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Posted: 8 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen
Mostly agree. There is a minor point though. Saurabh's job situation isn't affecting devakshi. Sona stayed out of Neha's business till Dev himself said he needed to be there for his sister. The issue is sona is so full on when it comes to giving. Remind yourself what she did when nikki wanted that sleepover.
Knowing the Boses they will never upfront tell Dev. Even then Asha brought it up with Bijoy.

The trouble in Neha's case is sona always felt Ishwari and Dev were missing the point. And mamaji has now confirmed her doubts. I still don't know if she should stay out of it or not

I feel she has done her bit and its time she steps back . I dont think she can do anything more .Whether she is right or wrong only time will tell .It depends on how CVs want end Ranveer Neha track.Sometimes too much giving can be suffocating too .

That's the problem ..why are Bose hesitating to tell Dev . He is part of their family now just like how Sona is part of Dixit family .If DIL can be daughter then SIL can be son to his in laws too

ts not about whether Saurabh issue effect them but its more about how much you trust your husband with your family problems and its a way to make him feel part of Bose family .

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Posted: 8 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: NBT-BV
There are certain things which hit the self of a person / family. Sona discussing saurabhs situation may lead to a misunderstanding that she is asking for financial help for her family.

Interesting point .

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rajalakshmi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#23

nice post...
but I hope may be cv's have some plan abt that... if I m wrong sry ignore me...

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LiveLife321

@LiveLife321

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Posted: 8 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: yyy

I got your point yaar. Its simple dear. The way how Dev can't be perfect or right always in the same way Sona also can't be perfect or right all the time. They are beautiful yet flawed characters just like you and me. When we are allowed to make mistakes then why not them? The thing is, We should stop paint them as perfect and accept them the way they are with their own set of flaws then only we can enjoy their journey with a smile.😊

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thedramaqueen

@thedramaqueen

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Posted: 8 years ago

#25

yyy - That is the point here.. You and I and Ishawari and Dev might feel she has done enough.. the character of Sona doesnt think she has done enough. This is where her problem lies. She isnt able to let go because she feels it will cause more harm. And neither Dev, Ishwari, Neha, Ranvir and his bhabhi have had a discussion at all. In fact the only person who discussed was mamaji who actually made her more concerned.

Boses are hesitating to tell Dev because they were made to feel Sona was marrying Dev for money. They were made to feel small and Bijoy has a (somewhat skewed) sense of self respect. I am hoping in days to come those barriers will break. Not easy to bring those walls down

Sona cannot trust her husband to NOT throw obnoxious amount of money at the saurabh problem. They dont need his $$$.. they just need a decent cheque which she has facilitated. Dev's brut force style of solving this problem will only make it worse with Bijoy

Now there are two ways of looking at this.

1. She is wrong to not discuss with her husband

2. She isnt finding the right moment

I think its the latter, you probably think its the former

Originally posted by: yyy

I feel she has done her bit and its time she steps back . I dont think she can do anything more .Whether she is right or wrong only time will tell .It depends on how CVs want end Ranveer Neha track.Sometimes too much giving can be suffocating too .

That's the problem ..why are Bose hesitating to tell Dev . He is part of their family now just like how Sona is part of Dixit family .If DIL can be daughter then SIL can be son to his in laws too

ts not about whether Saurabh issue effect them but its more about how much you trust your husband with your family problems and its a way to make him feel part of Bose family .

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Posted: 8 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

I got your point yaar. Its simple dear. The way how Dev can't be perfect or right always in the same way Sona also can't be perfect or right all the time. They are beautiful yet flawed characters just like you and me. When we are allowed to make mistakes then why not them? The thing is, We should stop paint them as perfect and accept them the way they are with their own set of flaws then only we can enjoy their journey with a smile.😊

I never look for perfect characters .There are two imperfect people who make a perfect couple .As long as I get balanced episode I have nothing to complain but I guess there is no harm in discussing about their flaws 😳

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Posted: 8 years ago

#27

@thedramaqueen

Just like Bose family Dixit family have their own reasons for not discussing Neha's issue with her .It takes time for families to accept DIL /SIL and be comfortable sharing their problems with them as they have the fear of being judged .

I would like to wait and see if Sona discusses about her new business plan with her husband .She has the freedom to help her brother similarly she should give the same freedom to her husband .

Edited by yyyy - 8 years ago

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lavanya

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Dazzler

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Posted: 8 years ago

#28

This thought actually has been on my mind since the day Sona handed over the cheque to Elena. Ideally husband and wife should share information if not request each others help to sort out issues in their respective families.

when Sona came to know about Saurabhs problem (the scooty ride day), she tried to say i wouldnt be joining the job so early agar ... But she chose not to tell dev as he was already super disturbed with Neha's problem.

Thing is both Dev and Sona are not sharing all their thoughts - Dev didnt telll sona that he is going to offer the flat to ranveer and sona didnt tell Dev that she gave money to her dad. I am sure neither of them would have any issue with this but they didnt do it.. So hoping they both start talking even minute irrelavant things in future... it happens ... no couple would be ideal on day 1... they learn gradually ..up until now they have been living independent lives ... now they are a couple... so the transition has to happen gradually...they will fall several times and learn

One more reason i feel sona is not telling dev is because she knows how Dev is ... The moment she tells him he will just go and dump money on saurabh and be happy that problem is solved. ... so she needs to make sure it is done right... with support not by dumping money...

Hoping sona will tell all about her business plans to Dev soon... and why do i feel this is going to be a big success...

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LiveLife321

@LiveLife321

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Posted: 8 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: yyy

I never look for perfect time characters nor expect.There are two imperfect people who make a perfect couple .As long as I get balanced episode I have nothing to complain but I guess there is no harm in discussing about their flaws 😳

I said it in general yaar. Pls Dont be offended. I respect everyone's pov's till they respect others and would love to be a part of healthy discussions any time. Thats the reason why i am in your post.😊

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thedramaqueen

@thedramaqueen

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Posted: 8 years ago

#30

Now that she is planning to raise money and run a business with her brother, I agree, she should run it past her husband. I think she wont, there will be a huge syapa...

The issue with Neha is, yyy, Dev and Sona live in that house. Till the point Boses had an issue which didnt affect Sona directly, I could see Sona's point of view. Neha's issue affected devakshi directly. Their honeymoon was cancelled.

Originally posted by: yyy
@thedramaqueen
Just like Bose family Dixit family have their own reasons for not discussing Neha's issue with her .It takes time for families to accept DIL /SIL and be comfortable sharing their problems with them as they have the fear of being judged .

I would like to wait and see if Sona discusses about her new business plan with her husband .She has the freedom to help her brother similarly she should give the same freedom to her husband .

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