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Posted: 8 years ago
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http://www.fuzionproductions.com/kuch-rang-pyar-ke-aise-bhi-womanhood-motherhood/
The Fusion Tia also slays..now I am convinced Tia is the ghost writer😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: gemini54

http://www.fuzionproductions.com/kuch-rang-pyar-ke-aise-bhi-womanhood-motherhood/

The Fusion Tia also slays..now I am convinced Tia is the ghost writer😃


If not then tia should ask them to stop the plagiarism! 😉
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Posted: 8 years ago
#43
Holy crap you guys. She is definitely a Bong like me.

So either all Bongs think alike (lol) or she is psychic and reading my thoughts. I swear... 😆

In fact the poem she mentioned I also mentioned in my previous posts way back when...

Originally posted by: baijubavra


If not then tia should ask them to stop the plagiarism! 😉

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

Holy crap you guys. She is definitely a Bong like me.

So either all Bongs think alike (lol) or she is psychic and reading my thoughts. I swear... 😆

In fact the poem she mentioned I also mentioned in my previous posts way back when...

I smell plagiarism! Seriously!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hi Tia,
I am a silent reader but I regularly read your post. Some times I like your post and some time I fell they are negative. but I like your Writing. My thoughts about the ishu's speech.
She has faced a lot of situations where she have to fight for her and her children s survival but I that process she had made some mistakes that she is totally bios some how she know Dev is more intelligent and he is have a capacity to take all of them out of there poority. so she completely give full attention on dev. for the time being lets consider of was the need of the time
that what she give more attention to dev but after when the things get better then at that time why she not give the proper attention to her rest of children. In this entire process she subconsciously
know she failed as a mother that why she want this assurance and Clap from dev and all of the third party persons that she is a great mother and she is god.because some how she what to ensure herself that she is a good mother and this is required by a person when he or she itself know that this is not good but if someone say false thing again and again she can fool your self.
some how this is not possible with the help of neha. that why she is more connected to dev only because dev loves,respects what to protect his mother so he is fulfill her this wish that is the root cause of her passiveness. and insecurity.
so to become a better MIL first she required to become first a better mother and then better MIL . and this journey will be started when she realized that she is having many flows and first she required to accept it and then rectify it. and for that a long way to go. and this is only possible with the help of dev . and for that dev required the help of sona and Bose orientation classes.

Ishu has a fear to loose. thats why she is trying to win every single point and want to defeat sona. I must say CV are cleaver they know as an audience what we fill about ishu's every move thats what SONA'S BABA represents us.

What I fell about the future track and Dev's Behavior I will put in another post as I required to go to my work.
Thanks for reading my replay .
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thank you. I agree with you in your point that only Dev can fix Ishwari's issues. But he can't do that by being a Yes man to his mother who can't see her as ever doing anything wrong. We fix what is broken or we perceive to be broken. No one attempts to fix what they perceive to be perfect. And Dev thinks Ishwari is God and God is perfect.

Loving someone doesn't mean that they are flawless in your eyes. Loving someone means that you know their flaws but love them anyway. Dev first has to see his mother clearly through unbiased eyes and see her good points and bad points.

Ishwari is a selfish mother. When a child is upset with his/her mother because the mother didn't treat him/her right, then that doesn't mean that the mother gets to give up on the child because they don't belong in her fan club. That means a good mother will try harder to fix her earlier mistakes. Ishwari did nothing of that sort with Neha or her other children which is why they feel no connection with her. It's not their responsibility to reach out, it's her responsibility as a mother and keep trying until they forgive her and open up their hearts.

Dev needs to see beyond his no. 1 fan/mother and see what kind of mother she is to her other children and then he has to fix the obsessive fixation she has with him and make her spread her attention to her other children as well instead of selfishly hogging all his mother's attention. It has gone far too long as it is.



Originally posted by: timbarucha83

Hi Tia,

I am a silent reader but I regularly read your post. Some times I like your post and some time I fell they are negative. but I like your Writing. My thoughts about the ishu's speech.
She has faced a lot of situations where she have to fight for her and her children s survival but I that process she had made some mistakes that she is totally bios some how she know Dev is more intelligent and he is have a capacity to take all of them out of there poority. so she completely give full attention on dev. for the time being lets consider of was the need of the time
that what she give more attention to dev but after when the things get better then at that time why she not give the proper attention to her rest of children. In this entire process she subconsciously
know she failed as a mother that why she want this assurance and Clap from dev and all of the third party persons that she is a great mother and she is god.because some how she what to ensure herself that she is a good mother and this is required by a person when he or she itself know that this is not good but if someone say false thing again and again she can fool your self.
some how this is not possible with the help of neha. that why she is more connected to dev only because dev loves,respects what to protect his mother so he is fulfill her this wish that is the root cause of her passiveness. and insecurity.
so to become a better MIL first she required to become first a better mother and then better MIL . and this journey will be started when she realized that she is having many flows and first she required to accept it and then rectify it. and for that a long way to go. and this is only possible with the help of dev . and for that dev required the help of sona and Bose orientation classes.

