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Posted: 8 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: sjain



Everything is drama dear, even the first 150 episodes were drama, thats not the point. KRPKAB had a different flavor to everything. Be it hatred, love, emotions , even motherly love all were unique. First of all whats the need for this separation?, haven't they done this already? Why can't they make Dev and Sona see Ishwari's problem using Neha? Why can't Elena be a helping cousin taking care of GKB? When they had showed even the very possible vamps Natasha and Ritwik as Gems, what is the need for turning every character negative? Just for separating the lead pair? ok lets accept this all for a YES.

My take on how earlier KRPKAB would have been handled on today's similar situations.

Why can't Ishwari just request GKB to stop talking and listened to Sona with intense eyes and with one sentence " I was expecting you would apologize for leaving this family in devastation after hiding such a truth but you have proved a DIL can never bcm a daughter by bringing this cheque. You have broken my trust Sona" could have been sufficient for all the unnecessary drama no 1


Bijoy would have fumed his anger by holding Dev's collar inside his house and said " All my life, my self respect was my highest asset and you Mr.Dev Dixit have snatched that one too. My thinking about you is right, you have never changed and will never change and you have broken my trust Dev (in parallel to ishwari's dialog ), please leave this house before I loose my cool, am resisting for my daughter , please leave" would have shown Bijoy's maturity and anger at the same time instead of that street drama no 2.

Dev - Sona confrontaton should be the more heated one with all right questions from both end in their room. Finally intolerable Dev breaks something (note no manhandling) unable to control his anger making Sona questioning her credibility in his life and Dev would burst out "Yes my Maa is more important even than You, got it? ...now get out" before he realizes the gravity of his action , Sona lashes her final verdict and storms out.
(The unnecessary tripping drama no 3 and Dev being the meanie man again could have been totally avoided)

I am not saying this is how it should have been but am trying to show you what i missed from my old KRPKAB. Anyway omg wrote so much..feeling sleepy😆

Lets enjoy whats shown, if worth good for us, else dont take it to heart😛





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Posted: 8 years ago
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I think I am the only one happy with the idea of a leap. There was absolutely no growth in devs character and the reason was quite practical. When everything comes too easy we don't understand its importance.
Only when forced to live without it do we understand how important that person really was. Only when Dev is forced to live without Sonakshi for years on an end will he realise slowly and steadily what his blind devotion has cost him. It is not possible for him to start hating Ishwari in a day. If there was no leap then Ishwari would have got away with very little punishment.

But the sort of resentment and hatred that festers over the years is of the worst kind. Ishwari would have her son in front of her and still not have him. The lady needs to pay for her sins big time.

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Posted: 8 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: amaypranay

Finally commenting after watching... Ego clashes... this is so possible!

Deeps you are superb.. once again your subject says it all!


The worst part about this beautiful couple is that .. it's not because of them that there are separating.. External forces have come and clouded their minds, their egos have taken over!

Love is hidden deep in a corner..is lost somewhere ... in a dark room! Not able to breathe.


I'' m so waiting for the Dixits to pay ... such complexed people! Can't believe a person like Maamaji is still sain there! Dev lost his gem .. his love ..his life! I see a leap coming... with a very different helpless distraught Dev Dixit

Have no words for people like RR... they will get it back with double interest!

Ishwari lost her Son again... I pity that lady!

Now he's back to sleeping pills and Ishwari's nurturing him-Good luck Ishwari Niwas!!



Thanks Deepika😊

Yes separation by others for other's selfishness is the worst of all. No transparency between them wrt to their family members made the matter worse.

Lets hope this is the end of that tunnel i was referring in my past post. Hope they show us the light soon😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sjain

@cscs ^^Its okay I knpw..I was expecting that amd I could feel in your comment on Jyoti's post..

I have my share of disappoinmemts from today's episode but future episodes does have something interesting..and I want to ignore what happened today
Dev is constantly doing stupidity or blunders last episode and this one..it hurts to see ypur fav char being on gun point after every episode lol but he is wrong and is WRONG nothing can change it
Lot of unfair things happened..i jist want to be hopeful and I have my way of thinking amd approach u know
Bashing cvs or xonstantly abusing them doesnt satisfy me.. I can not lol
I get angry yes lol but I always keep my expectation above my anger
Is it wrong ??


U know what Mahua, it was not Dev, but all of them were behaving stupid yesterday. Dev was worried about how she got money and that was his first question to her. He was genuinely concerned, but later both Sona and him got involved in that "stupid fight". I just couldn't get any head or tail of it. It was pure ego that was talking and that too their family egos. That's why i wanted to slap both of them and shake them up.
About other characters they were as usual high on their negativity. Only mamaji was giving sense to others which was unheard.
For bashing cvs, no that i will not do. The story has its share of ups and down. And they have to show it in a way.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Deepa, Will you please take a break from your reply spree and go to bed. Take some rest dear. I know that you dont like to leave any reply in your post without addressing but we can wait for your reply and thats completely fine with us. Next time i should better stop my self with just liking your post, I know that its difficult but i will try my level best to not burden you more. Good Night and take rest.🤗
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rahulvats12

I don't know from which angle u watch episode...

Because the whole drama or shout at each other really makes sense...bijoy shouts at dev really makes sense...dev came to bijoy for his behavior makes sense...and the final scene between devakshi really makes sense...and all talk between them...sonakshi is right somewhere about dev and dev is right somewhere about sona taking loan and that from market... It's just fight and mostly ego fight for their family and not thinking smartly which happens because of anger...we also in real life when angry...do behave like that...gusse mein hamesha galat decision hi hota h...and this is what makers showing...
Second thing...that ekta writers took the job.of krpkab is big joke as recently in last episode...it's confirmed that durjoy is still part of show.
And about trp,its also joke to think like that...because only that show which have good trp from starting will concern about trp and then makers try to show drama to increase trp again... If u follow episode from Starting then u know that krpkab trp from episode 1 is never good...it remains a constant most of times...and this is not starplus or colors channel... Where showing drama in show will help to increase trp as Sony viewership is very low as compared to other channel...
And the show which is going to.complete 1 year and that never got good trp...u think that showing drama will help them to gain more trp instantly...well it's thier way to move story forward and this is writer or CVS think to move show...


