Infertility Track - how do you want it to be handled - Page 5

Originally posted by: Malvika07

One of my biggest problem with Dev was when he imagined Sonakshi's reaction on finding out about her infertility. He thought Sonakshi will be shattered and would feel she isn't worthy of getting married to him. I remember her dialogues. "Mera koi haq nai banta Dev". Now this shows that Dev himself believes that he is doing sona a huge favour by marrying her inspite of this infertility issue since according to him the most natural reaction to finding out you have infertility issues is the woman feeling as if she doesn't deserve to get married if she can't give him babies. And its his great love for her that lead him to marry her inspite of her not being able to conceive.

For all we know, Sonakshi might not even react this way. She wouldn't feel that she's undeserving of Dev just because she can't conceive. She was raised right. She wasn't raised by an Ishwari with regressive thinking ingrained in her.

Now coming to dealing with infertility. I have zilch expectations from this track. Personally, I would've loved to see a high risk pregnancy instead of an infertility track. Just because I know that the makers will botch it up and high risk pregnancy would give them ample opportunity to show drama without pissing off the intelligent audience. I think almost everyone on the forum loves to see a worried Dev. And more so, him worrying about Sonakshi instead of ishwari would be such a treat to watch. There was so much scope for this but I can't write all of it here. Might as well start a new FF. LOL.

Bottom line, this is a very sensitive topic and should strictly be dealt with between the couple. However, after watching the latest treatment of characters, I'm 100% sure they're gonna mess this up and not give it the dignity it deserves.

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Love and favour doesn't go hand in hand...this is exactly that makes me feel that Dev's affection is not pure love rather a fixation or an obsession...I know many will not like what I wrote...because if he truely loved her he would have discussed with her abt the same...and left the decision of marrying in her hands...and I am not going to glorify the act of him marrying her knowing that she would face difficulty in conceiving . He was selfish..he didnt think abt her...he just needed her in his life ...thats all...and now its very evident that he really doesnt care abt her feelings...eg ; photo shoot during his birthday...and then when his mom talked abt being a mom...no change in expression...

Atleast we all agree up on one thing ...we are all 100% sure that CV team is going to mess up this track with a punch of insensitivity .

Originally posted by: aarcha

I think , neha may somehow find this medical report. Now she knows english, she will pass this to Ish n GKB . ( Ish ma is convinced by dev that everything fine & even if she gets the report , she can't understand anything..same goes with GKB . But i still remember GKB checking dev's ph to c the no. of missed calls he did to sonakshi during brk up period wen bejoy came to complaint ish maa bout dev's 15 missed calls to sona. So GKB is hyper smart too ) . This can create rift bet devakshi as dev hide this from sona. Taunts from GKB n neha will add fuel to fire. Sona will go bak to her home. Dev in dilemma. Meanwhile Ish maa sends that prenup papers to sona ( i'm n't sure bout how valid it is..but still ) Sona will b surprised to c dev's signature. She'll get the shock of her life. she'll sign it n send it bak. Dev'll b shocked to c his signature..& he'll b totally shattered wen he learns that his mom ...his goddess like mom tricked him into signing this. He'll rush to sona... they will unite.. they will forgive evryone.. ish maa will start understanding sona ..HAPPY END !!😆 ( for adding additional spice, dev can b shown as impotent 😆 but by miracle sona all good ...no..no..no i'm nt going that way . Mr. Dev Dixit is one of my fav characters.. )

I'm done !! 🤪

P.S. But on a serious note..infertility is a very sensitive issue even in this modern time , though many other options r available , becoz of the orthodox mentality of the people. I want the CVs to break the cliched ideas but that won't happen for sure. Though KRPKAB started with much hype that it's a different show which is relatable but it has now joined the gang of usual shows where the word logic is something that related to aliens or the outer space .

Originally posted by: Malvika07

I was being sarcastic when I said it was his great love for her that lead him to marry her inspite of the infertility issues. I have always been very critical of Dev. Right from the time they were dating and there were instances when I started doubting he wouldn't stand up for her to the break up when he behaved like a crazy stalker. I forgave all of that. It was after the pathetic handling of the patch up that I lost my affection for this character. Him not reflecting on his wrong doings and no introspection on his part were my major complaints. Things got a bit better after marriage when I saw some growth in his character. Many a times I expected him to yell, but he held her tight. When he said he was proud of her, I was proud of him. Then came the downfall. With the Maa issue and several other instances, my worst fears were confirmed that Sonakshi is just a toy to him. His zidd and nothing else. I always have lesser complaints from ishwari than I do from Dev. Coz I atleast had some expectations from him. Nowadays, I feel like I'm watching some other show and there's not even a glimpse of the old Dev in this oblivious mamma's boy on screen. I kept saying throughout the break up track that Dev behaves as if Sonakshi is a toy and not an actual human being and I remember having a difference of opinion with so many of the members who were my closest friends on here. Anyway, I think I need a break from this show. I keep coming back to it only and only coz of shaheer and Erica. But I wonder how long they'll be able to salvage it for me.

Originally posted by: suma74

I feel Ishwari should know about this first, because she should know that Dev has accepted Sona as it is, and having a child is second thought, Sona is more important.

When Ishwari confronts Dev, I feel that Dev should ask so what if she doesn't bear a child, Sona is enough for me. I got the report before marriage, if it was later what he could do.

Then after Sona confronting Dev and Ishwari about this issue, instead of Ishwari asking for remarriage of Dev, it should be Sona telling Ishwari to ask Dev to get married, since she want's to see Dev's happiness.

Let's see what CVs are with and wait for the episodes but infertility is to early, it should be after Ria wedding or Nehas family problem.

Originally posted by: saira246

i dont think soo...muje iss mammas boy par bilkul bharosa nahi hai...it might be a break up...since dev cant stand up for infront of his mom...after the photoshoot and fever fisco...muje yakeen hogaya hai...ee sona keliye kabhi kada nahi hosaktha...apne maa ke samne tho bilkul bhi nahi...

i just hope ee discusion main sona aur dev dhono ho...not like dev office main hoga aur sona sunthi rahegi or sonakshi bahar hai ishwari dev ko brainwash karlegi..