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Posted: 8 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: DevakshiCrazy

Sometimes I really feel bad for him!!!
What did he do to earn such hardships for life?????

He lost his father at an early age...his childhood was snatched away from him and he was loaded with responsibilities
To support his family...to earn a livelihood for them

He grew up to become the most successful businessman of his time and made sure his mother and sisters have the best things in life, but he himself settled for secondary things

He never wished for anything in his life until sonakshi happened to him
She changed his perspective of viewing things...she changed his attitude towards life

But his mother disapproved their alliance n they broke up
He kept on suffering in guilt but couldn't express it to anybody
Finally his mother agreed for their alliance as she didn't want to loose her grip on dev

Two days prior to his wedding he comes to know that his fiancee would never be able to conceive
He doesn't share iit with anyone...keeps it to himself

Then one fine day after around two three months into his married life his mother suddenly comes up with a prediction that his wife is expecting...the entire world around him came crashing down
He got sona tested only to know that she has not conceived...but by then he notices his mother taging utmost care of his sona ...something he had always wished for

He decides to keep the misunderstanding on till his mother n wife develop an unbreakable bond
And now he'll be blamed for the same

I know many of us will feel that he wronged sona and ishwari by lying to them
Yes he indeed was wrong...but still he had not done this for his own selfish reasons but to get his family together



Agree with you completely...👏

Dev has always been a selfless person... he deserved happiness in his life... But it seems as if his endurance is tested time and again... This is bothering me a lot... Poor Dev... wish, I could do something to ease his pain and sufferings.😭😭😭

Feeling very bad and sad for him... and more than that, I am very much scared for him. What if his fears come true? What if Sonakshi leave him?

Edited by Meera_Ka_Mohan - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: Sharica

I felt bad for both of them yaar...and I still think Ki Dev was more open to Sona b4 marriage than now...

I agree whatever he did this time was for the 2 most important women of his life and it was so difficult and painful for him..

But Its time for him to realise ki he cannot satisfy everyone everytime...he should start thinking abt him now and Sona as well because due to him she is also sacrificing like him and still his family dont give a damn to both of them...

I just hope ki jis purpose ke liye Dev ne ye kiya vo pura ho jaaye and Ish sona ki bonding aise hi rahe...

He did wrong but we can very well understand the reason for that...now he has to stop finding short cuts. I sincerely hope that this track will change him from that perspective and he can understand that he actually cannot buy everything...

But on a positive note, this issue will make Devakshi relationship more strong...and the fear that both are carrying with them of losing each other again can disappear...



@bold... How can you say that?😕


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Posted: 8 years ago
#23
Your post is written so well...

Dev sometimes acts very implusively.. and then regrets later.. he is human after all! Sometimes it backfires.. he wants to make his loved ones happy.. but he should face his problems upfront!


I want to see a stronger Dev.. where he stands for his wife and his Mother.. balances his love and achieves happiness... he won't always be a winner... but he won't be loosing his credibility like that!

He's very selfless.. and loves his family but he needs to get a bit stronger about his relationships!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: cscs

I will not justify his actions. Whatever he did was wrong.

Taking burden of all the emotions alone is not easy.
He is scared, sad, in pain from inside and has to show happiness to the whole world. Its not easy.
But such people are always misunderstood.


exactly nobody is justifying his actions
whatever he did was absolutely wrong
he took the incorrect path altogether

but the underlying fact is that whatever he did was to keep his mother and wife together
he had always wished to see these two bond with each other and Sona being showered with loads of love by his mother which was not happening
this false pregnancy alarm just gave him what he wanted

this truth which Sona has got to know now is giving her immense pain at the moment
but Dev is in pain right from the time that his Sona will never be able to become a mother
something what she has always dreamt off.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: chumki...

I feel xactly the same wht u hv written...as asha once said to sona on d pre birthday nite of dev wen devakshi planed for a party n ishu ma spioled it...that"both of u planed together...so dev must b going through the same disappointment n pain which u r going through"...n it happen every time with dev...he broke up with sona...ishu me didn't understand his pain...n more surprisingly sona who is going through d same pain..decided to move on..against her heart...which put both of dem in immense pain...which gv me more pain when i see that without any fault both dev n sona suffer



true everytime Dev and Sona go through some pain together Sona has many people to share her pain but Dev has none
In the end it's only Sona who stands by him
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Posted: 8 years ago
#26

Originally posted by: Iqqa

Yaaar... I cant agree more ! He's actually suffering with manu things and that too throughout his life. Sometimes I feel really bad for him. Kudos to Shaheer, he's playing Dev exceptionally well.
Good post. Thanks for the PM :)


the fact that Shaheer plays his part to perfection actually makes us feel more bad for Dev


@bold u r always welcome dear
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Poor guy...feel bad for him as all he wanted was to see is his mom being nice to Sona...would be interesting to see how he handles the situation.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sharica

I felt bad for both of them yaar...and I still think Ki Dev was more open to Sona b4 marriage than now...

I agree whatever he did this time was for the 2 most important women of his life and it was so difficult and painful for him..

But Its time for him to realise ki he cannot satisfy everyone everytime...he should start thinking abt him now and Sona as well because due to him she is also sacrificing like him and still his family dont give a damn to both of them...

I just hope ki jis purpose ke liye Dev ne ye kiya vo pura ho jaaye and Ish sona ki bonding aise hi rahe...

He did wrong but we can very well understand the reason for that...now he has to stop finding short cuts. I sincerely hope that this track will change him from that perspective and he can understand that he actually cannot buy everything...

But on a positive note, this issue will make Devakshi relationship more strong...and the fear that both are carrying with them of losing each other again can disappear...



agreed Dev would not filter his talks to sona before marriage but now he's more bothered about what will sona think
@bold
agree with this point of urs its time he takes a stand for his own happiness rather than his family's
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Cutiepie.sona

Agree with u di!...Dev has always been flawed...he has commited many mistakes but yet he never had any selfish intentions behind it...😊😊

He has nvr thought abt himself before his family members...he has always preferred their wishes, desires even if it means to sacrifice his happiness for them...😭
He never asked for anything from god even in the days when they were poverty-stricken he didn't even ask God to make successful and rich...but keeping aside his ego he went to the temple just for his mom & his wife's sake ..👏👏
Though he lied to them but his intentions were nver to hurt them rather to make them stronger to deal with the issue...⭐️⭐️
He has always justified his name DEV by
1) being the provider of the family
2) selflessly fulfilling evryone's desire without asking anything in return from them
3) always wanting his luved ones to be happy and live in peace
4) acted as a Saviour protecting them from all the odds...

Though he's not the BEST but no one can't stop oneself from luving him for the person he is...he may not be the Best Husband , Best son , Best brother , Best son-in -law...but is certainly a Good Human Being😃😃👏

Thanku Gayu di 4 this post😳😳



@bold 👏

yes indeed he's the best son brother husband any person can have

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Posted: 8 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: romanticgurl070

Agree with you dear


Whatever Dev did was for Sonakshi happiness, he knew she tried hard to win Ishwari's love and was unable to do so.

He saw a ray of hope of Sona being loved by his mum when Ishwari assumedSona to be pregnant. He did what he could to strengthen their bond.

Dev did lie but not for his happiness, instead for the happiness of the two most important persons in his life: Ishwari & Sonakshi




I really hope Ishwari remains the same with Sona even after knowing the truth
or else can't imagine how bad Dev will feel

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