.. If he proves to be a good father then it's upto Sona and Soha to keep that part of the deal setup between themselves.. Else I sincerely wish Sona to stay with this right attitude towards her life and be whatever she's capable of.. For her own good.. And Baaba is one person who genuinely wishes only good for Sona.. nothing for himself in terms of holding back Sona.. It's all in her best interest only.. I really feel bad that this family had to be connected with the Dixits'.. What to do Sona had to learn the hard way

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