Infertility Track - how do you want it to be handled

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Posted: 8 years ago
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After yesterdays speech by Ishu , I felt I needed to know how each of you would want the CV team to handle infertility track

For me ...I want Sona to get to know abt her health issue first . She should later confront Dev abt the same . He should give Sona proper justification as to why he had not told her abt it before marriage.

He should make her promise that she will not discuss this with any one until he tells her to...in case any one finds out she should let him know...and they should take medical opinion...start medication and treatment for the same

This one issue should that link that binds Sona and Dev deeply...one that can be called theirs and no one else has a stake in this...their affection , trust ,understand and above all respect for each other should grow during this track...

By the time they disclose to the family , either she should be carrying his child thru IVF /IUI or they should have come to a decision of going for a Surrogacy or adoption..When they disclose it , it should be done to both side of the family at the same time as their joint decision...

This should be a turning point in Dev and Sona's relationship...where each and every person..including Bijoy and Ishu understands the depth of their matured relationship..and has no other go but to respect their decision and leave it at that .


Now your ideas plsss


PS : I want this track to be handled with care , respect and sensitivity by the CV team. This track in no way should bring pain and misery to those millions of ppl who are not able to conceive rather it should give them hope in life . This track should also educate ppl that beings parents means not just giving birth but bringing them up too...This track in no way should be seen as encouragement for ppl like GKB/Neha to taunt who cant conceive .

CV Team please remember and consider the larger audience of this show...also you have a social responsibility while you broadcast a show ...hence please handle this one with at most care .

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I totally agree with your thoughts. so far Dev has never stood up for Sona. Standing up doesnt mean fighting with your mom. Its respecting her thoughts as a person and accomodating her.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: GeekSquad

I totally agree with your thoughts. so far Dev has never stood up for Sona. Standing up doesnt mean fighting with your mom. Its respecting her thoughts as a person and accomodating her.


Exactly and this is so personal even your parents opinion shouldnt be considered if your spouse is not happy abt it...

I know CVs wont take this approach as this will not bring TRP and commercial value...and that they might go with the option of a second marriage track which is very common , expected and has loads of drama ...insults thrown across on the lady by the family so that more ppl will watch the show...

I some how dont enjoy it ...I did like to see it smooth but with loads of emotions shared betwn the two..Erica would nail it ...and Shaheer would compliment her beautifully ...especially when she questions him and his response to her...this scene no one other than them should be present...just like their confession, break up , and then when she drops him at his house...would be a treat to watch..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Even if of half of what you have said is done then it will be a great thing to watch on the show. I really hope that it will be a binding factor between Devakshi and it should not take a cliche route of remarriage or introducing the other woman (surrogate mother) in Dev's life.
Honestly I don't want this infertility issue all of a sudden and among so many issues going around. This track can be beautifully portrayed by Devakshi as they both are killer in emotional scenes.
And If they are showing it only for Dev's growth and how he will stand up for his wife against others then also i don't have any issues. But it should not go typical route.
Btw when Ishwari was giving her speech yesterday the only though that struck in my mind that Sona should have her kids.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well from long term point of view for once I want an Indian Tele show female lead not to have a baby. It's time we highlight that ability to have a baby has nothing to do with a woman being complete etc.


In a more granular level I more or less agree with yours. Definitely should have the confrontation followed by Dev's unconditional apology and Sona's forgiveness because it's their journey together ! And then should check with some top level doctors of Asia or the world and taking their advice if there is any chance to that, and if not, I want them to stop trying further and adopt a baby if that's the goal to complete their family 😊 I know many couples today are undergoing different techniques etc to conceive, but I have closely observed some of my nearest relatives (my bhabhi and bhabhi-in-law) going through that treatment ! It's so painful and horrible that it's really scary and sometimes takes a huge toll on the mother. A new unborn (in fact non-existent during the treatment prior to conceiving) life cannot become more important than the living middle-aged woman carrying that child ! I dont see any point in that enormous torture personally when we can have a wonderful blissful family even with an adopted child 👍🏼 Hope they make this show a pathbreaker and show this track as above... It should be Dev and Sona's decision to give a homeless child a family and without any interference of Ishwari in that decision.. So waiting to see the polar opposite reactions of the Boses and Dixits on the kid as well 😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Infertility is a very very sensitive topic and I love what each of you wrote as to the way it will be good if it is handled.👏
They can educate people on procedures available or even show adoption as an option. Whatever road they take it should be handled in a personal level which involves only Sona and Dev and nobody else because this is not something that the whole family need to get involved in atleast till a decision is made by the couple.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I have a lot of thoughts I want to share on this topic.. I am stepping out however I feel very strongly about this topic and I am 100% sure the makers will disappoint me on this one simply because I have a very high expectation of how this challenge should be handled by couples. Only closely followed by learning disabilities
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I wish they portray what you have written but the chances are nil. as you tightly said for TRP they have to shuw lots of creepy stuff. The way Dev's character is moulded after marriage he vl leave Sona if his mother ask him to do so. First they have to show chatacter growth of dev whom they have mercilessly assassinated. I miis Dev Dixit the business tycoon avatar which v get to see in the first 100 episodes. The cvs can broach the infertility topic only after unravelling umpteenth issues which is left unattended.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I really don't want infertility track right now as it doesn't make sense.And I know this track was placed as Dev's redemption but I don't want him to just stand up for her then it needs to take a gradual growth in his character first he has to man up himself and be a better husband,brother, BIL ,SIL.The infertility track can be beautiful it is something related to both of them as a couple and they should solve it together.I want this track after prenup and after all the subplots opened is closed.And please show some growth in Dev's character I can't see him this way 😕 😭
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I would like infertility track together with prenup be made as a ploy of ishwari to stop Dev from getting married to Sona without being bad in Dev eye. They had shown Ishwari trying to check Sona medical file which Dev grabs from her hand and then Ishwari again conforming Dev as everything ok with Sona report . This together with prenup should come as a track to show Ishwari true face to Dev her facade of being this innocent godly lady should be torn and her conniving nature should be revealed to Dev. This can start with Sona fainting in office in pretext of pregnancy and when this news is revealed to Dev he should check the reports Sona report with the doctor. In interrogation should be revealed doctors lie under Ishu interference . Hence Dev should know real Ishu minus her facade and pretence and discuss with Sona. Both of them together then work towards healing Ishwari.

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