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OK. I had to gather up a lot of courage to even make this post and am still not sure it's a good idea given the kind of passionate discussions going on here about Dev's new stupidity. Yes, even stupidity would be small word for it. He deserves every word he is being called by people here.
But what I was thinking was that does he deserve being called a criminal or a pervert?... For being called cheating on his wife or playing with his body??...i mean can we go to that extreme.
Just here me out.
What dev knows is that how much sona wants this baby and how happy she is that this has brought her ishwari 'S love. U can call him coward here that he thinks of this way rather than just having a talk with his mom about his wife. His justification (not mine or of any forum members I know) is that he doesn't want to break her dream for even a day when he would tell her she is not pregnant and then pursue this procedure or treatment together. This if course, legally, morally and ethical wrong. He is obviously over assuming his 'rights"on her body as u people say.
But does this make him a criminal?
He is not risking her life, subjecting her to a dangerous procedure, selling her body parts, removing some body part, doing something against her wishes or doing something she wouldn't want. Or doing something for himself... He knows this baby and more importantly change in ishwari probably means more to her than eve. Himself.
So what we can blame him for is not telling his wife about a procedure HER body is to go through. He is of course guilty of that
But considering what I just said can he be really called a criminal playing with his wifes body?
Honestly I don't know am not sure of what I just said. Even I am confused. Sometimes I feel what I am saying is right and sometimes not. So really want to hear your views. I will hear u out. Just not fighting please??
