Imperfect balance - Nov 11 - Page 3

Originally posted by: sjain

Hi missed you yesterday..

Well Sona was enjoying a chasing Dev ..and with Dev around she was secure so I wont say she was careless their..I assume so ..Oh shucks I know its so bad ..patch up ka koi fayeda nahi hua HAHA 😉..But brought the cutest morning wakeup call for devakshi .aww those kids were adorable <3 yeah thats like now proved ..Nothing good can happen inside Dixit mansion..coz some utter idiots live their sighh to ruin Dev Sona's life LOL

I believe outsider issue was the basis of everything ..first she needs to be considered as part of family house his wife..then only they can go to next level and discuss Neha or other issues and its good that Sona conveyed it to him..now atleast he knows where he has been wrong all this while..though unintentionally he did it but now he will be more careful towards her feelings :)

oh that dining table scene ❤️ thats called a mothr son bond ..truley caring loving who can say seeing them taht they are MIL SIL..so much warmth and apnapan.. and Bijoy Dev scene how he says "toh ab so jao " such a pampering fathr he is ..Dev deserves it completely..He is treated like son here which is best part unlike typical DAMAAD or just robot who is forced to work according to its owner Ishwari 😛 he was on a place with no boundaries unlike his own house which has millions of ifs and buts..where Bose house is "HOME" Ishwari niwas is "HOUSE"..the stark contrast

Now Asha worrying part yes her worry was fine..but I dont understand one thing..they are adults..mature ..them being out together late night with car ..shouldnt be such a big issue ..or should it be ??..thats my peersonal view ..but thats purely because Dev and Sona can take care of themselves..

Oh Asha's reaction seen kids happy relaxed her and she even expressed it on dining table 😊

Loved how the CVs showed where mother's real happiness lies with Asha's statement just to the contrary of fuming Ishwari 👏

yes so true ..such contrast..between 2 ladies Asha and Ishwari..


Well expecting anything else from Ishwari is absurdness HAHA..but I swear I wont lie she boiled my blood from last 2 episodes atleast ..I was seething with anger ..none of hr actions I can justify..but yes all I can say is ..at then end of the day expecting anything sensible from her is my foolishness..so yeah and I am sure she will anger me more in Monday's episode..I wonder how such a understating- Ish-part-in-me is completely gone :( sighh all I shout whole watching her is GROW UP LADY GROW UP ..LOL


Dev aapka DAMAAD hai

MAINE MERE bete ko badi naazon se pala hai

MERE Dev ne kabhi sadkon par ratein nahi bitayi


*and she slips back to bachpan ki musibatein*

By god badi kamaal ki aurat hai ye..ghoom phir ke bachpan struggle gareebee par aahi jati hai 👏..iski toh tareef karoongi main LMAO

Her running to his in laws house to take his son who is bloody 28 year old who can manage his life very well with his 26 year old wife..how can it be justified :( .

But main phir bhool gayi ye Ishwari hai :( reh reh kar yaad aat hai :(

Trust Sonakshi's parents why would they want to put Dev in any trouble or danger..when Bijoy can trust Dev blindly for his daughter then why cant Ishwari trust her PARENTS ( forget sona) with Dev..they will do their best for Dev .. not because he is their damaad..but because he is their son.,they love him just like Son they treat him as casually as they can ( yes obviously they wont insult or hurt him)

Ishwari seeing Dev feeding Asha talking way too comfortably with her ..she saw Dev coming here with his boriya bistara and shifting here permanently🥱..such an extreme thinking and most BOMB moment..Dev addressing Asha as "MOTHR" oh ...by god Ishwari ki andar jo aag lagi ..poora fire brigade department bhi aakar nahi bujha sakta tha LMAO

Yes BIjoy's on point replies were awesome..he never hesitated for a moment..I am glad Dev Sona didnt say anything ..I agree He didnt inform..was wrong..but also they knew either of them speaking specially Dev would have further ruined the situation..and they could see already super miffed Ishwari ..arey thoda kaan mein se dhuaan bhi nikal raha tha Ishwari ke HAHA

so anything spoken against (or) for on that instance would be like pouring oil to the fire😳. Everything has a place and time and this is not the place for Dev or Sona to question back Ishwari. Words fallen cannot be picked, just because Ishwari was being insensitive to Boses , they cannot speak the same language of hurt to her. Loved how Dev's single "Maa" managed to stop her.

