Determination!!! EDITED WITH EPISODE! - Page 3

Originally posted by: sona_naksh

Read ur edited part tia ...n its to d point and perfect ...

Exactly wen she said ye samajhne ke liye maa hona zaruri h...i was like its a direct insult ...coz being a mother i want to pamper my son protect him but den i know dis pampering n protection wont work in long run ...if i want my baby to learn walking i have to allow him to fall and then get up on his own ...

she said dev apni maa ko kabhi vanvaas nhi jaane dega ...but den agar itna trust hota to there shud not have been any issue ...d main issue is she doeant trust d love her son has for her .

Originally posted by: sbadam

Tia...this is one of your best posts so far...At least this is one of my favorites...😊

Absolutely agree with your Edited...Do we need anymore reasons to love Bijoy...he is just amazing as a Son, Dad and Husband...and also a Father in Law

Originally posted by: .annihilation.

I'd begin with saying that I ABSOLUTELY LOVE reading your posts. Your thought process, your views and the way you put across things is just so sensible and admirable. Kudos for the good job! Agreed with everything you have said.

Seriously, I'm so annoyed with this show that I can't even recognise the characters I used to like so much. I just watch the episodes when I can, come over, read and some posts and leave. I wanted to comment today because this Ishwari glorification in the name of 'ideal' mother-son relationship was beyond my tolerance. 😆 Let alone mothers, people who aren't even mothers themselves will understand that the kind of relationship Ishwari and Dev share is unhealthy to say the least. I'd say it's toxic but then I understand where the characters come from and hence, chose to stick to unhealthy. We don't even need to go beyond the show into real life, Asha is a FAR better example of a good mother. Ishwari acts as if she's the ONLY mother in the world. She said it right though, she's ONLY Dev's mother. Neha, Ria and Nikki mean squat to her. Neha didn't even feel a family member enough to join the group hug.

I was actually looking forward to today's episode assuming it would serve Ishwari a lesson but alas, she ends up having the last say/laugh, always. I totally mirrored Bijoy's reaction throughout the episode as apposed to every character who was shedding tears because honestly, I don't think anyone other than Bijoy truly understands Ishwari. Had that speech been just out of pure love for her son, I would have loved it. But more than anything else it was a means to taunt Sona and show her how she will always have an upper hand no matter what. The 'only a mother' can understand a mother will hit Sona badly when she discovers about her minimal-to-nil chances of conceiving. It's awful how a genuinely beautiful person like Sona gets treated this way as if she's the worst possible bahu there could be.

Dev continues to be a disappointment to me, no growth in his character whatsoever. The only reason he called Asha 'maa' today was to save his family's reputation and his own neck in front of the guests. Had it been a gesture done straight out of heart and respect for Asha, Dev wouldn't have turned to look at Ishwari for her approval. She nodded because beta ne pariwaar ki izzat bacha li.

All said, I still like this show because it's atleast close to reality. However, the absolute lack of growth in characters is a huge let down.

Originally posted by: gmgi

She is proud that she is the mother of Dev Dixit who will never let go of his mother's hand. The bond between them is unbreakable even when a third person has entered the equation. How much she trusts his love and her upbringing is another question. But her being his mother is her identity. That was the crux of her speech.

I wanted to laugh because this mother son bond segregated her daughters so much so that her own daughter who was a better mother than her doesn't even want to be a mother. Her son will not have that blessing. Karma is a bi**h

Originally posted by: Pramila.harish

Amazing post as usual.

If eshwari was not taunting sona at the end, may be some people would think she is genuine. It looks like bejoy got her point. may be he will enlighten sona about her insecurities. gosh it is such a embarrassing speech in front of outsider. she is thinking she is only mother present in that house..just imagine asha, dida and ayaan mother must be laughing about the speech. you cannot express your motherly feeling in front of another mother as she only enjoyed feeling of being called mother. It was utter crap. she herself putting down in front of outsider.

Now I feel story should move on next level. enough of this hide and seek. her insecurities/problem should come out openly.

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Tia you slayed 👍🏼 Words are important, Dev's peeing in his pants kind of proved it 😛


Bijoy-Asha are the couple goals, something Dev-Sona can never become 🥳 Bijoy's reactions during the speech was spot on!! The speech was pathetic to the T !!


Lovely post Tia once again absolutely fabulous analysis and references !

Originally posted by: tia.o

Thank you. But yes, I am majorly disappointed with Dev and Ishwari's character as well and how CVs keep justifying their unhealthy fixation to each other.

As a show maker on a popular channel on national television, they have certain responsibilities towards the society.

Do show reality by all means, but also show that if something wrong, then there would be negative repercussion.

But if the show makers continues to show that a wrong deed is getting rewarded/forgiven/forgotten, then what message does it send to the society?

Originally posted by: .annihilation.

I doubt the makers, any show makers for that matter care about the message their show gives out. 😆 The only reason I said it's real is because I know of mothers who are more or less like Ishwari. You'd be surprised but there are real life case far worse than she is. But yeah, I agree. Initially, I though the show's aim was to give a message on such relationships but instead they seem to be glorifying it with each day. Still gotta thank for characters like Bijoy and the Bose family. Imagine what this show would be like had that family not existed. *cringes* Atleast, there's a balance, we know there's a family full of double standards and hypocrisy (Dixit family) but there's also a family which depict class in its true sense (Bose family).