About ishwari...what do u think ? - Page 5

Originally posted by: Pramila.harish

Sorry rahul, as mother she failed big time. mother duty is not just feed children and it's her responsibility to make her every child independent and understand write or wrong. also she never care for children feeling. All she wants Is her feeling and children should behave according to her. so seeing good mother in her completely let down.

Coming to defending sona. .It is just to show gkb that she is good human being. she has such a power in one word she can stop gkb bad mouthing against sona. is it happened. . no..so why do you think she likes sona. may be before marriage she must have liked her. I swear she is bearing her just for Dev. she has no liking of even 1%, though her health has improved bcoz of her.

According to me she is not even good human being who is not even greatful to sona.

Originally posted by: rahulvats12

Can't say it's fear or not but he was surprised...actually he was not expecting her there...if u say he was scared,then everyone got scared there..that's why he paused even everyone...

It's not big issue we also sometimes when do such things and then suddenly any elder came there...we got shocked. To seem them suddenly and stops...it's sudden reaction of Dev and everyone...

Actually... U r talking about fear...then it's not that he fear from her...he respects her and that's why he feared to hurt his mother emotions

When happiness of a child(rens) hurts a mother's emotions...that is what defines fear.

I have not seen or heard of anyone who stops having fun with siblings because of their mother or father's presence, its not like having fun with a partner which gets awkward. Kids have special bond and comfort level with their parents. Usually in a similar situation, kids would pull parents too with them and enjoy together.

Originally posted by: rahulvats12

It's not about married...it's about when sona do anything which makes ishwari insecure or fear to lose his son...

She respect her when she is normal... Until she got insecure due to any reason..

And she didn't have problems with sona...anyone who she thinks that is trying to change dev or she thinks that dev will forget her Mom due to that particular person... She got insecure from that person but only for short time.

Once she get normal and confident that dev will not effect by that person... She doesn't have any problem..

She is not crazy... She is insecure and scared person who really need help but that help she.can only get by dev if dev will understand her problem... Maybe sona also

Well right now I see Dev himself needs help big time before he becomes capable of helping anyone else.

Just because Ishwari does not outright hate Sonakshi as GKB does or as MILs used to do in the 2000s era, does not mean that's good and a reason for us to emphathize with Ishwari. She is not the victim here. Feeling guilty over spoiling Sonakshi's plans for Dev does not make it okay for her to spoil their plans in the first place. I too don't think that Ishwari does what she does intentionally or she has actual malicious intentions towards Sona but to me that does not matter one bit. A woman, who has had so much life experience, who has raised 4 kids on her own, should not be so easily manipulated by others, she should be able to stop herself from invading the personal space of a newly married couple. Her insecurity is not an excuse for her behavior. So if you ask me what I think about Ishwari, I think she has serious issues that cannot be sorted till she admits it herself. In fact I think, the whole family, except Rhea, needs therapy.

Originally posted by: Kaajjal

Just because Ishwari does not outright hate Sonakshi as GKB does or as MILs used to do in the 2000s era, does not mean that's good and a reason for us to emphathize with Ishwari. She is not the victim here. Feeling guilty over spoiling Sonakshi's plans for Dev does not make it okay for her to spoil their plans in the first place. I too don't think that Ishwari does what she does intentionally or she has actual malicious intentions towards Sona but to me that does not matter one bit. A woman, who has had so much life experience, who has raised 4 kids on her own, should not be so easily manipulated by others, she should be able to stop herself from invading the personal space of a newly married couple. Her insecurity is not an excuse for her behavior. So if you ask me what I think about Ishwari, I think she has serious issues that cannot be sorted till she admits it herself. In fact I think, the whole family, except Rhea, needs therapy.

Hmm ishwari knows sona is good at heart

Originally posted by: rahulvats12

Why all family...😆

Originally posted by: Kaajjal

All family because Ishwari is messed up, Dev and mamaji are both spineless, GKB has all kinds of problems, Neha can't handle her relationships, Vicky has rapist vibes, the youngest daughter (forgot her name) does not understand the concept of personal space as we have seen multiple times. I think rhea is the only one who does not display abnormal tendency.

Originally posted by: baijubavra

Ha ha ha ! Dixit family is the complete psycho package ! Here is the extensive list of problems

Ishwari- narcissistic, insecure, manipulative, liar, fraud, possesive, seeks constant approval of being a good mother,

Dev - impulsive, possesive ( stalking ), liar, seeks constant approval of being a good son

GKB- criminal , low self esteem, greedy

NiKi- immature, greedy, selfish

Neha - low self esteem, unhappy, depressed

Mamajee - spineless, mocks wife in public, indecisive

Vicky- sexual predator, low self esteem, greedy, criminal

That was quite a profiling of the characters 😉😆

Originally posted by: rahulvats12

Am not here discussing about her mother role...

Am just saying the difference when she face problem and when she haven't any problems with sona...

She only dislikes sona when she feels insecure from her otherwise she haven't any problems...

And about being good human being... I don't think she is bad human...u can't ignore Ishwari when show released first time...people r hating only.because she is problem for devakshi and she only did that because of her insecurity...she doesn't have any personal problems with sona