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thedramaqueen

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Posted: 8 years ago

For 4uck sake Neha.

This is crazy. Again well acted you all. She came across amazingly selfish and Ishwari as always dragged Dev back into the guilt-duty cage. Unless Sona does something different this time, the story hasn't moved since the day he broke up with her.

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen
For 4uck sake Neha.
This is crazy. Again well acted you all. She came across amazingly selfish and Ishwari as always dragged Dev back into the guilt-duty cage. Unless Sona does something different this time, the story hasn't moved since the day he broke up with her.

I'm done with this show. It's gone to a space where I avoid television, nothing new for me!! Ishwari's creepiness is too much to bear.

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thedramaqueen

@thedramaqueen

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: aparajita.s

I'm done with this show. It's gone to a space where I avoid television, nothing new for me!! Ishwari's creepiness is too much to bear.

Quite the opposite aparajita. Today was amazing. I am waiting to see will Ishwari stoop any lower or will this be enough to bring Sona into action. Will sona finally see how badly her husband is suffocated or will she again fall for his puppy face? Will she realise how little she knows him and how badly this man needs help? Because I know one thing, she is done playing bahu-bahu

Edited by thedramaqueen - 8 years ago

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thedramaqueen

@thedramaqueen

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Posted: 8 years ago

Dixits and Boses are so different. Boses are going through a similar if not a worse crunch. They hold their chin up and March on. While the Dixits mope around feeling sorry for themselves. Dev Dixit will give in to the guilt while Sonakshi Bose will want to fight.

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dsr11

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen
For 4uck sake Neha.
This is crazy. Again well acted you all. She came across amazingly selfish and Ishwari as always dragged Dev back into the guilt-duty cage. Unless Sona does something different this time, the story hasn't moved since the day he broke up with her.

Jealousy is a normal human emotion and Neha had quite a lot of reasons to feel that. I don't see her as a materialistic person. I think she is actually trying to fill the void she feels in her life due to not getting neither love nor opportunities until now, with these materialistic things. She might have thought that marriage is a ticket out of madhouse and on top of it Ranveer loved her. She dreamed of having her own home, a place where she can have freedom to do anything she wants without having to consult her mother or brother, a place where she can experience love without any burden of responsibilities. Broken dreams hurt a lot and there is nothing wrong if Neha is mourning her life. But Eeshwari in her twisted mind, tangled up Neha's problems with her own obsession for Dev and cooked up perfect way to enslave Dev even more. Sona will probably not react in anger this time.

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thedramaqueen

@thedramaqueen

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: dsr11

Jealousy is a normal human emotion and Neha had quite a lot of reasons to feel that. I don't see her as a materialistic person. I think she is actually trying to fill the void she feels in her life due to not getting neither love nor opportunities until now, with these materialistic things. She might have thought that marriage is a ticket out of madhouse and on top of it Ranveer loved her. She dreamed of having her own home, a place where she can have freedom to do anything she wants without having to consult her mother or brother, a place where she can experience love without any burden of responsibilities. Broken dreams hurt a lot and there is nothing wrong if Neha is mourning her life. But Eeshwari in her twisted mind, tangled up Neha's problems with her own obsession for Dev and cooked up perfect way to enslave Dev even more. Sona will probably not react in anger this time.

Jealousy is a normal human emotion. But to not have the decency to he happy for a brother who is ready to give an arm and a leg for your happiness is obnoxious. Neha is in an unfortunate situation. She has a lot of options right now. She could ask her brother to help her stand on her 2 feet. She could choose to be happy even when she is (for her own reasons) upset with her husband. She needs to make the most of what she has. I won't even go down the "she always knew" path. We all knew she will break up with ranvir. Just like Dev, neha too wasn't ready for a relationship (thanks to their past and some of Ishwari's parenting too). Ranvir isn't as strong as Sona (although I don't know how long sona will bear this madness). It's okay to grieve. It's okay to feel sorry for oneself. However, it's also important to show some gratitude. Gratitude towards that one human being in your life who has started smiling only now because of Sona. Neha needs to count her blessings and she doesn't need to look far for a role model. Her own mother should be her biggest example. Atleast Ishwari was a pillar of strength for 20 years for her kids.

Let alone being happy for her bhai and bhabhi's vacation, she doesn't even have basic manners to go and help her bhabhi in the kitchen when serving food. Neha not only lacks class, she also lacks an education. Education that her mother should have given her.

