24thoct. 3 words - Page 2

Originally posted by: mena_k

Neha's feeling is totally understandable. Even though it was her knowing what she could or could not do after marrying Ranveer, but seeing someone doing things which she ever wanted in life does hurt. she is more connecting herself with Sona, who is all planning, cheerful and happy for doing things she wanted. She is simply not even talking or thinking about her brother here, but her concern is primarily with Sona.
Now Ishwari hit the jackpot knowing Neha is sad and she used it for her benefit (how can she live apart and away from Dev for 15 days). Dev took the right decision of not going on HM at this time. However he should have atleast told Sona when he decided on it. Its not about talking about it with Sona but rather courtesy of informing.

Originally posted by: dsr11

Actually Neha was always clear about what she wanted from marriage, but Ranveer failed at giving her what he promised her. On top of it, he has a problem when Neha accepts help from her brother, as if her sacrifice didn't have any value. No matter what one says, it's not easy to be cheerful in such a situation. She actually tries to be happy for them, she said so too. When she couldn't act cheerful, she just went to her room. She cannot just turn her life around, because her self worth is so low. She is deprived of education and her contribution in making dixits what they are is never acknowledged. It's always about the mother and son. Dev will never see his mother's faults. Sona sees every situation in that house differently, so she is their only hope.

Originally posted by: ashakd

Hi there,

enjoyed reading your the posts and the comments to follow.

Hiya! I am also enjoying analysing the show with fellow viewers

Ishwari and Neha - the mother -daughter combo pin up, which people should watch and say naaahhh!!!! never be like that. They are nothing but a disaster. There is always a rule in parenting which says, support and guide your child. As a parent you should know when to support and when to guide when mistakes have been done. Neha lacks guidance, and has got the support at the wrong time.

What confuses me is that up to the day Neha came back, Ishwari was always guiding her so well. I was hoping they will show some Asha-Sona scenes like that. Ishwari has said some very sensible things about Ranvir and his family. Her words "Pyar main apne aap ko kho dena" were music to the ears. She is simply using Neha as a bait to bring Dev right back into the Guilt-duty dungeon. I am so surprised (given the previous track record), that even when Neha has asked them not to speak to anyone, Ishwari hasn't asked Dev to call Ranvir. She told Mamaji that she needs to take matters in her own hands, however, all she has done is nursed her own wounds since Dev got married.

Ishwari -Dev: its a surprise that the same parent has so much of advise, suggestion and guidance to provide to Dev and with Neha, she is nil???😲

Children are trained and educated until they are 18 years and after that they need to take off. What ever mistakes they make, after that is their fault and not their parents.

Ishwari as a mother as a single parent is a BIG FAILURE.

umm.. not so sure. Ishwari has instilled some very good virtues in her kids. She is very apologetic for Neha's condition and was ever so thankful that atleast Ranvir made her smile because she knew Neha had shut her mother out of her life. Where Ishwari is failing now is that she is not realising that Dev wanted to be successful for himself and he wanted to be rich for his family. She is not realising that Dev has started living life only now that he has found love. She is failing to acknowledge (she very well knows this) that just like Ranvir brought happiness to Neha, Sona brought happiness to Dev. In a lot of ways, her parenting was no different with Neha and Dev. Both the kids were burdened with a sense of duty. Dev was given an education which is what Neha lacked. But her parenting was the same and I suppose their circumstances meant that was the only option she had

Neha has choosen the route of SELF PITY. Then nothing can be done and I wish, Sona doesnt even attempt to help her, because Neha may accept it now, will later blame her, saying you forced me.

That's just story being built. Totally expect a 'I am so sorry bhabhi' track anytime soon(after the divorce-with-ranvir) .

My only complaint is with the cvs, that one writer needs to get into the skin of IShwari's character and then write her dialogues and story.

Currently there is a lot of zig zaging, week by week, and 25 days post wedding, there is no story growth 👎🏼

The story hasnt moved, but the colours have gone darker. The colour of love, guilt, sacrifice, jealousy, insecurity - they are all so vibrant and dark now. I no more go to bed happy (like I did 100 episodes ago). I now go to bed deep in my thoughts

PS: I like your user name. I call my youngest daughter drama queen. She is my non stop entertainer at home. 😃

Thanks :) I am a drama queen

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Quite the opposite aparajita. Today was amazing. I am waiting to see will Ishwari stoop any lower or will this be enough to bring Sona into action. Will sona finally see how badly her husband is suffocated or will she again fall for his puppy face? Will she realise how little she knows him and how badly this man needs help? Because I know one thing, she is done playing bahu-bahu