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Originally posted by: LiveLife321
Life is too short to hate some one and world is too small to miss some one. I hope we will meet and exchange our views as usual in a healthy manner again and again. Belated happy new year Sam. I wont get tired of saying this again and again that its always pleasure reading your unbiased & balanced views. Keep writing more and more my friend.In our frustration we forget one thing that its their life and their story and their choices and their decisions, we are just viewers. Sitting before our PC, judging these characters are so easy because we are seeing what each character feel about others but expecting them to behave the way we want is too unreasonable. Standing in their shoes and fighting their struggles is altogether a different ball game.Life is different for each one of us. Our choices and decisions in life also vary even if we consider same situations because our choices depends on our past experiences and priorities in life. Lets respect others decisions and choices even if it is different from ours since its their life and their choice. Most important thing is to justify our point we dont have to make fun or be little others perspectives. I am a kind of person who looks for positive vibes even in the worst scenario and there are people in this forum who can only find negative things even in the best scenario. I respect their pov and i royally ignore such posts since i can never understand or agree with them.
Beautifully put, and the feeling is absolutely mutual. I hope that we continue these discussions as long as the show continues to engage our minds! You are absolutely right about the question of respect -- an argument does not have to be a zero-sum game, with I win, you lose mentality. Each person can take something away from the discussion that enriches their life and perspective a little more. When that is the case, why the need to belittle others who do not share our views? I am also a miner of positivity, and trust me, compared to the effort I have put into finding positivity in other desi soaps, this show has been a cake-walk because of the consistently good content. I hope it sustains until the end!
A very happy new year to you as well đ¤
Udne Ki Aasha
