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Posted: 8 years ago
#41
Copy pasting what I wrote in Saumya's thread as well... Jitni baar apnaa frustration nikaalu, kam hai...
This show is going such a frustrating low for me that I am not even able to see all this happen...
I feel like all this mess was an imaginary mistake and Dev wouldn't have messed up so much...
I really feel like killing Ishwari and GKB... LIKE REALLY!!! I don't care if I create another slapgate drama but I feel like slapping GKB eight across her face... I am so that annoyed...
Ishwari, I don't want you phailaaoing your aanchal begging for your son's happiness... For God's sake, nobody can be a greater begger than you... even GKB is richer than you... Atleast she knows she has to tolerate every good and bad of her bahu for her son's sake... You can't even do with your bahus good... Shame on you...
And Neha, who do you think you are? The lady who had the longest, most successful marriage in the entire world to remark on your bhabhi? You bloody blot of a shit!

And Dev! Kudos to you man! I don't understand why Iove you so much, when all I should be doing is to hate you... Are you really that dumb or you playing being stupid to please your mother...
Don't you dare come running to Sona for mercy... Coz nobody is so downtrodden to keep on being thrown out of your life time and again... If you want to have her in your life, you better respect her... Nahi toh the best option is separation... Either from your wife or from your mother... Coz the first promo after your marriage has given the answer: Zidd se bane ye rishte kya ek chatt ke neeche tik paayenge?
Ans is no! Not until you shut the hell off the mess in Manhoos House...
I hate to see the separation that is nearing, but I hate it all the more to see the shit you are doing to your wife (unknowingly)...
Tum tab tak nahi sudhroge jab tak tum log sab gadhhe mein na giroge... And tab tak iss show ke essence ka kaam tamam ho chuka hoga...
What shit have a they made of a simple sweet, real to life story... ๐Ÿ˜ก
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Posted: 8 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: deepsel


When the writers change so many times, no wonder they are screwing up this much๐Ÿ˜†

BALH was great and different till the first 100 episodes and then took usual Ekta route, but if they want the same to apply it here I have no comments, it is sure to fail big time as both got and have different genre of viewers




stories take a leap when they dont have anything to tell now and need a cleaner slate... this show has a lot more than it can handle in the current time... so i dont believe there will be any leap... may be a max of 3 months thats all
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Posted: 8 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: havima

First time disagreeing to ur post. This is real for me( totally personal). Its wasnt high drama. A little bit spiced up.. yes.

The loving couples' relationship is hanging by the thread cos of families' and third person interference. As a couple thy love each other to bits nd understand each other. Whn third person or family interfere nd question ur loyalty nd love ur relationship is in jeopardy. And it takes a back seat.
Time for introspection will come later to both of thm. But now thy r caught in the whirlwind of emotions within thm fueled by families.

Both families r blissfully ignoring wht thy r subjecting the couple to. Thy might realise later(hopefully). The couple r the victims of the so called 'worldly wise elders'. ( personal experience). The couple is now scarred for life cos of the families. A lesson every family shd learn: live nd let live. Draw a line nd stay away.





No worries Havima, i can totally understand. I agree all these are not unreal in real life, infact i have seen such ear jarring mudsluging fights in my fathers family. I have even seen similar situation in my friend's life where both sides of elders dictated their life and finally they ended up in divorce court. On the first day of counselling, when the judge asked the couples whether they will be willing to talk alone with her, both said "yes" and the judge decided problem is not with the couples but with their so called families and she immediately asked the couple to live separately away from their families and ordered the families to not dare to visit or disturb them. Now they are happily married for almost 11 years with two beautiful kids. So i do accept what the family need to learn from here.

Now the difference is we didn't expect this in KRPKAB which was known for its subtlety. We have ample serials to follow this route.

The same break up has happened before, same situations, Dev impulsive on being Mom on hospital bed and Sona chucked out without giving an option to explain and Dev pining for her later.That time it was heartbreaking because they both were helpless but this time it was not. A brilliant businessman like Dev and matured nutritionist like Sona won't act like they lost brains with man handling and screaming .

But whatever has happened I will agree with your point " There is always a line till which you can allow your parents to dictate your life if not you will have to face the consequences like them" !
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Posted: 8 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: deepsel


@ underlined my responces

Edited by sjain - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: supercool3

Honestly all I can say is, BRING IT ON! ๐Ÿ˜†


Honestly I was waiting for your response because I know you always bring new feed to my fodder๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜†


One thing I'm failing to understand, which you even stated, is why is everyone under the assumption that the makers have fallen prey to the whole TRP thing? ๐Ÿค”

Because we are so used to this screwup of original content, hurried new character entry and exits, baseless arguments/scene insertion just for the convenience of showing someone good /bad and finally abrupt character assasination which is typical of for any high TRP content drama๐Ÿ˜† I will be very happy if am proven wrong .

