Ishwari is not as wrong as she is made out to be! - Page 5

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Yes a mother loves her child ...she remembers every moment of his/her growth...as children leave home , it pains her ...there is a vacant feeling in your heart...I see that every time me and my sis returns from our summer vacation...this year when I was packing to get back after the summer ...my mom came and sat next to me ...I knew what she was going thru...I see it every year ...but this time I did ask her..how she manages to adjust to this...she gave an answer that shocked me ...my love affection and respect grew for her a million times ...

I would like to share that answer...

When god blesses a child to you ...your duty is to bring up that child in the most rightful manner..teaching all social norms that you learnt...sharing experiences ...but always keep in mind god also gave this child wings...wings to fly and find its own life and nest..

You need to allow them to be who they are and give them the liberty to fly...and giving them chances to take risk and challenges...find their own experience ..

So be happy that you have bought them up well and they are living a beautiful life and was successful in making a happy nest for themselves...

After all that is what you wanted them to be... just because you bring them up doesnt mean that you should stop them flying to find their dream and life ...when you do that you are going against the essence of life...