Appreciate your input here Rahul and respect the same . Had you been following my posts from the start, you would have known from which angle I have been following the episodes.

Again like I stated in "sjain's response" I have no problem with drama but wished it should have been dealt in KRPKAB style. The similar reactions from each characters could have been evoked from subtle crisp writing too. Pushing , slapping, manhandling, tripping just to make the leads separate could have been totally avoided in our serial. Regarding Ekta writers taking over, I have no confirmation so would take your word on that.

Regarding TRP, @supercool just gave a clear picture and you can see my response there as well and can find out why I feel the makers are going TRP way.

Absolutely this is writers or CVs way to move the story forward but we all expect that without butchering every single character in this serial. Finally no opinion is a joke, its either right or wrong and they are either accepted or rebuked with facts or other opinions and not prenotioned judgements!


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: LiveLife321

Deepa, Will you please take a break from your reply spree and go to bed. Take some rest dear. I know that you dont like to leave any reply in your post without addressing but we can wait for your reply and thats completely fine with us. Next time i should better stop my self with just liking your post, I know that its difficult but i will try my level best to not burden you more. Good Night and take rest.🤗


You are such a sweetheart Latha 😆 Love you for this comment ❤️...this is why I don't make posts

Have a long day tomm, donno if I can respond to all, anyway will try in the morning 😆..Goodnight dear , you have a great day 🤗
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: cscs

U know what Mahua, it was not Dev, but all of them were behaving stupid yesterday. Dev was worried about how she got money and that was his first question to her. He was genuinely concerned, but later both Sona and him got involved in that "stupid fight". I just couldn't get any head or tail of it. It was pure ego that was talking and that too their family egos. That's why i wanted to slap both of them and shake them up.
About other characters they were as usual high on their negativity. Only mamaji was giving sense to others which was unheard.
For bashing cvs, no that i will not do. The story has its share of ups and down. And they have to show it in a way.


Yes he got worried and was baffled when he saw such huge amount..and his interest and bank talk actually made sense and ai could see his worry their..but rest in anger they got badly diverted and in the process of protection his mothr and her fathr..conversation was completely ruined and Dev bein Dev said stupid things like saari zindagi bhi is rate par loan wapis nahi kar paogi...yes returning 4.5 crore is no piece of cake..but he wasnt suppose to say so..that was so hurtful ..but then I know when anger ego clouds you mind you cant differentate between right and wrong...Sonakshi in the process of saving her family respect took very rash decision..she was angry as well thays why she went this far if she had thought calmly then could have found a better way..mortgaging you house is not small thing it can have shit consequences..but then in the heat of the moment she decided so ...though her returning money will giv boses some peace and assurance that they are no more burdened..under ehsaans of Dixits..they can breath with dignity..now coming back to their fight well..the words they both have said to each other cant be taken back so how will the or precisely Dev will men his action is yet to be seen..Rest of family is incorrigible..except mamaji..but he is ver late in coming back from his trip..otherwise damage wouldnt have been this bad..he would have controlled mami to an extent

I know u wont off course LOL that was a general thought I felt like sharing so yeah..yes they have to frame the story..for bitter breakup..and here it is..both away from each other with hurt anger ego with unsolved issues incomplete talks and hurtful moments




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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: deepsel


@bold : This is what we wanted to see from the start Maya. A more understanding Devakshi figuring out Ishwari's issues and turning her from a insecure MIL to a lovable mother. Now Deja vu again, lets hope atleast this time Dev figures something 😳 Hope yu have a good sleep and have a bright start of the day 😊

Keeping fingers crossed and hoping they wont dissappoint us. I understand also that probably story writers want to show too much interference from families especially parents can ruin any marriage. I will not give up on my show and hope CVs will show something unexpected but in a good way. Lets wait and see.

Thank you for wishing me a bright day..it is a long day and very much required. Wishing you the same and hoping you had a good sleep.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: deepsel



Wonderful post deepsel. But I am slightly in disagreement with you. There is no way they could have created the breakup ofDev and Sonakshi in a subtle way this time and move the story forward. The breakup and the events leading up to it have to be nasty.

The reason is it is for Ishwari's realization of the consequences of her actions. The first time Dev broke up with Sonakshi, Ishwari did not see it happen. No matter what she saw with her own eyes or what Sneha and maamaji said, she always maintained that she was not responsible for the breakup. She never accepted her responsibility in breaking them up.

But this time Ishwari will not be able to say so. Ishwari has to see what her insecurities do to Dev and his life. This time she cannot say she did not ask Dev to break up with Sonakshi. She cannot say I am not responsible for this fiasco. Sooner or later she will have to accept at least a partial responsibility for this break up. That she did interfere with Dev and Sonakshi's relationship. She has to accept that she took away Dev's happiness because of her selfishness.

Ishwari like Dev needs a big jolt to come out of her insecurities. And what can be bigger than a family destroyed. Ishwari will not be able to deny that she is responsible for Dev slapping Bijoy or Bijoy losing his house and coming to streets.

Ishwari needs this to be able to see past gkb and her words. And this cannot happen ina subtle way. It has to be loud and should show Ishwari the mirror.

It is just my pov...

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