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Why are many in the forum are against Dev. But never I saw any against sonakshi ???
(P.s. I even say that I was never against sonakshi).
Is this because we are females and support her as in placing us in the place of Sona ..
Why is always bijoy is right and not asha in dealing the matters of Sona post marriage ???
To be frank whatever bijoy said and did if asha dint cool him some extent then the ristha of devakshi would have been broken long back ...
Why don't we see any matter from the view of Dev ???
I dint see any post regarding the words Dev said that Sona and ishwari had made a scene where he was supposed to choose one ??? And he wasn't given even that choice as they had decided earlier itself..
We support sonakshi when she listens to her parents or her dad especially but we say Dev spinelesshen when he listens to his mom.
We call Dev mamma's boy when he takes decision of what ishwari said but when Sona take decision of what her parents said we say it's correct ??
Is it because as all the decisions taken by bijoys right and apt n taken by ish are wrong ??
When Sona dint wear the jodaa sent by dixits we said as it was earlier decided that marriage will b according to Bengali rituals..
But as far as I know even Neha's marriage was according to dixits rituals but many dint say that Sona wrong!!!!!
When bijoy met ishwari for devakshi wedding matter ishwari sent bijoy upset by saying employee n employer stuff n bijoy was almost disagreed for their alliance and Sona just bursted on Dev later n later Dev left Sona ... Ok it's all Devs fault as he chose his mom over Sona..
But he agreed to Marry Sona only when his mom agreed .. so we said that Dev wouldn't have married if ishwari dint give her consent ..
Even at that time Sona asked his father's consent for marriage.. wat if sonas father dint give consent ?? Then even she wouldn't have married him right ??? Still we say Dev was just acting according to his mother but Sona was right.
Even during the marriage bijoy n ishwari were in same state just accepted devakshi marriage as they don't want to make them sad..
Bijoy spoke to Dev nicely only when he felt that Sona is happy . Ishwari spoke to Sona well only when she felt Dev is happy with her..
Still we say bijoy ne sahi kiya n ishwari be galat Kia..
Ultimately what I wanted to say is both are wrong at one incident if one was wrong in other incidence the other. But still all the time we are on one side ...
But better we find the good in all the incidence regardless whose side then we at get lot to learn..
P.s. even I m a female.. ( not on men's side ) but felt like saying this as I felt all are females and all the time on female side. So just shared.
Tomatoes eggs and shoes are welcome. But pls pls pls don't scld me. Just put ur pov .
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