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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Danseuse



If Sonakshi gets into the sacrificial mode and threatens to commit suicide, if Dev doesn't agree to re-marry and both the wives live under the same roof, well...I would hope that all the three main leads quit the show!! 😃 😃 It would be the end of KRPKAB!!! But, the setting has been in modern times so let this soap be different. The pre-nup has been signed w/out Dev's knowledge. If that is used to create misunderstandings, I would like the leads to use their punch lines here to get thru this crisis- 'Agar main aisa pati hota, toh tum kya karti!' 😆


-Rekha


@ BOLD...that would be a treat to watch ...and a suspense broken with such ease and humor...😆

PS: we all know thats not going to happen...now the show is becoming predictable to some extant...
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Posted: 8 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Was looking for this thread. Finally found it. Am typing on my phone so excuse the typos

Infertility among men and women is on the rise. And many aspects of this problem are badly handled in Indian homes. So, our makers have an amazing opportunity to send a strong message to the society. I doubt they will. The focus has always been the love triangle and I suppose it will remain so.

I don't know how many viewers even fully understand what about inhospitable uterus means to the reproductive cycle of a couple. It's one of the harder to treat conditions as far as I know. However, such a female can still get pregnant and carry to term

There are many ways in which the makers can proceed. It's their story to tell.

The way I had always imagined it was that Dev has never shared his problems with anyone. He shouldn't share this one either. This is a challenge they should tackle together. Dev is as affected by this as sonakshi. He is as keen to be a parent as sonakshi. They shouldn't show Dev being the giver and sonakshi the bechari abala nari.

In my mind I always thought a miscarriage would be more apt to start the track. Shattered dreams are more dramatic

When the treatment starts, they should show Dev undergoing tests too. No fertility treatment can start without knowing the reproductive health of both the partners. Men usually avoid getting tested and mothers of such men take offence at mention of such testing. Dev Dixit would be a role model and I would love to see him send that message out. I am 100% sure that won't happen in KRPKAB

Reproductive health of the couple is as private a matter as physical intimacy. I hope they show them dealing with their shattered dreams as equal partners.

What a gorgeous colour of love would that be where Dev will love sonakshi like a man loves a woman even though they can't procreate. What intense colour of love would that be when sonakshi will stand by this man and share his frustration at not being able to father her child.

And then, they should talk about modern day surrogacy. They should show Dev's sperm and sonakshi's eggs fertilised in a test tube and a full term baby brought into this world by another woman. Bijoy Bose shouldn't have to stand for his daughter. Ishwari shouldn't be embarassed about her son and his wife's possibilities of having kids of their own. No... makers deal with any baggage before you bring fertility into this. Because procreation is pure. Procreation is the culmination of every shade, note and depth of love. Please show us a modern day fertility track.

Sorry I got carried awa . I am sorry


Good one...loved it...amazing .. I am sure the actors will do their job brilliantly...
But we have a problem...do you think the majority of the population will accept this??...do you think the TRP and commercial value of this show will increase...?? do you think PH and Sony TV will forgo the TRP aspect ?? Above every thing else do you think this PH and Sony TV has the guts to show such a beautiful track that will give a strong message to the society??

Thats the sad part especially the last line in BOLD.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld


Good one...loved it...amazing .. I am sure the actors will do their job brilliantly...
But we have a problem...do you think the majority of the population will accept this??...do you think the TRP and commercial value of this show will increase...?? do you think PH and Sony TV will forgo the TRP aspect ?? Above every thing else do you think this PH and Sony TV has the guts to show such a beautiful track that will give a strong message to the society??

Thats the sad part especially the last line in BOLD.


No, what that won't happen. I am 100% certain even a single thing I said above won't happen. But a girl can dream :)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: thedramaqueen


No, what that won't happen. I am 100% certain even a single thing I said above won't happen. But a girl can dream :)

Yes dear , we sure can dream...I made this thread for the same purpose ...what we cant get to see on screen for sure...atleast we can key it down and read it ...to make us happy..:)

So folks please add on...all your imaginations abt how you want this track to treated by the CV team..

