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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: randommusings

I also hope Dona knows abt it first n then she shud confront Dev. We shud hv strong emotional scenes n both of them shud discuss next steps abt conceiving and how to deal with both families. Dev has to ensure he takes d responsibility of dealing with Ish, gkb, Neha. Ish wud be angry, Gkb will fuel d fire, Neha will taunt but Dev has to make surd he stands with Sona. I dnt want Sona to go into a sacrifice mode. Thty shud explore all options.

But most probably this wud hapoen in show - Ish or Gkb will find out abt it... they wud start insulting Sona, will try to break Dev n Sona, blame Sona for hiding it, Sona wud b shocked, Dev wud b silent, Sona wud leave home, then Dev wud tty to get Sona back even if Ish doesn't agree.


@BOLD ...that is what is going to happen...and then GKB will suggest second marriage...in betwn Sona will ask Dev for a divorce ...Ishu will be happy and send the prenup documents to be signed by Sona..this will again cause more confusion and drama...and finally Dev will sign the divorce papers...then probably we will get to see all the three promos... OR he might get married to someone else for his mom...we never know...

Oh...how I hate what ever I wrote ...😡
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Guys just presenting an idea of what could have happened if neha would have been positive. She could have been the surrogate mother and she would experience the feeling of being mother without having to bear the kids. She only never wanted kids na.
But now it's highly impossible.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I soo wish this could happen...
I trust bijoy...but ishu..she will make most of it to insult sona and dev..i dont have hopes from him...

As shaheer himself said cant trust CVs
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld


@BOLD ...that is what is going to happen...and then GKB will suggest second marriage...in betwn Sona will ask Dev for a divorce ...Ishu will be happy and send the prenup documents to be signed by Sona..this will again cause more confusion and drama...and finally Dev will sign the divorce papers...then probably we will get to see all the three promos... OR he might get married to someone else for his mom...we never know...

Oh...how I hate what ever I wrote ...😡


Yes divorce n remarry stuff will come but I don't think Dev wud divorce Sona coz that wud b the end of KRPKAB. I always thought initial promos were before marriage ones...now if Dev separates from Sona...then they shud btr get divorce n end the crap.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Was looking for this thread. Finally found it. Am typing on my phone so excuse the typos
Infertility among men and women is on the rise. And many aspects of this problem are badly handled in Indian homes. So, our makers have an amazing opportunity to send a strong message to the society. I doubt they will. The focus has always been the love triangle and I suppose it will remain so.

I don't know how many viewers even fully understand what about inhospitable uterus means to the reproductive cycle of a couple. It's one of the harder to treat conditions as far as I know. However, such a female can still get pregnant and carry to term

There are many ways in which the makers can proceed. It's their story to tell.

The way I had always imagined it was that Dev has never shared his problems with anyone. He shouldn't share this one either. This is a challenge they should tackle together. Dev is as affected by this as sonakshi. He is as keen to be a parent as sonakshi. They shouldn't show Dev being the giver and sonakshi the bechari abala nari.

In my mind I always thought a miscarriage would be more apt to start the track. Shattered dreams are more dramatic

When the treatment starts, they should show Dev undergoing tests too. No fertility treatment can start without knowing the reproductive health of both the partners. Men usually avoid getting tested and mothers of such men take offence at mention of such testing. Dev Dixit would be a role model and I would love to see him send that message out. I am 100% sure that won't happen in KRPKAB

Reproductive health of the couple is as private a matter as physical intimacy. I hope they show them dealing with their shattered dreams as equal partners.

What a gorgeous colour of love would that be where Dev will love sonakshi like a man loves a woman even though they can't procreate. What intense colour of love would that be when sonakshi will stand by this man and share his frustration at not being able to father her child.

And then, they should talk about modern day surrogacy. They should show Dev's sperm and sonakshi's eggs fertilised in a test tube and a full term baby brought into this world by another woman. Bijoy Bose shouldn't have to stand for his daughter. Ishwari shouldn't be embarassed about her son and his wife's possibilities of having kids of their own. No... makers deal with any baggage before you bring fertility into this. Because procreation is pure. Procreation is the culmination of every shade, note and depth of love. Please show us a modern day fertility track.

Sorry I got carried awa . I am sorry
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: diyah_us

don't have any expectations in serials about infertility tracks. even in yhm they had an
infertile lead but she became pregnant first time itself after the first suhaag raat. so
infertility issues r horribly handled in serials🤢😕


Its sad YHM was about how a woman doesnt need to give birth to become a mother but cvs forgot about it later on when raman was getting obsessed with having a biological child with ishita. I stopped watching the show with how when ever he gets angry with her regarding kids he will always say u are infertile/bhaang so u wont undertstand.. Atleast i have hope dev wont do it like that.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Infertility is inability to conceive. I had understood that Sonakshi's medical condition pertains to her uterus not being to hold the pregnancy!! This could lead to miscarriage and even prove fatal for the mother.

