What is more logical????

Hello friends,

I am a very silent reader here in the forum but love to read the wonderful posts from beautiful writers. I need ur views about today's episode. Being a married woman and living in a joint family it was very much natural for Neha to feel bad even the way Sona and Dev brought the shopping and sharing it with everyone, it was such a natural feeling that Ish portray when she went to her room and start fixing her sareesand that face of Neha came infront of her (supriya ji love n respect).
Apart from what they been through what I was expecting is being from such a cute and understaning family Sonakshi should come forward and made Dev realize that we can extend our HM since it is not a small issue that Neha left her house and came to her mother's house. Whatever the reasons behind it. Living in a joint family you have to give in so much and the love and care come more and more automatically from your partner.

Yeah if Ish is making Neha an excuse that something different but throughout the episode what i felt a geninue mother's feeling when she was keep seen Neha's face.

I never been in a situation like Neha in her childhood but i met some ppl who has the same background and they literally think they lost so much in there life and they have right over everything (dont want to judge anyone as i can never feel the way they felt).

Dev being dev didnt think over and ok with being her sister leaving her susral and living here. And he is going to make another mistake by not concerning this matter with his wife and take a decision by not going to the HM( typical men).

Sorry not a very good writer but wanted to write my thoughts as somewhere i felt Dev and Sona were not that considerate and unintentionally look over the currnet sitiation in the house.
Sometimes you dont have to know all the situation in the susral, ur presence only is the key to make them understand that u will always be there.
Need ur views so please share ur thoughts and please no bashing I love Devakshi and will always love them and who was looking forward for HM more than me.

Neha was I'm a position to make her life a success when dev became rich...instead of grieving for luxuries she could have gotten an education or develope some kind of talent...make her life useful instead if feeling sorry for herself...we always have choices and options is what we do with it is the problem... And I don't see y dev must not go to HM...both neha and ishwarie are the same...selfish...

Neha was shortchanged by Ishwari when she was young. But she had every opportunity to better herself over the last five years since Dev made it in life. All she had to do was ask, And Dev would have laid a golden path for her. Instead, she chose to fill her heart with hatred against her brother and she fed that hatred with more venom and immense care. (That Neha is a straight shooter and she loves her sisters are her biggest strengths)

The fact that you said that sometimes you have to make compromises in Sasural says the double standard of the society. Because it's quite obvious that here the sacrifice is not on the husband's part since it's his family, not Sasural.

i partially agree with u..wt ever u said abt neha its true she is feeling like she has lost everything but what i feel is eswari should make her understand and she should spend some quality time with her daughter..i dont think eswari intentions r genuine bcoz she never asked neha abt her problems in her sasural she never spend time with her she always cares abt dev and always waiting for dev ..her concern (its her insecurities) abt neha is a drama to create problems in devakshi honeymoon..feel sad for dev dont he deserve happiness?is it a sin to go honeymoon?y always eswari blames dev y cant she and her brother take the responsibility to solve neha's issue..he is not going for long only for 15 days after returning she should ask him na?i really hate eswari if neha feels jealous abt devakshi its her mother's duty to make her understand that dev had worked very hard to provide happiness for his family and he also lost his childhood so has the right to be happy atleast now

I dont think you saw the episode properly - (please do not take offense of that).

I was born and brought up in a joint family ...and got married ( love marraige ) to a nuclear family with just parents and their single child ..their son...so I also undertand how possessive Indian families are when it comes to "sons" .not juts mother even father...so I understand what you are trying to potray...

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

I was born and brought up in a joint family ...and got married ( love marraige ) to a nuclear family with just parents and their single child ..their son...so I also undertand how possessive Indian families are when it comes to "sons" .not juts mother even father...so I understand what you are trying to potray...

Dev and Sona avoiding their honeymoon is not going to solve Neha's issues. Its been days since she has come home...not a single person thought of calling her inlaws and trying to understand what the situation was and what happened...one needs to hear both sides...not just your sisters side ...she could also be wrong ...to correct her is your responsibility as a family...in a joint family if a girl comes home this way ...no one is going to wait this long to figure out...

Sona she comes from a completely different culture and family upbringing ...if it was her parents in place of Ishwari they would have asked these two to be a lil subtle abt their excitement and still asked them to go for HM...because to make one child happy you dont destroy other childs happiness..that is not rt...as a parent it is your responsibility to see that all your children are treated equally.

Ishwari , destroyed Neha's childhood for Dev...now she is destroying Dev's adulthood for Neha!! that is NOT the rt way...

The problem is with women like Ishwari, they like their son's more because they feel secured , emotionally , financially etc...Ishwari is not a righteous person...she wants happiness for her daughter then she has to help her find it but not by destroying someone else's daughters dream and life...

Beti ko sab chahte hai, per yeh beti jab bahu ban jathi hain to uske armanon ka gala kot dethe hai...chahe vo Neha ho ya Sona !!

Isnt my statment rt...Ishwari,Dev and Neha wants every thing rt for Neha and thinks what ever Ranveer and his family have done to their Neha is not rt...they are not encouraging Neha to adjust to the new family...but what is Dev and his mom doing to Sona?? They want Sona to adjust and accept them and their family issues...but Neha shouldnt at her in laws place ??!!

That is what we are looking at in KRPKAB!!

PS: I still feel Neha was married to a good family , it is Sona who is at the worst end...I have sincere pity for Sona...and I also blame her to be in this situation...she shouldnt have got married to Dev untill he had come and begged her to do so...

Great post dear.Nice to see some one who could really write the experience rather than assumptions.

Originally posted by: OmNaMaSteOm

I dont think you saw the episode properly - (please do not take offense of that).

Ishwari's expressions and dialogues both indicate towards how to separate Dev and Sonakshi

1. Why make Dusshera and Dev's favourite food ? - wont Neha feel bad ?

2. Ishwari complains how to stay without Dev for 15 days - where is the concern for Neha here ? its only about I, ME, MySelf.

3. Ishwari's expressions when DevAkshi were showing their shopping - was not of concern was of jealousy - she wanted to go shopping with Dev, why take Sonakshi along!

There are so many other ways to portray concern for Neha other than cancelling the HoneyMoon - I dont see genuine effort from Ishwari.

Neha is just a cover up of concern to show her underlying jealousy nothing else. Neha - the concern shield thats it.

Like how Bijoy and Asha were concerned about Saurabh's financial condition- one is angry one is sympathetic - both are concerned.