Ishu has a fear to loose. thats why she is trying to win every single point and want to defeat sona. I must say CV are cleaver they know as an audience what we fill about ishu's every move thats what SONA'S BABA represents us.

What I fell about the future track and Dev's Behavior I will put in another post as I required to go to my work.
Thanks for reading my replay .

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Posted: 8 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: tia.o

<font size="3" color="#000066">Lol... Thanks. I agree with you. Dev and Sonakshi should keep Bijoy and Asha as goals. They are ideal couple who compliment each other beautifully.</font>




Tia on the thoughts of words - Yesterday I was thinking over something.. When we do something wrong or against our parents' wish or behave disobedient to them, parents start calling us 'tum'/'tumi' from 'tu'/'tui', I'm sure being a bong everyone would relate to this 😆 This change in the addressing used to be like the ultimatum sometimes and we as children would crawl back to their shelter surrending to what they want 😆


Just a thought 😛 😆 ! Word DOES matter and was proved yesterday 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I haven't made time to catch up on the episode yet..
The written update is more than enough to show a glimpse of what's in it for me..😉

Baaba... and his reaction and action.. I reiterate that every girl needs a father like him.. Else our society easily pushes down the mom-son special affection as the norms into the girl's throat .. Making her accept or adjust or do whatever she could to cherish this bond without calling out any changes to it. And take in the guilt and blame on to herself for even trying to bring in changes in their way of living..

Mothers of son holding back the son in their cocoon in the name of their insecurity.. If you don't trust your son that much then why get them married in the first place.. Along with other traditions keep them indoors covered in your own shelter not letting them out. As you see your sons are good but the girls coming in with mission to separate them from you.. Poor your sons can't do much because you didn't let him learn things on their own ways.. obviously you need to put constant efforts to keep them in your hold.. Else they get tuned to the new teacher..😆
If only, Ishu, your son has learnt to live on his own terms to decide what's best for him, then obviously he would have chosen what's best for you as well.. He was just tuned to think that you choose the best for him and you are forced to play the game safe for you and end up playing it for him as well..
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Posted: 8 years ago
#49
Lol... Good point. That's a clear indication that we are in trouble. Around the same time, we go on cajoling mode from Maa to Mummy with extra sweetness... Lol... 😆

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun



Tia on the thoughts of words - Yesterday I was thinking over something.. When we do something wrong or against our parents' wish or behave disobedient to them, parents start calling us 'tum'/'tumi' from 'tu'/'tui', I'm sure being a bong everyone would relate to this 😆 This change in the addressing used to be like the ultimatum sometimes and we as children would crawl back to their shelter surrending to what they want 😆


Just a thought 😛 😆 ! Word DOES matter and was proved yesterday 😆

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Posted: 8 years ago
#50
Absolutely. And why only father? Every girl needs a husband like Bijoy Bose. What an incredible man. Granted he never had to choose between his mother and wife. But considering he treated his daughter and son-in-law the same, I have no doubt that he'd have chosen the person who is right or stay out of it altogether.

Even today, he didn't have to teach Dev a lesson. Asha had already let it go even though she was hurt. But neither Bijoy nor his mother was prepared to tolerate even a small hurt on the woman they both love. And people say in-laws don't love daughter-in-laws.

Yes, in-laws like Ishwari don't because they are selfish. But there are in-laws like Dida who is also single mother. But because she loved her son so much, she also loved the woman he loved and she reciprocated. Again, she is the example of motherhood who doesn't blow her own horn on her son's ears and in front of anyone who is around.

Originally posted by: Push-pull

👍🏼

I haven't made time to catch up on the episode yet..
The written update is more than enough to show a glimpse of what's in it for me..😉

Baaba... and his reaction and action.. I reiterate that every girl needs a father like him.. Else our society easily pushes down the mom-son special affection as the norms into the girl's throat .. Making her accept or adjust or do whatever she could to cherish this bond without calling out any changes to it. And take in the guilt and blame on to herself for even trying to bring in changes in their way of living..

Mothers of son holding back the son in their cocoon in the name of their insecurity.. If you don't trust your son that much then why get them married in the first place.. Along with other traditions keep them indoors covered in your own shelter not letting them out. As you see your sons are good but the girls coming in with mission to separate them from you.. Poor your sons can't do much because you didn't let him learn things on their own ways.. obviously you need to put constant efforts to keep them in your hold.. Else they get tuned to the new teacher..😆
If only, Ishu, your son has learnt to live on his own terms to decide what's best for him, then obviously he would have chosen what's best for you as well.. He was just tuned to think that you choose the best for him and you are forced to play the game safe for you and end up playing it for him as well..

Edited by tia.o - 8 years ago

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