My piece on dixits and boses !!! Not to support anyone..

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Have a small query regarding Sona n Dev regarding business
I remember when Vicky was going to join Dev in his business n Sona advised him to join as an trainee rather than a post.
She was angry when dev changed his status from trainee to manager..

She told him that it was their decision how come it became his rather than Thier..

She wanted them to take decisions together not alone..

Then in sourab dada business she promised dada that she will keep about business a secret wasn't that wrong ?? Dint she take decision alone..

Even when devakshi love became official and once sona wanted to learn cooking but bijoy said that no need to learn cooking or something or change yourself for others..But after marriage he and Sona wanted Dev to learn to organise the room and all and bijoy was helping Sona in that ... He doesn't want his child to earn something or change for others but he wanted his SIL to learn..

Even boses were dev's family like dixits were Sona's..

She just overlooked her own words..

And when dev invested in sona's company it's just a foolish reason to hear that Sona doesn't know that someone stranger invested in sona's new startup that too a huge amount of Rs.5crs.

Where the start up person doesnt have any experience in the field of business and all..

Dint she ask sourab dada who invested ?? Dint she take care of the details of investment..???

If I am not wrong she is the main in that business and in every matter signature is needed and if he had investment in that means they have issued a certificate of investment which should be signed by directors .. then Sona should have seen that right ??? How foolish to show that the main directors doesn't know about the investment..???

I have another doubt even !!!

All were angry on Dev saying that he is treating Sona as an outsider in his home keeping her away from all the issues of the house...

My question is ever did Sona speak about her house infront of Dev other than praising them ???? Did she tell him about his dad becoming secretary ?? Did Mr.bose tell him ?? Does Dev know about the condition of Bose house soon after their marriage ??

Did Sona allow Dev to interfere in sourab dada issue ?? Then how can she expect Dev to allow her to interfere in Neha's case

Sending the car which was gifted by Dev out of pyaar to his saala is wrong as it will hit their pride ??? But throwing or removing the fish sent as sagun from the house which is against the customs and rituals is insulting ??? Really ??? Are you guys sure ??

The thing which is right for one might be wrong for others .

I know Bose family is such a great family and an family which sets an example for others... But do remember it's not in case of all the issues. .

Even in Vicky n Elena case Bose shouted at them besides knowing that Elena loves Vicky n they dint even have confirmation that Elena broke up with Vicky or not ?? After knowing what did he do he just left that place.. Sona asked for forgiveness. . not bose. He brought even police to house.. he has a responsibility it is ok but not to that extent that he hurts others self respect.. u call this as a perfect father concern???

Even ishwari not allowing Dev to adopt the boses family as his is even a wrong thing . She tried every possible thing to prevent him from owing that family as his..

Finally what I want to say is everyone has their faults n negatives but supporting only one is not the right thing but grabbing the good from everyone is the right thing. .

So just keep calm and not to waste energy on the wrong doings of others and abusing Them. It's waste of our energy .

P.s. pls no tomatoes and eggs.. because my writing may bring g angry to Bose family lovers and Dev lovers... Sooo.. but I said what I felt like ... Not to hurt anyone..


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Great Post
No one is perfect so pointing fingers at one and let going others who make the same mistake is not justified .
Edited by yyyy - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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You are right...I can't agree more...mistakes are there from both the sides. That is why whenever I see a post accusing Dev and supporting Sonakshi , I find it not correct.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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For me both are wrong.. but due to priorities of self.. we outweigh one over the other.. and fans speak accordingly...
There are plenty reasons why each one has come to watch KRPKAB and when they find that sweeping off... some gets angry... some disappointed.. emotions also vary...

i have decided not to react on segments... but only when it airs... to lessen my negative vibes...

i want my forum family to remain happy and ofcourse learn lessons if experiences taught u that..

End of day it is entertainment and we should draw the line there...

anyways i loved my season 2 so far... lets see.. how long it goes...


Do read and let me know...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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@sowiee: Although I liked your post and agree with it fully but I find the effort and time put in by you too much. Its your choice and decision to put effort but IMO the show doesn't deserve such effort.
The CVs are the bunch of people who just create something - logical or illogical just for TRP and make fool of every stakeholder in the show.

I don't see any consistency in any of the character but just watch the show. Its a lot better than AK show and that is enough.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Interesting Post

Dev and Sona as a married couple made many mistakes they fell they had to learn to stand up each time and learn from their mistakes , their major problem was they loved each other deeply could sacrifice anything for each other but was pulled by family restraints , like Bijoy didn't want Sona telling Dev about Saurav's financial problems and she had to adhere to her father's instruction .
both the Dixit family and the Bose family aided in the destruction of their children's marriage
Sona was not accepted in Dixit family but Dev too was not accepted by Bijoy this already put strain on a marriage , secrets , lies become part of it
Dev and Sonakshi allowed their parents to control their marriage which is wrong they had to seek guidance .
Bijoy had never forgiven Dev for leaving Sonakshi for his mother , as a parent I would have thought he could understand just how difficult it is for a child to go against their parent and make them unhappy but instead Bijoy kept a grudge and it only grew with time while Ishwari too had plenty faults dictating her son's married life
at the end it was best that both separated and withdrew themselves hopefully when they reunite as a couple they would know their earlier mistakes and not repeat them
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: yyy

Great Post

No one is perfect so pointing fingers at one and let going others who make the same mistake is not justified .


Exactly what I wanted to say
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jade0001

Interesting Post

Dev and Sona as a married couple made many mistakes they fell they had to learn to stand up each time and learn from their mistakes , their major problem was they loved each other deeply could sacrifice anything for each other but was pulled by family restraints , like Bijoy didn't want Sona telling Dev about Saurav's financial problems and she had to adhere to her father's instruction .
both the Dixit family and the Bose family aided in the destruction of their children's marriage
Sona was not accepted in Dixit family but Dev too was not accepted by Bijoy this already put strain on a marriage , secrets , lies become part of it
Dev and Sonakshi allowed their parents to control their marriage which is wrong they had to seek guidance .
Bijoy had never forgiven Dev for leaving Sonakshi for his mother , as a parent I would have thought he could understand just how difficult it is for a child to go against their parent and make them unhappy but instead Bijoy kept a grudge and it only grew with time while Ishwari too had plenty faults dictating her son's married life
at the end it was best that both separated and withdrew themselves hopefully when they reunite as a couple they would know their earlier mistakes and not repeat them


Yes as much as ishwari has hand in their separation even bijoy has done the same.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well I would just say tali 1hath se nai bajti..Bose r wrong as well
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Nice post dear. You are totally bang on.. Sona has also committed many mistakes in this relationship . Bijoy's short temper only added fuel to the fire ignited by Ishwari.I mentioned this in an earlier post too. Bijoy's inability to control his anger and his tendency to interfere in their relationship played a pretty important part in Dev and Sona's separation

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