From all that I know of, Sony TV never had high viewership as far as their fictional shows are concerned and their reach has always been limited to the urban audience at most. Neither would them introducing Ekta type drama bring in TRPs. The show was and never will be intended for that type of audience. The channel also knows its limitations in comparisons to others like StarPlus, Colors, Zee etc.

Changes in writers do happen, but the main screenplay is still under the Patnaik's and Durjoy Dutta from what I read. So certain writers may have been brought along due to to the drama that was to unfold, but the makers, even with these writers on board, gave us some nice balanced episodes last Thursday and Friday.

Fair enough. If TRP is not the reason I am baffled at the leads disappointment and sudden hurriness to the beautifully craved story. To please whom?
@bold: Absolutely and agree 100%.

I don't think there will be any pregnancy drama or some heavy leap showing DevAkshi's kid. However, I do see this as a new beginning.
Unga vayila sakkara๐Ÿ˜† I so don't want this leap crap in our serial please.


Why? I noticed that each and every 75 episodes adds a new dimension to the storyline. Episodes 1 -75 were focused on the intros, falling in love. Episode 76 began with Dev's confession and so on forth until episode 150 where Dev hid the med reports. Episode 225, exactly 75 episodes later, showed a promise between DevAkshi to stay together no matter what and ended with a bang with that accidental slap. The end of episode 226 showed Sonakshi arriving at Ishwari Niwas on her scooty. Sometimes you have to fall to your absolute worst to bring out the best again

What observation ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ˜† the worst keep getting worse and we all are reaching a threshold , hopefully today is the end and we get to see some freshness after Sona's exit๐Ÿ˜ณ (I personally disgust people who spin lies and use the vulnerability to their advantage, GKB has reached all level of humanity and hated to see how no one dared to stop her)

Do I think the drama quotient is a bit high? Yes! But I still see the potential and the fact that minor details are being taken care of onscreen even today gives me the hope that the makers know what they're doing and all this has a purpose ๐Ÿ˜†

I will be the first person to dance if your belief comes true..hope it turns that way๐Ÿ˜ณ


I saw your reply on the other post. With regards to Sonakshi, yes her decision was hasty and will have its consequences for sure. As Dev rightly pointed out today, she doesn't know what she's getting into by mortgaging the property like that. And this is once again where my hope is established for this show. I mean Sonakshi is no Rajinikanth to climb up the ladder of success without facing any consequences (Ala Padaiyappa, and all those other 90s Rajini movies ๐Ÿ˜†, and even namma tamil serials that show the female lead is invincible ๐Ÿค”). So the fact that both Dev and Sonakshi's actions have consequences attached to them and the makers are willing to point it out is all that I really need to keep going with this ๐Ÿ˜ƒ Unless these two start working together, they aren't going to see any success. And if anything, I bet that realization will hit them hard soon. ๐Ÿ˜Ž


True ๐Ÿ˜† I haven't watched any tamil serials in 10 years so don't know whats happening there but as a ardent thalaivar fan, yes atleast the leads are shown as humans here. As usual I will enjoy the entertainment quotient and wait what happens next๐Ÿ˜‰


Again thank you so much for sprinking the positivity here ๐Ÿค— you are one of the best !
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Posted: 8 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: supercool3

<font color="#990000"><font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">Honestly all I can say is, BRING IT ON!๐Ÿ˜†

One thing I'm failing to understand, which you even stated, is why is everyone under the assumption that the makers have fallen prey to the whole TRP thing? ๐Ÿค”

From all that I know of, Sony TV never had high viewership as far as their fictional shows are concerned and their reach has always been limited to the urban audience at most. Neither would them introducing Ekta type drama bring in TRPs. The show was and never will be intended for that type of audience. The channel also knows its limitations in comparisons to others like StarPlus, Colors, Zee etc.

Changes in writers do happen, but the main screenplay is still under the Patnaik's and Durjoy Dutta from what I read. So certain writers may have been brought along due to to the drama that was to unfold, but the makers, even with these writers on board, gave us some nice balanced episodes last Thursday and Friday.