My only prayer is they shouldnt show a silent /mute/lost look Dev when GKB and Neha are taunting abt this ...I hate the term infertile /barren being used for a woman who cant conceive . It sounds like women are some vegetative - propagative organ ...😡...I hope they dont stoop so low in this show while showing this track...but my brain says they will...😡
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Send this link to mamta on her social media account perhaps?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Send this link to mamta on her social media account perhaps?


I am not there on any social networking site dear..no FB / no twitter / no IG...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't have any expectations from Cvs.EveryEvery time we expect something they made our expections down to drain.After watching this serial for 9 months i got 1thing clear that in this serial everytime ishwari nd her wish got successfull be it dev sonakshi love track,break up,marraige,honeymoon,birthday,halua,ice cream or anything cvs always proved ishu right.I am damn sure in infertelity track also they will prove her right nd let her wish.We viewers will watch only ishu auntey ki drama,emotional black mailing,ishu ki flushback how she dream to play with her fav son children,nd also dumb,spineless dev feeling guilty how he was for the first time is not able to fullfill her maaa wish this is what they will show.they will never show any medical issue regarding sona's condition
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld



I am not there on any social networking site dear..no FB / no twitter / no IG...

I don't think by sending this to maamta it will made any difference they never lesson to fan they will only do what they wish or planned.In twitter everyone tweeting her regarding dis or future track.Many r bashing them but sadly they r not caring for anything
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sameera26849776

I don't have any expectations from Cvs.EveryEvery time we expect something they made our expections down to drain.After watching this serial for 9 months i got 1thing clear that in this serial everytime ishwari nd her wish got successfull be it dev sonakshi love track,break up,marraige,honeymoon,birthday,halua,ice cream or anything cvs always proved ishu right.I am damn sure in infertelity track also they will prove her right nd let her wish.We viewers will watch only ishu auntey ki drama,emotional black mailing,ishu ki flushback how she dream to play with her fav son children,nd also dumb,spineless dev feeling guilty how he was for the first time is not able to fullfill her maaa wish this is what they will show.they will never show any medical issue regarding sona's condition


Yes because majority are fascinated abt the concept of a Son blindly listening to his mom...doesnt matter if mom is rt or wrong ...do anything for mom...because if he listens to his wife he becomes Jhoru ka Ghulam...and if he listens to his heart he becomes a selfish son...

This serial is all about glorifying the mother...😕

PS: lord help me !! did I write that ??!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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One of my biggest problem with Dev was when he imagined Sonakshi's reaction on finding out about her infertility. He thought Sonakshi will be shattered and would feel she isn't worthy of getting married to him. I remember her dialogues. "Mera koi haq nai banta Dev". Now this shows that Dev himself believes that he is doing sona a huge favour by marrying her inspite of this infertility issue since according to him the most natural reaction to finding out you have infertility issues is the woman feeling as if she doesn't deserve to get married if she can't give him babies. And its his great love for her that lead him to marry her inspite of her not being able to conceive.
For all we know, Sonakshi might not even react this way. She wouldn't feel that she's undeserving of Dev just because she can't conceive. She was raised right. She wasn't raised by an Ishwari with regressive thinking ingrained in her.
Now coming to dealing with infertility. I have zilch expectations from this track. Personally, I would've loved to see a high risk pregnancy instead of an infertility track. Just because I know that the makers will botch it up and high risk pregnancy would give them ample opportunity to show drama without pissing off the intelligent audience. I think almost everyone on the forum loves to see a worried Dev. And more so, him worrying about Sonakshi instead of ishwari would be such a treat to watch. There was so much scope for this but I can't write all of it here. Might as well start a new FF. LOL.
Bottom line, this is a very sensitive topic and should strictly be dealt with between the couple. However, after watching the latest treatment of characters, I'm 100% sure they're gonna mess this up and not give it the dignity it deserves.

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