Truth - The Most Underrated Thing in the World!!!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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There is power in truth. The power to break heart, but also the power to build trust and more solid relationships than lie.
In truth, the power is shared between two people. One who hears it and the other who shares it. In both cases, trust is built, respect is maintained, dignity is granted.

Lie is weak, powerless. In lies, all the temporary power belongs to the person who lies. The person who hears the lie and believes it is powerless and helpless. In this case however, while temporary delusion is maintained, trust is broken, dignity and respect are shattered.

In today's world, Truth is the most underrated thing while Lie is the most overrated thing.

People shy away from truth and resort to lies for fear of judgement, fear of rejection, fear of hurting someone else or being hurt themselves. But the fact that no lie is ever permanent, also means that the day it is revealed, they will be judged more than before, rejected without dignity, and the people they tried to save from hurt will be hurt anyway including themselves in much bigger scale than before.

However, truth might be hurtful, might make people judge you, might make them reject you, but your own conscience will not judge, reject or make you feel ashamed of your own self.

That's the difference between Truth and Lies.

As per episode, Sonakshi finds out the truth and is shattered. I ask all the people who supported Dev's lies, what hurt Sonakshi the most? The truth before she wove dreams of being mother and made plans for future or the truth after when along with her heart, her trust, her respect on her own husband, her professional and personal dignity is also shattered?

Bose family is angry and rightfully so. Their daughter is shattered. Had Sona been in Dev's place who was lying to Dev and Dev was in Sona's place, would not have mattered to Ishwari seeing her son hurt regardless of what reason Sonakshi lied about being pregnant.

Bose family reaches Ishwari mansion to tell the truth. Sona stops them. Fair enough. It's not their place to speak the truth. It should have come from Sonakshi who is also the victim of lies to another victim of lies.

Dev tried to stop her and if spoilers to be believed he is successful because Radha will find out the truth and reveal it.

If Sonakshi stays silent today, then she would be painted a worse lier than Dev because Dev is their son, so since he is not the only lier, Dixits will happily dump all his faults on Sonakshi regardless of how long she had known the truth and point fingers at her personal and professional dignity. Nothing will be able to bring her honour and dignity back from that point onwards.

As we saw that Radha accused Sona for Ishwari's disappearance in the spoiler, not Dev. That's exactly what is going to happen. I will see just what Sona did to reveal the truth before I comment farther.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Tia Happy Holidays!
I have no comments on the show anymore ...I have made a separate post about my thoughts
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thank you Sabita. Happy Holidays to you too.

Originally posted by: gemini54

Tia Happy Holidays!

I have no comments on the show anymore ...I have made a separate post about my thoughts

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Posted: 8 years ago
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And i missed the episode today...surviving on written updates...
Im not keeping any hopes from Mrs Dixit
She wont reveal to ishwari...!!!!


Im suprised sona felt bad...but i hope she understands Dev...
He did all for her happiness...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Same here. I also only read written updates. Sonakshi is TRP Bahu. Being "understanding" to husband's criminal, unethical, immoral activities is in her DNA. Sonakshi not only left Bose house after marriage but also left their upbringing behind...

Originally posted by: ..natasha..

And i missed the episode today...surviving on written updates...

Im not keeping any hopes from Mrs Dixit
She wont reveal to ishwari...!!!!


Im suprised sona felt bad...but i hope she understands Dev...
He did all for her happiness...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Tia going by the comments on todays episode it looks like this show is catering to a different kind of audience of which I am not part of . If being hurtful to the woman you love is your show of Love I certainly dont want to be part of that Love. I was hoping against hope that it will about Sona's hurt and not Easwari's but who am I kidding this show was always about Easwari I just did not know to read the writing on the wall
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Awesum post tia
Agree wid u
Sona wont b able to tell d truth n ll get blamed ...but today dev's lie broke her to an extent dat she felt dev to b a stranger ...ialwaz felt watever dev was doing ll nt give him results coz his way is wrong
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Posted: 8 years ago
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happy holiday's tia. 😃
Just wants to know what is your tipping point in this show?. Because i guess i am reaching over it. I will wait for infertility truth and where this show will be heading towards ,If its again ishwari's wishes and whims .then time has come to detach myself from this show.whatever i have predicted about show's future is going to be correct. CREDIT GOES TO SASURAL SIMAR KA WRITER😃 OR SASURAL SONAKSHI KA.😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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if sonakshi belives all lies and their readonings and then lies to Ishwari.. she deserves all wrath that'll come her way. she will losewhatever tiny sliver ofrespect I have left for this characyer.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sabita, I am from the same school of thought as you are. I am the kind of person who can tolerate the harshest truth but hate even pretty lies. I don't lie myself (because I suck at it too) and I can't bring myself to respect liers who more particularly lie to the people they claim to love. If love requires delusion to be maintained that is not true love in my book. Love can withstand the harshest truth because it is the strongest emotion, even stronger than hate. I feel pity for Dev but I don't respect him. He is master of his own destiny.

Originally posted by: gemini54

Tia going by the comments on todays episode it looks like this show is catering to a different kind of audience of which I am not part of . If being hurtful to the woman you love is your show of Love I certainly dont want to be part of that Love. I was hoping against hope that it will about Sona's hurt and not Easwari's but who am I kidding this show was always about Easwari I just did not know to read the writing on the wall

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