CORRECT ..👏

Yes car scene was re created but obviously with different equation now..their eye to eye understanding is far more important then ..mujhe-aagey-wali-seat-chahiye game..yes kahin bhi baitho comfort and equation hona chahiye ❤️


Also people should understand , no matter how wrong they are, Dev cannot scream at his elders be it Ishu, GKB, mamaji including Baba, Asha and Daadi , so we expecting Dev's outburst to Ranveer for insulting Sona against GKB is surreal


WORD..aap kaise likhti ho mere thoughts ( infact saumie also do it ) and u too oh..can u both peep in my mind HEHE😛

HAHA feeding Ishwari ..I for once thought please dont pamper her so much ..both Dev and Sona..Ishwari bigad gayi hai LMAOO..let her sulk for a while and she will be fine..I feel too much persuasion is also not good..how will she ever come in terms with things..thoda chodna bhi kabhi kabhi bura nahi hai 😊


sometimes I feel so bad for this guy, he is really trying to keep both of them happy😳)

I too ..but kabhi kabhi gussa bhi aata hai ..

arey kapde jaye tel lene ..sachhi ..Sonakshi Dixit se meri ye bohot badi complaint hai,,akeley ghar ka fayeda nahi uthaya ..akeley kamere ka nahi uthaya..toh kis cheez ka fayeda uthne mein she believes ??..hain??🤔..laloo ladki


My deepest regrets to the new bakra to Ishwari Nivas😆 - Ria's better half !

Arey pehhley aaney toh do ..BWHAHA

Chillax people..this is just a "FICTIONAL SHOW" 😆 Enjoy and have fun , don't pressurerize yourself looking for logics😆

Truth..👍🏼..par dil emotions samjhta hai isliye we get stuck sighh

Ok its high time I stop playing hide and seek with my buddies here with my posts..I know many will be disappointed but am very sorry friends, I can't continue with the daily posts due to the hectic schedules am facing. More than posts it will be awful if I can't respond to everyone, so its better I stop posting😆

Broke my heart..mat karo aisa..ho sake toh..I cant force you ..but can just request you..


PS- sorry I was rude thoda while writing as I was so angry on Ish..cant help it :( ooppss

Originally posted by: sandyaramesh

As always, a pleasure reading your analysis!

From Roadside coffee and tea shops to Mataji's insecurities you nailed it, Deepa! Thank you for always taking the time from your busy schedule to entertain and enlighten us :D

Today, I would like to get ahead and talk about "the Swing".

I could be totally proven wrong next week but hey! there's no harm in analyzing what you think the arrival of "the swing" means and the consequences of its arrival..right? 😆

To me "The Swing" is Symbolic of Sona and her life.

When the Swing arrives (in precap), Sona tells ISh and GKB that she has dreamt of a swing in her room since childhood, just like she dreamt of her love story. Sona's dreams have become a reality; in the sense, she has aquired what she dreamt of but are they really hers (both Swing and Dev) is the question and more importantly will they (Swing and Sona) fit in?

ISH and GKB clearly have objection to it. And they will undoubtedly see the arrival of the swing as Sona taking control of Dev's room. They will surely object to its presence in the room giving various excuses just the way they do to Sona;s presence in Dev's life.

From the spoiler pics, I can see the swing is beautifully decorated. It is bright, pretty and instantly lifts the appearance of the room but it also appears to be misplaced or rather in the way. Just the way Sona is in Dixit household; she is pretty, vibrant and colourful but right now is misplaced in Dixit family coz she cannot understand nor can she relate to the ways of Dixit household.

This is where Dev will play the biggest role. How he will make the Swing work by working with its placement will be interesting to see and I am hoping to see him make it work...coz if Dev loves Sona as much as he claims he does, he needs to help Sona become a part of his family and not just him within the four walls of his room.

Today, I would like to give a huge standing ovation to KRPKAB writers. 👏 👏 👏

I am not a regular Indian tele watcher. I have just two other shows to my entire repertoire of Hindi shows as a viewer. But the CVs of KRPKAB made me sit up and appreciate that Indian tele has indeed evolved. I am so glad I found this, even though it was by sheer accident.

P.S - I loved the way Dadi was used as the voice of reason for Ishwari's rant. I call it rant because she had every right to be upset but to speak that way to your son's in laws is not something most of us consider cultured. After all Bose family daughter was out with her son and they are nor idiots to endanger their daughter's life. And what makes her assume that Dev and Sona did not spend the night at a hotel? But this is ISh we are talking about, the way who wants to tie her son to her pallu. UFF!

P.P.S - Why are some forum wasis in such a hurry for Sona and Dev to fight Ishwari's insecurities? To take a stance? Be the strong individuals and not a strong family? Don't they realize that the story will end, once that problem is taken up in its entirety? The CVs of this show are clearly not stupid, IMO.

PPPS - Loved Sona's look today in that teasing scene. I mean where is the need to wear the bright sindoor and magalsutr out? That look was weighing her down and hence I liked her this way (i maybe in the minority) but isn't love is in your heart and less so in the ritualistic symbols?.

