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Originally posted by: randommusings

Who sits in the front car seat is a trivial issue, bigger problem is that Ishwari sees each situation like this as a test for Dev's love and devotion for his mother vs Dev's love for his wife. Ish is in a non-stop competition with Sona and she rakes even such small matters so seriously.

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

Thank you for this interesting topic. After a long time, i am thinking about ishwari's character since from long time i am completely ignoring her & her actions in the show for my own sanity. I respect her for the struggles she went through to bring up her kids in her difficult times but even after being a mother, i can never understand or connect or sympathize with her or her actions towards her kids. For me, she failed utterly as a parent and as a mother & a perfect guide book to know how a mother should not be.

Honestly speaking, if you consider a healthy family in terms of emotional relations for ex. like bose then sitting in the front seat next to dev or in the back seat doesn't matter at all. These are very petty and silly issues which we would have never considered in case of a normal family. I am sure for Sona also it doesn't matter whether she sits in the front seat or back seat because that's not going to change her place in Dev's life or Dev's love for her BUT here we are talking about ISHWARI whose insecurities are as big as a mountain & as deep as an ocean.

For Ishwari when it comes to Dev, everything is a competition and a test to Dev to prove his Love and devotion towards her. She never allowed his sisters also to reach him beyond a defined point by her. Esp when it comes to Sona, She is afraid of her impact on Dev which threatens her control on Dev directly.

Here the main issue is, Even though we all can see it as a clear obsession(for makers its just her insecurity) towards Dev and as a bigger problem where she clearly needs some help. What i understood is, Makers are not ready to address this PROBLEM as a PROBLEM and the most annoying thing is the way these people are justifying her abnormal behavior with some stupid explanations or never ending flash backs.

If we consider her pills drama, Its such an emotional blackmailing from a mother to a son which will leave permanent scars in his subconscious mind. They justified this case by making her say "I am a bad mother since i am not able to be happy with my son's happiness" and by pushing dev in to guilt mode.

If we consider Ritwik case, it clearly shows her manipulations to remove Sona completely from Dev's life. Its a wonderful chance to show Dev her human side, The way she sent that proposal, paying that agent secretly and hiding everything from Dev. The day he confronted his mother, We clearly saw from his expressions how hurt he was with her actions but in the next episode there is no affect of this scene and no thought process or realization, everything is back to square one.

Till the pills drama i was eagerly waiting to see how they are going to show her flawed human side to Dev. But after seeing the way they handled Ishwari-Dev confrontation scene in Ritwik case, I understood that these people dont have any plan to shed her holy mask. To resolve any problem first we need to address that as a problem which is clearly missing in Ishwari's case.

Originally posted by: siddhi.d123

I too feel they have messed up Ishwari's character to a large extent I am confused as to what the Cv's are trying to potray here because it's clearly not insecurity it's obsession and she needs help.Ishwari always gets her way by emotional torture on her son which is horrible and seriously the flashbacks are not working anymore.The makers have constantly told that Ishu is not a negative character but they are very well aware of the audiences reaction towards her and she seems to be hitting new low in every episode.I am yet to see any hope in Ishwari.

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

If a maker or writer is justifying by saying that viewers are misunderstanding their character then that itself is a big failure for them wrt to story execution and presentation. Writer should never justify this infact viewer should feel this.😊

Originally posted by: Rhy2015

So as the precap was over at the ?????
I would like to ask u all if this kind of situation was given to u all in ur life what would u do??

I know wife's right place is next to her husband...
But when it comes to giving front seat to someone why is it always considered as a question of respect?



I mean if a son is traveling with his parents n I think all u would agree with me that son n father will sit on front seats n Mother n wife at back.but when it comes it son,mom n wife,what should b done as shown in precap...
If wife sits at back,does that mean wife's place is always after parents..If yes,then same should be done with husbands too.I mean for a daughter too,her parents should come first then husband n then anyone else..then a damaad should always sit at back when a daughter is traveling with her parents..m I right?
Coz if u question this to someone..m sure they'll say it's just a way of giving respect..
My question is if damaad is at his sauraal n he should b given the least priority as well.
Bijoy n Asha gave their daamad their room but when Nikki slept in Dev's room.sonakshi was made to sleep in study not in Ishwari or anyone else's room.y???????!!
I Dnt understand this discrimination at all..
Respect has to b same for all..
It's a contradictory post ..I know but I personally had been through this..that's y asking u all..