Imperfect balance - Nov 11 - Page 6

Originally posted by: deepsel

I completely understood both Dev and Sona's silence maybe because I don't understand today's world of instant reaction of jumping the gun everywhere 😆 Relationships can't be maintained and build by screaming and shouting but putting across our points at the correct place and time without hurting the opposite party. May be am not a person who believes in taking eye for an eye😳

Originally posted by: Maya_Dutt

Great title as always and awesome analysis. Agree with you word by word.

I am also tied on time so can understand whem you say about not writing daily posts but yes we fans wait for your analysis just like we wait for krpkab. Your daily posts with positive light will be missed. Pls do try to make weekly posts atleast but no pressure as I know how it difficult can be to balance work, kids, home and some personal space as I also struggle the same way.

Originally posted by: raji91

lovely post dear

Originally posted by: cscs

Nice post as usual. This week's episodes have been amazing in every sense. Devakshi patch up was maturely handled and i am glad sona vented out whatever she wanted to. Also Dev was very calmly handling sona and the situation. It was so careless to roam around in the night.

Ishwari's concern was justified and no matter whatever people say anyone will be tensed learning that their kids are thrown out of the house late at night. I wonder if Ishwari would have done it then what would be the situation. And for a change she mentioned mere bachho ko bahar nikal diya for Devakshi two times. For Dev and Sona even i felt it was better to shut their mouths when elders are talking. Also Ishwari was not their at night so her concern was valid and she doesn't know that Devakshi had fun.

Dev- ishwari scene was nice and he actually shut her up for some time. If it works then we all are ready to send apple, oranges, grapes whatever she likes to keep her healthy with sealed mouth. 😆

And please don't stop posting your thoughts. Its okay if you don't make posts daily or even reply to everyone individually. But try and post whenever you get time.

Originally posted by: srilotus

Awesome post Deepa😃

Originally posted by: Agrata23

wow deepa excellent analysis as usual..but ur p.p.p.s broke my heart😭..pls try to post atleast weekly once dear..i always love to read ur analysis😊

Originally posted by: sjain

HUGS .

But you know if one follow this..that person in current times will look meek spineless..though I too belong to this generation..and I am one super impatient person and very short tempered ...yes ..and I am agreeing to this point LOL..coz this is what I have learnt from my mothr and how she balances by staying silent at right time at right place is what I have seen and gradually I understand ..and now seeing Dev Sona .. implementing it is even more convincing

And trust me following this theroy is the most difficult thing ever..LOL

Originally posted by: deepsel

You know what , you are one of the cutest member I have met in this forum😆 Aww thank you I have made like many many friends in 11 years on IF ..and now you are adeded in to that list <3 I won't lie if I say I made today's post after your dhamki ooppss *puppy face* sorry..woh dhamki type request thi hehe and cscs's puppy face inside saumiee's post😆 Will definitely miss your tantrums and discussions on daily basis dear... I mean it😳 toh dont go :(.. who will understnad my thoughts like you or Saumie do also where I will see such beautiful happy thoughts

I didn't write much about Sona's behavior in thursday's episode because I saw already so much was discussed and dissected in the forum. According to me, no doubt sona was being careless and insensitive after persistent Dev's requests but how I see this as her perfect opportunity to throw tantrums especially after knowing no matter what your husband is not going to leave your side Correct exactly ..she wasnt seriously angry she knew what she is doing and besides that she knew a person like Dev super overprotective wont even let a scratch on her😳 ..so basically Sona's immense trust on Dev to take care off is the reason for her carelessness😳, sometimes its ok to be childish when you are with a trusting person..I do it still 😛 Its too boring to be always matured and righteous and besides that they were near their house only so it wasnt so scary ...so I guess its sona's time to loosen up and Dev's to buckle up with maturity 😆 PURRFECT Thats what a mutual husband- wife understanding is all about😳 BALANCE is good ..and besides ..wives need pampering time to time..and being childish is wife's right 😉