Originally posted by: siddhi.d123

Hey again an amazing analysis 😃 Please continue with your post weekly or mid-weekly coz your posts are like rays of sunshine in this darkness 😃 It's high time both Sona and Dev realise this insecurities that's why I want the prenup track open fast.Devakshi understanding has increased but then too I felt Sona didn't talk about the main issue or she is reserving her anger go some other day 😆 .I am not really worried about Sona's character I don't at all think she is a doormat but a smart lady she knows when to speak and when to not.But Dev needs a lot of reality check so Sona keep on going to the maayka and let your hybby follow u 😆

Originally posted by: sona_naksh

You are one extreme optimist my dear 😆

Originally posted by: Sumuki

Bang on! Dev knows where to speak and whom to shout! If he talks back then there will be a lot of issues so he played the silent card!

Originally posted by: deepsel

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<font size="2" color="#ff0000">Thank you😊I will try my best dear whenever time permits😳I guess prenup will be the last straw CVs take to test their relationship before closing the serial, so more the delay I will be happy😆Yes you are right Sona haven't disclosed her problems fully, I feel CVs are handling it in installments to move the story gradually😉Its a sad state of today's world to think a woman as doormat when she wish to maintain silence in explosive situations and handle later, so yes I don't think either Sona as doormat or Dev as spineless😳but I like your idea of Sona gng to maiyka, so we get many light hearted episodes like this week😆</font>

Originally posted by: randomramblings

bijoy was right dono 5th standard ke bacche hai. sona ghar nahi jana chahti, fine, lekin after patchup dono dev ki office ko jaasakthe!! how conveniently both forget that the have a place to go other than home /hotel.

😆 Agree maybe Dev didn't have the key to his office or they wanted to enjoy fresh Delhi air or maybe sleeping on the middle of the road outside a tea stall is one of Sona's dreams as well which got fulfilled 😆

Asha is a gem of a mother. she is always there when needed without making her presence left.

Agree, one character who always made sense in this serial in all circumstances😳


Ishwari suffers from selective amnesia, dev ke neeche 500 log kaam karthe hai aur uska apna intna bada office hain, lekin maataji ko yeh yaad nahi rahiti, ke dev ko sadak pe raath gujarne ki jaroorath hi nahi hain. agree that she can be pissed off with bijoy for sending dev out of the house at wee hrs, but dev not returning to his own house or calling her up is Dev's choice and the wrath towards bijoy is unwarranted.

I understood your point but I don't think Ishwari held Bijoy accountable for Dev not calling her. Infact she straight shooted the questions to only Dev when Asha came to his rescue before Dev could respond, followed by Bijoy.

I can understand to a certain extent on both sona and dev remaining silent to Ishwari's rant at Boses house, but that does not mean they need to feel guilty.

I was not happy the way sona immediately went to pack her things, or dev remaining silent.
staying silent can be understood, but no rectification made - cannot be accepted. what I mean is sona could have invited Ishwari for breakfast or alternately Dev could have spoken to asha and said, maa ab hum nikalte hain, lekin eh breakfast udhar raha.. some thing on these lines, would have diffused the situation much better than making the boses feel like they have done a CRIME.

Even if they are not feeling guilty they definitely felt responsible for making Ishwari come all the way there panicking because they didn't contact or inform about their well being after knowing Ishwari knew they were thrown out on the streets. I am not saying they should feel responsible but merely understanding their actions😳 I see sona's reaction as merely a way to diffuse the tension by getting ready back home after seeing visibly angry Ishwari, however I agree Dev could have been given some dialogs to Bose family (who knows, it was left to viewers imagination😉, because we saw them getting blessings from happy smiling Bose family, so I guess all is well there 😆)

I agree, Dev need not Scream on mamiji, but at the same time could have subtly said, maami aap bhool rahe hai ki mera ek office bhi aur mujh pe maa ke alawa koi aur hukum nahi chala sakta.

by this he could have hinted that he was not on SADAK but at his homeground where he held more weight, and also emphasized the fact that his mother is still the only one who weilds control on him :-)

If thats the case Dev should have told this long back, but I feel he will never do this especially after knowing the level of gratitude they have for Mamaji's family. Even if Dev have asserted his rights, we know what drama will GKB create, maybe even about leaving the house and staying in road because she was insulted which will inturn lead to Ishwari's chula and FB melodrama which in turn leads to Devakshi fights, etc etc..uff...no baba am happy he was calm😆 Its always better to avoid throwing stones in gutter unless you are ready to clean the entire gutter😉


totally agree, its a fictional show, so jo milta hai wahi se kush hote hain.

Sahi pakade aap 😆

Originally posted by: siddhi.d123

I think the prenup and infertility track will come out together and early because they are very much needed for other phase of the story. 😊

Originally posted by: krystle123

amazing post di 👏👏👏

but reconsider ur decision , please. atleast try to post weekly once. we will really miss ur post.😭