If the latter is true, then adoption or surrogacy are options. If I am mistaken, then IVF is the best option. Incidentally, India, Japan and China are some of the leading users of IVF treatment. So, it's the couple's choice as there is no gain without pain! 😃

Coming to the soap, this is expected to be full of drama and emotions. For obvious reasons. And if you live in a joint family with characters like GKB around you, it's going to be messy. I am keen to see the woman in Ishwari to come out here in flying colours. While Dev and Sonakshi fight their internal demons, she can be their pillar of strength, giving more practical advice and voicing support for the leap in medical science. Yes, the first thought would be negative, where the chances of getting another bride for Dev is likely to be discussed, esp. since the shower 'snan' of Dev. But, I hope better sense prevails and Ishwari is able to change to bring on a much needed positive impact.

Another twist could be that Sonakshi wants to defy the medical report and takes the risk of going thru the pregnancy (if there are no uterus issues) and takes the bull by its horns. Then loads of tension would be created for TRP till the baby arrives.

What I would like to see is a strong Ishwari giving full support to Dev-Sonakshi (post initial hiccups) and with the help of medical science welcoming a bundle of joy in their family...


-Rekha
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld



@BOLD ...that is what is going to happen...and then GKB will suggest second marriage...in betwn Sona will ask Dev for a divorce ...Ishu will be happy and send the prenup documents to be signed by Sona..this will again cause more confusion and drama...and finally Dev will sign the divorce papers...then probably we will get to see all the three promos... OR he might get married to someone else for his mom...we never know...

Oh...how I hate what ever I wrote ...😡



If Sonakshi gets into the sacrificial mode and threatens to commit suicide, if Dev doesn't agree to re-marry and both the wives live under the same roof, well...I would hope that all the three main leads quit the show!! 😃 😃 It would be the end of KRPKAB!!! But, the setting has been in modern times so let this soap be different. The pre-nup has been signed w/out Dev's knowledge. If that is used to create misunderstandings, I would like the leads to use their punch lines here to get thru this crisis- 'Agar main aisa pati hota, toh tum kya karti!' 😆


-Rekha
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Posted: 8 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: Paytonlee


Its sad YHM was about how a woman doesnt need to give birth to become a mother but cvs forgot about it later on when raman was getting obsessed with having a biological child with ishita. I stopped watching the show with how when ever he gets angry with her regarding kids he will always say u are infertile/bhaang so u wont undertstand.. Atleast i have hope dev wont do it like that.


I doubt if Dev would say that , but we never know how the CVs will change Dev's character. But I am sure given an opportunity we will get to hear it from Neha or GKB and witness the silence from Dev and his mother...

Yesterday Shaheer confirmed that he needed to act dumb ...a husband who doesnt understand anything
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Posted: 8 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: Danseuse


Infertility is inability to conceive. I had understood that Sonakshi's medical condition pertains to her uterus not being to hold the pregnancy!! This could lead to miscarriage and even prove fatal for the mother.

If the latter is true, then adoption or surrogacy are options. If I am mistaken, then IVF is the best option. Incidentally, India, Japan and China are some of the leading users of IVF treatment. So, it's the couple's choice as there is no gain without pain! 😃

Coming to the soap, this is expected to be full of drama and emotions. For obvious reasons. And if you live in a joint family with characters like GKB around you, it's going to be messy. I am keen to see the woman in Ishwari to come out here in flying colours. While Dev and Sonakshi fight their internal demons, she can be their pillar of strength, giving more practical advice and voicing support for the leap in medical science. Yes, the first thought would be negative, where the chances of getting another bride for Dev is likely to be discussed, esp. since the shower 'snan' of Dev. But, I hope better sense prevails and Ishwari is able to change to bring on a much needed positive impact.

Another twist could be that Sonakshi wants to defy the medical report and takes the risk of going thru the pregnancy (if there are no uterus issues) and takes the bull by its horns. Then loads of tension would be created for TRP till the baby arrives.

What I would like to see is a strong Ishwari giving full support to Dev-Sonakshi (post initial hiccups) and with the help of medical science welcoming a bundle of joy in their family...


-Rekha


@BOLD ...I would prefer it that way...they need TRP so best to choose the one track that has umpteen chances of increasing the TRP.

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