I don't think there will be any pregnancy drama or some heavy leap showing DevAkshi's kid. However, I do see this as a new beginning.

Why? I noticed that each and every 75 episodes adds a new dimension to the storyline. Episodes 1 -75 were focused on the intros, falling in love. Episode 76 began with Dev's confession and so on forth until episode 150 where Dev hid the med reports. Episode 225, exactly 75 episodes later, showed a promise between DevAkshi to stay together no matter what and ended with a bang with that accidental slap. The end of episode 226 showed Sonakshi arriving at Ishwari Niwas on her scooty. Sometimes you have to fall to your absolute worst to bring out the best again

Do I think the drama quotient is a bit high? Yes! But I still see the potential and the fact that minor details are being taken care of onscreen even today gives me the hope that the makers know what they're doing and all this has a purpose ๐Ÿ˜†

I saw your reply on the other post. With regards to Sonakshi, yes her decision was hasty and will have its consequences for sure. As Dev rightly pointed out today, she doesn't know what she's getting into by mortgaging the property like that. And this is once again where my hope is established for this show. I mean Sonakshi is no Rajinikanth to climb up the ladder of success without facing any consequences (Ala Padaiyappa, and all those other 90s Rajini movies ๐Ÿ˜†, and even namma tamil serials that show the female lead is invincible ๐Ÿค”). So the fact that both Dev and Sonakshi's actions have consequences attached to them and the makers are willing to point it out is all that I really need to keep going with this ๐Ÿ˜ƒ Unless these two start working together, they aren't going to see any success. And if anything, I bet that realization will hit them hard soon. ๐Ÿ˜Ž</font>
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I totally agree with what you have to say about Sony. This show was never garnering great trps even when the episodes were good . Even today with all the drama the trps are the same.

Like you say sona is going to find it very tough to pay off the loan. I don't like leaps & always feel when there no story to tell that Ian when we see one. Here ther are of tracks to be resolved yet. Also the concept of leap + kid + reconciliation has been done to death.

I hope they stick to concept of sona & dev overcoming all hurdles to get together to resolve ishs insecurities! That was the original story.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#47
Finally commenting after watching... Ego clashes... this is so possible!

Deeps you are superb.. once again your subject says it all!


The worst part about this beautiful couple is that .. it's not because of them that there are separating.. External forces have come and clouded their minds, their egos have taken over!

Love is hidden deep in a corner..is lost somewhere ... in a dark room! Not able to breathe.


I'' m so waiting for the Dixits to pay ... such complexed people! Can't believe a person like Maamaji is still sain there! Dev lost his gem .. his love ..his life! I see a leap coming... with a very different helpless distraught Dev Dixit

Have no words for people like RR... they will get it back with double interest!

Ishwari lost her Son again... I pity that lady!

Now he's back to sleeping pills and Ishwari's nurturing him-Good luck Ishwari Niwas!!


Edited by amaypranay - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't know from which angle u watch episode...
Because the whole drama or shout at each other really makes sense...bijoy shouts at dev really makes sense...dev came to bijoy for his behavior makes sense...and the final scene between devakshi really makes sense...and all talk between them...sonakshi is right somewhere about dev and dev is right somewhere about sona taking loan and that from market... It's just fight and mostly ego fight for their family and not thinking smartly which happens because of anger...we also in real life when angry...do behave like that...gusse mein hamesha galat decision hi hota h...and this is what makers showing...
Second thing...that ekta writers took the job.of krpkab is big joke as recently in last episode...it's confirmed that durjoy is still part of show.
And about trp,its also joke to think like that...because only that show which have good trp from starting will concern about trp and then makers try to show drama to increase trp again... If u follow episode from Starting then u know that krpkab trp from episode 1 is never good...it remains a constant most of times...and this is not starplus or colors channel... Where showing drama in show will help to increase trp as Sony viewership is very low as compared to other channel...
And the show which is going to.complete 1 year and that never got good trp...u think that showing drama will help them to gain more trp instantly...well it's thier way to move story forward and this is writer or CVS think to move show...

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Posted: 8 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: deepsel



Honestly I was waiting for your response because I know you always bring new feed to my fodder๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜†


I didn't realize that you have that much faith in my pov ๐Ÿ˜† But thanks! ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

Because we are so used to this screwup of original content, hurried new character entry and exits, baseless arguments/scene insertion just for the convenience of showing someone good /bad and finally abrupt character assasination which is typical of for any high TRP content drama๐Ÿ˜† I will be very happy if am proven wrong .

