Practice what you preach - Page 2

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

Great post and good point of discussion yaar. Dev & Sona both are right at their places.

Thank you and your post is bang on 👏👏.

When Dev compared his break-up state with Ranveer, he was actually true that even though he left Sona for his mother, Its not that he erased her from his life, he was dying million deaths each second and it was very visible for others which he was not able to see in Ranveer. When Sona jumped in to new relation with Ritwik, Its not that her love for Dev ended, she was fighting with her own-self and wanted to show that if Dev can remove her from his life just like that then she also can move on from this relation just like that. Both of them failed miserably thats when they understood just by saying break-up & move-on their love for each other wont end.

Agree very valid point .Somewhere Dev is looking for similar reaction from Ranveer and he is actually expecting Ranveer to react the way he did..Since he cannot find any such reaction from him he is not convinced about Ranveer's love for Neha .

Ranveer is reacting just like Sona .He is hurt and wants to show Neha that he is unaffected by this divorce and is ready to move on .That might be the reason Sona is able to understand Ranveer better .In Ranveer Neha's case the "move on" drama is backfiring ,Neha has started to believe he is unaffected by her absence but in Devakshi's case Dev never believed for a second that Sonakshi could love anyone other than him .

In dining table scene , Neha was upset when she was how her brother was ready to go any lengths to bring his wife back .She expects the same kind of stubbornness from Ranveer

Even in Sona-Neha convo, i think Sona saw her self in Neha when Neha keep on saying R doesn't love me. I feel this is the exact reason why Sona is not able to stay away from this mess even after listening "Stay away from Neha case" repeatedly from Dev & Ishwari. The path what N-R want to choose is already traveled by D-S, She very well know that other than pain & dying million deaths every sec there is nothing in that journey. She is seeing these 2 stupidly choosing that same path which she can never even wish for her enemy, here these 2 are family. How can she sit silently unaffected? BUT she should know when to take a step back and let it go and shouldn't force herself and her opinion in the family matters when it is not welcomed by others.

Well said !! Agree with you

Coming to Saurabh's case, She was about to say that in their coffee date scene. I think she dont want to increase his stress when she shows that she can handle it and also since he is already disturbed with Neha's case. When i can understand Dev's action of hiding her reports from her then i can understand her action as well in this case. Both wants to shield the other from more pain.

Maybe her intention is right but it can send a wrong message to Dev considering the current situation where he is accused of treating her as an outsider .

I believe Dev would not be effected so much by Saurabh's job condition.That's his domain and he is the master .Saurabh is unhappy to work for someone and somewhere he wants to start a new business but he is scared to venture again .Seeing this i feel Saurabh needs someone like Dev who can share some tips and boast his confidence .

At the same time, it really annoys me when ever Sona says "You should have discussed with me before taking this decision" to Dev. This dialogue of her always gives me Ishwari vibes. When Sona thinks that she is an independent woman who had every right to take her decisions(even though it should be their decision) then she also needs to accept that Dev holds the same right.

Absolutely .

Dev is not any HERO and Sona is not any SAINT, So i was never surprised with their actions. As Dev said, Sona need to come out from her fairy tale land ASAP if she wants to handle this mad dixit clan. A person's basic characteristics wont change over night just by falling in love with someone.

Well said .👏

Originally posted by: diyah_us

actually I have a slightly different take on this. yes I agree that sona need not

interfere in every matter of devs family. if she is asked to help then only she should

give suggestion, otherwise she should keep to herself. bcos she is still very new into

devs family and by now she should hav understood that her interference is not welcome.

also I don't think that sona needs to tell about sourabh to dev bcos in reality husband

& wife do not always share everything about their siblings with their spouses. and its ok.

as long as they are open to each other about their own issues, then there is no problems.

in fact in reality even years after marriage many husband & wife do not interfere in their spouses

siblings matters.

Originally posted by: Sruji1

sona is an independent girl she don't need to ask permission for any one to given check to her family but yes i agree that she should have informed to Dev about sourav but again maybe she thinks Dev is already stressed about neha so she don't want to make him more stressed.i can give her benefit of doubt. though it will bite her later when Dev knows about it. but my problem is she don't think ranveer is wrong at all. he insulted her,Dev and her family just becaus she went to his House. she knows she was not wrong there after that he filed a case against neha. it was really big thing filing a criminal case. once sona didn't say that ranveer was wrong.he shouldn't do that to neha. don't know what happened between neha ranveer If neha actually harassed or not but i think at least one time sona should acknowledge ranveer wrong doings. did sona think neha actually harassed ranveer so ranveer is not wrong to file case against neha. i didn't understand sona mind set regarding mental harrassement case. i would like to know what people thinking about why sona is not concerned about this Case thing. yeah soch soch ke meta dimaak kharab hogaya 😆

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Nice post. Agree with you. Sonakshi never shared her family's issues with Dev. I wonder what could be the reason. As for Dev,he kept her in dark regarding infertility issue. Neha's matter is out in the open and hence Sona is aware of it.

I agree Sona should not interfere too much in Neha's divorce.

At the same time I don't like Dev asking Sona to stay away.

He can listen and then ultimately he and Neha are the decision makers.

I also dislike Dev running after Sona to her house.

If she went to celebrate Bhai Duj he should not over react.Man of extremes.

Sorry I am not a fan of either the FL or both.

I just watch the show for Shaheer.

Originally posted by: sona_naksh

A very good point put across ..

I agree wid it to some extent but not completely ...although i feel dis is a big issue and dev shud b informed ..

Sona needs to know everything coz she stays dere but doesnt stay in bose house so dey both can never have equal involvement in each other's family ...

I really want dev n sona to discuss dis sharing matter at least now ..n i hope wen dey do saurabh shud also b discussed