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WeRockTheWorld

@WeRockTheWorld

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Posted: 9 years ago

The below post was initially written as a response to another post "ANY GUESSES" ( What was Dev thinking post his mom's gyan because he couldnt go to temple with her ). @Cspcheziyan requested me to create a new post. Hence copy pasted it here.

I have a slightly different take on this scene. After what Ishwari said , Dev was sad and lost. Changes are not something that he likes. His mom said that since he is married now he has to take care of Sona and that she needed him, hence some things will have to change...Ishwari then goes on to say that she as his mother needs to understand this...(here its brownie points for Ishwari )...by stating that statement, she made it clear that she is sacrificing her time with her son so that Sona can spend time with Dev. And she is willing to share Dev's affection .

( Point to be noted him choosing to be with Sona and not with Ishwari makes his mom insecure and her statements to him gives a hint of this insecurity to Dev )

Dev felt sad because he couldn't go with his mom like every year...but he also had to be with his wife...and to top it all he didn't like the statement that after marriage things have changed. He understood that his mom was sad and had to give in for Sona's needs .

As usual our Dev babu came running to discuss his mind with his wife and best friend...what he saw - a sleeping Sona ... the way he looks towards the door trying to figure out what his mom told , he then picked the one that sounded logical...that he needs to take care of his wife as she is now his responsibility ... then you see him adjusting the blanket...and touches her hair... sits next to her ...the next scene is the most beautiful one...sensing his presence ...tired Sona keeps her head on his lap - WOW !! did he expect that ?? Nope !!

( Note : Dev when in need of care /love or emotionally weak, he does the same thing with his mom...keep his head on his mom's lap...but we never got to see anyone in his family keeping their head on his lap )

Can I say "it's a role reversal"😊

Now he has someone who needs his care , affection and support...he seemed a lil out of place...but remembers his mom's words again...keeps his hand on Sona's head as if he was telling her that I will be there always...and is thoughtful abt the balance that he will need to make in future...

I guess from here on...starts another new journey of our DevAkshi ...Dev's acceptance of Sona as his family, as someone whom he needs to protect just like any of his family members...till now She was his but he has never considered her as a part of his family. The effect of mom's advice is what we saw next morning , him feeding her . He wasn't shy / guilty ( unlike the previous night ) to tell his mom that he had breakfast with Sona. He was following his mom's advice , he needs to take care of his wife too.😉😆

( Ishwari's previous night statement backfires 🤣...she thought that when she talks abt changes after marriage he will feel guilty , but fortunately Dev's take on the statement was way different from what his mom wanted ...I would say its Karma 👏)

Now the question is would we get to see a weak and typical Sas Bahu serial kind of DIL in Sona?? I don't think so...her statement to Dev, in her fairy tale she sees him to feed her and make her strong so that she can fight her battles alone...

is that a hint to the future track ?? Don't know ...one thing is understood from the breakfast scene that from now on ,her strength lies in emotional support he is going to give her . And the battles will be fought by her along with his silent and emotional support!!

I am not sure what is that one thing which will make Dev accept Sona as a part of their family. Or is it going to be multiple incidents...more of a slow journey...?? Not sure ...but whatever it is I am going to leave it to the CVs...I hope as usual they will surprise us ...

I am loving this show...and I am loving the way characters Dev and
Sona are shaping for their next journey...🤗 ❤️ ❤️ 🤗

This is my POV...would love to hear more abt the same from you all.

Edited by WeRockTheWorld - 9 years ago

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cscs

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Posted: 9 years ago

That was the best scene for me in yesterday's episode, may be because i wanted it. Well Ishwari's dialogue of changes after marriage were enough to take Dev into a guilt trip. He didn't liked it when his mom says everything is changing. He never wanted anything to change and his expressions showed that how much worried he was about this change. As rightly said by swayam shekhwat, that change is the only constant and its high time that Dev should accept it and move forward with it. Just like Ishwari he also needs to accept these changes with smile. He should not feel guilty which his mother wants him to be.

When he went to his room, he was packed with emotions and as you rightly pointed out he understood that sona is his responsibility. It will indeed mark lot of things in Devakshi's relationship. And next day he fed her breakfast without feeling guilty and even told his mom with a happy face.

Sona's conversations with Dev was significant in many ways. One she is no damsel in distress and she will need his support to solve her problems and not him to solve her problems. Two, in future tracks, Devakshi relationship will go through tough times, and Dev's support will make her strong to fight with those problems.

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WeRockTheWorld

@WeRockTheWorld

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: cscs
That was the best scene for me in yesterday's episode, may be because i wanted it. Well Ishwari's dialogue of changes after marriage were enough to take Dev into a guilt trip. He didn't liked it when his mom says everything is changing. He never wanted anything to change and his expressions showed that how much worried he was about this change. As rightly said by swayam shekhwat, that change is the only constant and its high time that Dev should accept it and move forward with it. Just like Ishwari he also needs to accept these changes with smile. He should not feel guilty which his mother wants him to be.

When he went to his room, he was packed with emotions and as you rightly pointed out he understood that sona is his responsibility. It will indeed mark lot of things in Devakshi's relationship. And next day he fed her breakfast without feeling guilty and even told his mom with a happy face.