Hasn't KRPKAB always ended up proving us wrong though? We always expect one thing to happen, like it had happened in other high TRP content shows. And then the next day the makers once again throw us off ๐Ÿ˜† The show is very unpredictable that way. Maybe that's another reason why we're still discussing

Fair enough. If TRP is not the reason I am baffled at the leads disappointment and sudden hurriness to the beautifully craved story. To please whom?
@bold: Absolutely and agree 100%.

I'm not too bothered about the pace of the show. I think a lot of the tension was already building, and it culminated with the slap. It gave an outlet for everyone to vent out the things that were bottled within. IMO that's progression because it puts everyone on the same slate, with nothing to hold back. Well at least almost, because the prenup is the final revelation required. If anything, the fact that the show is fast paced makes the drama tolerable or else that would've been some major torture.

As for the leads and their disappointment, we really don't know the reasons and I think I don't want to speculate too much either as that's already been dissected everywhere.

Unga vayila sakkara๐Ÿ˜† I so don't want this leap crap in our serial please.

I don't either. But even from a story point, it won't make much sense.

What observation ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ˜† the worst keep getting worse and we all are reaching a threshold , hopefully today is the end and we get to see some freshness after Sona's exit๐Ÿ˜ณ (I personally disgust people who spin lies and use the vulnerability to their advantage, GKB has reached all level of humanity and hated to see how no one dared to stop her)

Every dog has its day, and the same applies to GKB. As OTT as she comes across, there are unfortunately relatives like her in every family. The irony is that she refers to Sona as the "bangalan", "outsider" but in real she is the outsider here. ๐Ÿ˜†


I will be the first person to dance if your belief comes true..hope it turns that way๐Ÿ˜ณ

True ๐Ÿ˜† I haven't watched any tamil serials in 10 years so don't know whats happening there but as a ardent thalaivar fan, yes atleast the leads are shown as humans here. As usual I will enjoy the entertainment quotient and wait what happens next๐Ÿ˜‰

I grew up in a household where tamil serials were the norm ๐Ÿค” But instead of getting hooked to them, I developed an overall dislike for TV in general as the plots drag (desi or American) ๐Ÿ˜† But here I am watching KRPKAB and the major draw point for me is that it doesn't drag with its plot๐Ÿ˜†

Again thank you so much for sprinking the positivity here ๐Ÿค— you are one of the best !



Awww ๐Ÿค—
Sonakshi has tried to fit into the family since the day she got married. But Dev too has done his part to protect Sona as well and be vigilant about it the whole time. However, both have failed in their respective attempts. It's easy to blame Dev for the way he's acting but that's only because we see Sona living in the Dixit house daily. I'm not trying to undermine either of their faults here because I think both have made mistakes. But IMO, these mistakes have only happened because there really wasn't any coordination between the two. Dev and Sonakshi love each other to bits, and there really isn't any doubt on that. They know what "us" means to them, and hence their world away from their families comes across as perfect. But that "us" needs to become "we" when it comes to handling their families instead of just being " I ". Until now, they haven't really given a shot at that "we". And if they give up now without giving a shot at that "we", then what difference would it make between Dev-Sona and Neha-Ranveer? ๐Ÿค”


I guess my main thought about all this is that, I really don't want Dev and Sonakshi to give up now even without trying. The problems aren't even between these two ๐Ÿ˜† As usual, the plot ultimately boils down to "Is love enough?" ๐Ÿ˜†

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: preethik



I totally agree with what you have to say about Sony. This show was never garnering great trps even when the episodes were good . Even today with all the drama the trps are the same.

Like you say sona is going to find it very tough to pay off the loan. I don't like leaps & always feel when there no story to tell that Ian when we see one. Here ther are of tracks to be resolved yet. Also the concept of leap + kid + reconciliation has been done to death.

I hope they stick to concept of sona & dev overcoming all hurdles to get together to resolve ishs insecurities! That was the original story.



I'm glad you agree with me ๐Ÿ˜ƒ And you're right, even with the little drama they show it still doesn't compete with the other high TRP content shows. The makers aren't fools to not realize that. If TRPs were their purpose, then this show wouldn't even be on Sony in the first place. ๐Ÿ˜†

I'm no fan of leaps either. And I don't really like the idea of a kid being the reason for reconciliation. It comes across as a compromise to me without really understanding the reasons why they went wrong in the first place. Understanding has always been the basis of Devakshi's relationship, hence such things would go against their characterizations as well.



Edited by supercool3 - 8 years ago

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