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So as the precap was over at the ?????
I would like to ask u all if this kind of situation was given to u all in ur life what would u do??

I know wife's right place is next to her husband...
But when it comes to giving front seat to someone why is it always considered as a question of respect?

I mean if a son is traveling with his parents n I think all u would agree with me that son n father will sit on front seats n Mother n wife at back.but when it comes it son,mom n wife,what should b done as shown in precap...
If wife sits at back,does that mean wife's place is always after parents..If yes,then same should be done with husbands too.I mean for a daughter too,her parents should come first then husband n then anyone else..then a damaad should always sit at back when a daughter is traveling with her parents..m I right?
Coz if u question this to someone..m sure they'll say it's just a way of giving respect..
My question is if damaad is at his sauraal n he should b given the least priority as well.
Bijoy n Asha gave their daamad their room but when Nikki slept in Dev's room.sonakshi was made to sleep in study not in Ishwari or anyone else's room.y???????!!
I Dnt understand this discrimination at all..
Respect has to b same for all..
It's a contradictory post ..I know but I personally had been through this..that's y asking u all..

How it was or should be ... at different stages it is different... There is no said rule per say...

Ek car ke seat par baithne ke liye itna issue 😆 Ishwari sachi main mental ho rahi Hain .2 cars Hain phir but itni problem best option is Sona should her self drive second car , and tell dev jau ma ko lekar , main aati dusri car se😆

As I have till now doesn't come across this kind of situation, but I still feel what is wrong in sitting at the back when your husband is travelling.
Its a matter of simple sitting to reach the destiny. That's it. From where the respect comes here. I don't get it. May be I am wrong too still wanna know what's a big deal if you allow the mother to have a seat beside her son.


Bijoy n Asha gave their daamad their room but when Nikki slept in Dev's room.sonakshi was made to sleep in study not in Ishwari or anyone else's room.y???????!!I Dnt understand this discrimination at all..Respect has to b same for all..Agree on this issue

Who sits in the front car seat is a trivial issue, bigger problem is that Ishwari sees each situation like this as a test for Dev's love and devotion for his mother vs Dev's love for his wife. Ish is in a non-stop competition with Sona and she rakes even such small matters so seriously.

Well i let my mom and mother in law sit in the front seat when my husband is driving - here it is just because front seat is more comfortable for them.

I personally don't care unless i have some medical problem like backpain etc...so in my family it is more about comfort rather than about respect.

we have sat in all combinations
1. me and husband in from , FIL and MIL in the back
2. if i am driving then my husband has to sit in front due to leg room issue
3. Husband, MIL in front . me and FIL in the back
4. husband and FIL in front . me and MIL in back
5. husband and my mom in the front, me in the back
6. husband driving no one in passenger seat, me and my son in the back



PS: so in this case ishwari is again playing the game of - dev kiska jyada hai alone... Sona doesnt even give a damn about who sits in the front.

Originally posted by: Rhy2015

So as the precap was over at the ?????
I would like to ask u all if this kind of situation was given to u all in ur life what would u do??

I know wife's right place is next to her husband...
But when it comes to giving front seat to someone why is it always considered as a question of respect?

I mean if a son is traveling with his parents n I think all u would agree with me that son n father will sit on front seats n Mother n wife at back.but when it comes it son,mom n wife,what should b done as shown in precap...
If wife sits at back,does that mean wife's place is always after parents..If yes,then same should be done with husbands too.I mean for a daughter too,her parents should come first then husband n then anyone else..then a damaad should always sit at back when a daughter is traveling with her parents..m I right?
Coz if u question this to someone..m sure they'll say it's just a way of giving respect..
My question is if damaad is at his sauraal n he should b given the least priority as well.
Bijoy n Asha gave their daamad their room but when Nikki slept in Dev's room.sonakshi was made to sleep in study not in Ishwari or anyone else's room.y???????!!
I Dnt understand this discrimination at all..
Respect has to b same for all..
It's a contradictory post ..I know but I personally had been through this..that's y asking u all..

Originally posted by: .kashishbano.

As I have till now doesn't come across this kind of situation, but I still feel what is wrong in sitting at the back when your husband is travelling.
Its a matter of simple sitting to reach the destiny. That's it. From where the respect comes here. I don't get it. May be I am wrong too still wanna know what's a big deal if you allow the mother to have a seat beside her son.


Bijoy n Asha gave their daamad their room but when Nikki slept in Dev's room.sonakshi was made to sleep in study not in Ishwari or anyone else's room.y???????!!I Dnt understand this discrimination at all..Respect has to b same for all..Agree on this issue

Because I was in same situation..I never thought it's a matter of respect coz for me it just a seat n someone has to sit there..but then came to know n been told elders should sit in front not bcoz of health issues but its a way of showing Respect.

I guess respect is earned and not claimed as a birthright.

Well their is no rule ..But usually how we see..is that automatically wife starts siting in front..but Its not something which increases or decreases your importance or place in a man's life and its definitely not question of pride as well..but in Ish's case ..Its shown important just to signify..where these 2 ladies stand in his life..its just way of conveying their equation..Usually a mohtr makes space for a new girl in her son's life by small gestures..and ( this could be one of them) how seamlessly you step down to let that girl stand up..its a very smooth and understanding process..Ishwari Sona's case is obviously different so ..what role Ishwari should be playing Sona plays

and With Damaad too..they did made space for Dev just to make him comfortable..Infact Boses are the most casual and happy go lucky kind In laws LOL..They comfortably kicked him out too when he was annoying his sasur ji LMAOO HAHA

Well rightfully Sona should sit yes I am saying so coz of what I explained above ..but I am sure Sona will step back to let Ishwari sit :)

My personal experience ..when ever my family used to travel my grandparents used to sit behind where as my parents always in front..so ye males in front and females in back wala funda nahi tha LOL

Thats just my POV <3