I totally get her attitude towards money and comforts. But if anything, she needs sona more than ever now.

Edited by thedramaqueen - 8 years ago

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dsr11

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

Jealousy is a normal human emotion. But to not have the decency to he happy for a brother who is ready to give an arm and a leg for your happiness is obnoxious. Neha is in an unfortunate situation. She has a lot of options right now. She could ask her brother to help her stand on her 2 feet. She could choose to be happy even when she is (for her own reasons) upset with her husband. She needs to make the most of what she has. I won't even go down the "she always knew" path. We all knew she will break up with ranvir. Just like Dev, neha too wasn't ready for a relationship (thanks to their past and some of Ishwari's parenting too). Ranvir isn't as strong as Sona (although I don't know how long sona will bear this madness). It's okay to grieve. It's okay to feel sorry for oneself. However, it's also important to show some gratitude. Gratitude towards that one human being in your life who has started smiling only now because of Sona. Neha needs to count her blessings and she doesn't need to look far for a role model. Her own mother should be her biggest example. Atleast Ishwari was a pillar of strength for 20 years for her kids.

Let alone being happy for her bhai and bhabhi's vacation, she doesn't even have basic manners to go and help her bhabhi in the kitchen when serving food. Neha not only lacks class, she also lacks an education. Education that her mother should have given her.

I totally get her attitude towards money and comforts. But if anything, she needs sona more than ever now.

Actually Neha was always clear about what she wanted from marriage, but Ranveer failed at giving her what he promised her. On top of it, he has a problem when Neha accepts help from her brother, as if her sacrifice didn't have any value. No matter what one says, it's not easy to be cheerful in such a situation. She actually tries to be happy for them, she said so too. When she couldn't act cheerful, she just went to her room. She cannot just turn her life around, because her self worth is so low. She is deprived of education and her contribution in making dixits what they are is never acknowledged. It's always about the mother and son. Dev will never see his mother's faults. Sona sees every situation in that house differently, so she is their only hope.

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mena_k

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Posted: 8 years ago

Neha's feeling is totally understandable. Even though it was her knowing what she could or could not do after marrying Ranveer, but seeing someone doing things which she ever wanted in life does hurt. she is more connecting herself with Sona, who is all planning, cheerful and happy for doing things she wanted. She is simply not even talking or thinking about her brother here, but her concern is primarily with Sona.
Now Ishwari hit the jackpot knowing Neha is sad and she used it for her benefit (how can she live apart and away from Dev for 15 days). Dev took the right decision of not going on HM at this time. However he should have atleast told Sona when he decided on it. Its not about talking about it with Sona but rather courtesy of informing.

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Anisa

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Posted: 8 years ago

I agree it wasn't the right time for the honeymoon. But he could've talked to her about it. She would've understood. But by making her react in front of everyone, he's putting her at a disadvantage before all those who are waiting for her to trip and fall. Not very understanding of his wife. She's not his right hand that obeys, but an extra set of hands and legs that are walking with him.

Pasting from another thread:

Neha is the sort who'll always find reasons to be unhappy. When she was rich and wanted for nothing, she was unhappy. She fell in love and married him, she ended up not so rich, and unhappy. People like this need an eye opening event in their lives that gives them perspective and maturity. I feel her plight, but she is just stuck in her helplessness and waits to be given what she wants, without any effort.

I wish she'd just go out and get what she wants. Or try. It's never too late to learn skills. She's feisty and has stubborn determination, just needs a direction to channel it. Ishwari is not helping her at all. I have a feeling Neha will clash with Sona a little before taking strength from her, and achieving something. I just pray that Sona's first advice for her isn't " Go back to your husband"...

But Sona is a girl who got married. She's not meant to be a cure or medicine for all the ills of Dixit house. It has to be 2 way. What have the Dixits done for Sona, that she must fix all their problems?

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pkbdas61

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: thedramaqueen
For 4uck sake Neha.
This is crazy. Again well acted you all. She came across amazingly selfish and Ishwari as always dragged Dev back into the guilt-duty cage. Unless Sona does something different this time, the story hasn't moved since the day he broke up with her.

@BOLD - yes.. it is still stuck even after nearly 50 episodes thereafter.. no one seems to have learnt any lessons.. I am not liking his one-way street, impulsive, emotional decisions.

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