Sona's conversations with Dev was significant in many ways. One she is no damsel in distress and she will need his support to solve her problems and not him to solve her problems. Two, in future tracks, Devakshi relationship will go through tough times, and Dev's support will make her strong to fight with those problems.

@ BOLD ...so true...regarding Dev's support during future track, we will need see if he will openly support her or will it silent one !!

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randommusings

@randommusings

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Posted: 9 years ago

Let me start by saying that this was the best scene of the episode. I felt this time Dev didn't feel guilty abt spending time with Sona, he instead was sad that his mother starts questioning his loyalties and priorities towards his mother n sisters whenever such situation arise when he chose to spend time with his wife. I think he has started noticing that Ish doesn't like when he chose Sona over Ish or his family.

When he entered the room, he was pretty disturbed about it, maybe he wantes to share his pain with Sona but when he sees Sona is sleeping, the next best thing to do other than sharing his pain, is to take care of her. But when she realises his presence, n keeps her head on his lap without even opening her eyes, Dev feels loved. Maybe he realises, Sona never doubts his love or demands anything from him. He is happy to see her finding comfort in his lap. Sona is just happy to be with him, no demands, no conditions, just love.

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Cspcheziyan

@Cspcheziyan

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Posted: 9 years ago

I am not tired of sying again &again it's a brilliant and meaningful post..
After sr he began to understand her in a different dimention &realized her every efforts to be a part of his family. .that's a first step in his martial life.

Now may be this is the second step he took her as his responsibility without any cliche and guilt. Now openly he will care for her shows his love for her and that will create more fear in Ishwari's heart..hmm let's wait and watch what will unfold for us ..

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Cspcheziyan

@Cspcheziyan

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: randommusings
Let me start by saying that this was the best scene of the episode. I felt this time Dev didn't feel guilty abt spending time with Sona, he instead was sad that his mother starts questioning his loyalties and priorities towards his mother n sisters whenever such situation arise when he chose to spend time with his wife. I think he has started noticing that Ish doesn't like when he chose Sona over Ish or his family.
When he entered the room, he was pretty disturbed about it, maybe he wantes to share his pain with Sona but when he sees Sona is sleeping, the next best thing to do other than sharing his pain, is to take care of her. But when she realises his presence, n keeps her head on his lap without even opening her eyes, Dev feels loved. Maybe he realises, Sona never doubts his love or demands anything from him. He is happy to see her finding comfort in his lap. Sona is just happy to be with him, no demands, no conditions, just love.

Wowww this is another beautiful view... I read and read again and cherishing it...super likes..

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Tamalika Basu

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Posted: 9 years ago

Main Nehi khelungi...😭😭😭

sab mera post pahle hi post kar rahe hoon...

1st Joyti now U...

Khatti...😡

Drama khatam..nehi.. sab meri maan ki likh diya...

chalo mera time and hath bach aya typing se...😆😆

Bang Bang.. Carry on😃

Come to post..

I agreed with U each of sentences..

Dev will now become more responsible to Sona..He sad about Ishwari but not about Sona.. He knows she too need him.😳

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fanktlk

@fanktlk

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Posted: 9 years ago

What a nice perspective. I was glad he didn't go and sit and press his mom's feet in guilt like always. But acknowledged that even if he didn't like it. Things had changed and he had to equally prioritise his wife.

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Ferdous_69

@Ferdous_69

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Posted: 9 years ago

Brilliant post dear...
Excellent analysis 👏

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pkbdas61

@pkbdas61

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Posted: 9 years ago

#10

Could not agree more. In fact, i had stated the same in the original post ... Dev has not accepted Sona as a part of his family yet.. one to be protected at all costs and one to be put up with at all costs.

Elaborating further, Sona is a part of him.. and he is a person who has been sacrificing all along for all his family members.. Deep down, because he has accepted that He and Sona are one, he expects Sona to put up with his family members just the way he does.. It is about sacrifices, sometimes meaningless ones... He becomes raving mad, when it comes to protecting "his" family. He does not mind if he gets insulted in the process.

if one were to go back in time to the earlier episodes, he could do anything to get Sona to be his mom's nutritionist.. he never bothered if he was insulted or not.. Like Sona asking him to leave her office and wait for his turn.. or Sona's taunts at him that he is mannerless. what mattered the most was his objective of getting things for his family, even at the cost of his own self-respect.

Unfortunately, Sona is just that little different.. she is probably more sacrificing (like giving her last note to Saurabh for his interview - her purse is shown empty) but evaluates where it is worth, unlike Dev. She cannot put up with meaningless demands.. it is this that may be going to cause rifts between Dev and Sona..

I also termed the episode yesterday as ""intermission"", meaning that i foresee the second half starting... i think we are heading towards the promo where Dev and Sona are seated at the table outdoors and Dev tells Sona - Ma, is rishta se kabhi kush nahi rahegi...The signs of it are seen where Dev has, of late, been shown to be pondering at some of the words of his mother.. he is forming an impression for sure that Ishwari is not happy with his relationship with Sona.. but the reality may be actually different.. again, going to show that decisions of the heart are taken by the head. He is being lead by his head and not his heart...

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