I didn't mean Sona should have spoken about Neha or Ishwari at all, but she should have had a heart to heart talk about her feelings, her suffocation, her needs in detail instead of simply glossing over room color and bed space (Dev can never understand her fully if she keeps missing opportunities lie this) ok main kya samjh rahi hoon aapke POV se is that ..you want her to directly talk about her feelings instead of using light examples..but she did say how she felt by saying how she feels he hasnt included her in his life completely & other stuff.. she did laid down her feelings in front of him as carefully as possible..and room thing and bed space..they were more lighter topics ..she just said those because Dev was pestering her to speak and just to trouble him ( in fun way) LOL she made all that I am sure she would have not complained or even voiced all this kabhi seriously LOL .. I felt those are not so important issues to talk about after this much tantrums😆, I guess CVs wanted to keep it simple and light and it worked too😳 woh sab Dev ki taang kheechney ke liye tha..I mean bed par wife ko jagah na milna is no complaint ..or is it ??😉

Yes they are mature adults and have a car, what if the car stops without gas, or breaks down in middle with no battery left on Dev's mobile at 2 am?. What if 10 goons roam around and attack them? Can Dev thrash them like movie hero? Its dangerous dear.. Everybody can't be super optimistic like Bijoy papa here ..its quite normal for a human especially a mother to panic thinking the worst..we are forgetting that Ishwari couldn't contact Dev at all because of his dead mobile, thank God that she didn't knock Bijoy's door at 3 am itself but waited for morning to reach there😆. Thats why I could connect to Ishwari here😳 Oh yes these r the reasons to get worried no doubt..and I forgot to add in my post I guess ..but I myself wont take any chance with someone's safety coz I am raised in super protective environment LOL its not like I supprt roaming on streets at 2 AM..But with Dev Sona ..I never felt the need to protect them somehow..coz they r responsible individuals but if it had been Vicky Elena tab I would have given gaalis to Bijoy coz these 2 r extremely immature adults LOL..I have faith on them like Bijoy may be LOL..but I am sure being a mothr you can judge this situation better them me :)

Arey buddhu khaiki, clothes will be spoiled after the deed and both will be late to office🤣 thats why sona pushed him..didn't you hear the gutter dialog " office nai jaana kya?" from sona? 😆.toh cupbourd kis din kaam aayegi..us mein se doosrey nikal ke pehen saktey the na .. HAHA.. I hated bloody office more then Dev at that moment 😡 Uff ye meetings 😭 and I officially declare Sonakshi Dixit as most unromantic biwi on earth

I perfectly understand your frustration on Ishwari, so no need to apologize😊 Still..Its not liek I dont want to understand her I do but sometimes..things just go beyond and Cvs include her every where ..shich I feel sometimes can be avoided

I will try dear..surely try to post once a week whenever time permits😳

One a week..OK *walks away with sad dil* sighh

Originally posted by: deepsel

Thank you Sandya 🤗 The pleasure is always mutual !!

Who else would have figured out by hidden meaning of precap other than you👏 yes I meant its consequences😆 but never in million years I thought your analogy..Bravo girl !! I dont think even CVs invested this much time into the show and its meanings like some of you do😆 totally loved it and agree to every point you mentioned here.. Lets see how Dev reacts to this😉

@bold : Same feelings and situations dear..am not an ardent hindi serial watcher but with whatever I have seen so far, I believe KRPKAB is one of its class which I stumbled upon accidentally and very grateful for that😳

P.S: Just like I responded to sjain's comments, not every person is highly optimistic like Bijoy. Though people see me as very optimistic person in forum, am very pessimistic in real life when it comes to the safety of my family. I always tend to imagine accidents, plane crash , etc, etc when my husband travels or my kids go for scouting and camping. It doesn't matter whether they are 8 or 28 because I am still seeing my mother fretting for my brother and SIL like this😆. I know even though I sound unreasonable and crazy, thats what every protective mother thinks at heart..even after all these years I still call my parents and in-laws to inform about our safe arrival whenever we travel from one place to another not because we are obliged to do that but because we understand their anxiety. Here the situations are aligned in such a way that Ishwari (a very abnormal mother compared to us) is tend to panic especially when she couldn't reach her son on his mobile after hearing he was thrown out along with Sona. For a complicated person like Ishwari, who have seen the creepy secrets of nights in her past life, it is scary. Had Dev called her first thing after coming home about his well being, am sure Ishwari would have waited in her home itself and avoided these outbursts. Imagine a mother who was panicking whole night thinking the worst and runs to check upon him first thing in the morning only to find him happily feeding his MIL😆.

PPS: I agree the patience level in the forum is extremely slim😆 and am with you on CVs👍🏼

PPPS: Me too loved Sona's look today..she looked fresh and refreshing. Though am a little traditional i agree with what you said here, these symbolisms are just deception if your heart doesn't carry that genuine love and trust 😳